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Guest Auzzi_teen_cook

hi

i could see an intro in the teens forum

so i posted here

anyway

my name is jeramy and i'm kinda confused

i keep changing my mind

i think i'm bi

but i'm not sure

i just need to talk some people my age(16)

and none of friends know

or parents

any bye

smiles :)

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Guest ~Brenda~

Welcome Welcome Welcome Auzzi

I am so glad that you joined us here at Laura's!!! Please come in and sit in our new members couch. Here hon have some cookies and cocoa. We are here for you and understand.

HUGS

bernii

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Guest joe0117

Hi Auzzi,

Welcome to Laura's Playground! It is a great place to meet new people, make new friends, and just be yourself. You don't have to figure everything out right now. You have found a place where everyone is supportive and understanding. Look around and ask questions! Welcome again!

Joe

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Welcome to the forums and you have come to the right place, we have a lot of people your age, they will be along pretty soon.

Love ya,

Sally

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Guest Clora

hello auzzie

im your age and know what your going thru, i went through it. if you have any questions feel free to ask :)

HUGS

arielle

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Guest Evan_J

Hola Jeramy (or do you like Auzzi better?) glad you made it here!

You might very well be "bi" but it'll have nothing to do with whether or not you're trans :huh: Confused yet?

If you are, take some time and read around about the differences between gender identity and sexual orientation.

In short, gender identity is which gender you feel you are whereas sexual orientation has to do with which gender you're attracted to. One doesn't dictate the other though. You could easily identify as being female (regardless of what body you're in) and yet be attracted to females. Or identify as being male and being attracted to males.

You can even identify as being both (Androgynous) and attracted to both ; an androgynous identity with a bisexual orientation.

Don't stress on the labels though, focus on just being you and in time it'll all get clear.

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Guest Elizabeth K

WELCOME WELCOME WELCOME

Jeramy - is that your prefered name? In any case - welcome to Laura's Playground. She named it that because she felt so many of us missed our true youth because we were so gender confused. Here we have a chance to meet others -and your young age is wonderful - there is a teen forum which is a place you have probably already found, so it is a great plce to talk. The young people there are super smart and really like to help everyone. You can post anywhere you want of course. There is a huge diversity of people, so look around. Sometimes it seems so large, but it is navigable... use 'view new posts' for the most active topics.

And your hesitation and you questioning nature is so typical here - and I do want to let you know we moderate the forum very tightly, so you will be safe. It is G-rated (Laura says PG-13), and people are non-judgemental.

So welcome and post a bunch - that's how we get to know you - and you get to know us.

Lizzy

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This is a transgender forum, and I am not sure if you are trans* or not (you didn't say), but this is a very friendly place and I am sure no one would turn you away if you have questions.

So far we know that you are possibly bisexual and that you are 16 years old looking for someone your own age to talk to. Well, look no further! We have tons of resources and information available here at Laura's. I myself am 15 years old and I am a male-to-female transgendered person. As Lizzy said above me, there are lots of teens here and we are all friendly and willing to help anyone in need.

If you are confused about the differences between Gender Identity, Sexual Orientation and Romantic Orientation, then you probably want to look for my post at the bottom of the first page of another introduction topic here: http://www.lauras-playground.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=8336

Welcome to Laura's and I hope you find what you are looking for!

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Guest Jessica22450

I'm Jessica yet another teen here, I'm 17 and Like you i've questioned but the more I learned, The more I've come to terms with myself. So look around and feel free to ask questions and post answers.

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