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Guest ~Nikki~

Hello everyone,

My name is Nikki, I am 43 years old, married for 12 years, I just told my wife 2 weeks ago I am a TS mtf. She took it hard, but is still with me.

I love her more than life itself, I can compromise with her to keep her. I don't want to lose her.

We have 5 young children. All under the ages of 12. They can't know, atleast not yet.

I feel I am a good person and caring and loving.

Please get to know me.

I want friends, I am looking for friends that live kind of close so we can meet and talk.

I live in a small town in Mid-Michigan.

Please hit me up. I am very talkitive when I get to know you.

Thank you,

Nikki

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Nikki, I'm not geographically close, but you are welcome to PM me any time.

I think our situations are similar. I have a family too, have considered myself a cross-dresser but now

I'm not so sure. I think I'm really MtF and plan on seeking therepy to confirm if its true.

We all need friends. That's what is so great about Laura's. Lots of friends here, and lots of love.

Carolyn Marie

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Nikki i think we talked in chat the day you told your wife, you were hoping she wouldn't throw you out, guess that hasn't happened, that's a plus.

I live in Cleveland, Ohio not too close either but you are free to im or pm me anytime.

HUGS!

Paula

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Guest Alyssa Leigh

Hi Nikki

Welcome to the playground everyone is so nice here so make yourself comfortable and more will be by soon to greet you. You can also PM me any time as well.

Alyssa

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Guest NeverSayNever

Hey

Welcome to Laura's, I hope you enjoy your stay here. We're all like one big family, we support each other all the time. So if you ever need help, you can always come here ^^

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Hi Nikki,

Let me officially welcome you to the forums by offering you some hot cocoa and some of my double chocolate chip coookies.

I am not geographically very close but I am also an MTF who is 57 and suddenly single again - I hope that your wife is more supportive than my ex.

Enjoy your time in the forums, it is a very friendly place.

Love ya,

Sally

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Guest Dionne

Hi Nikki,

Nice to see you again. It has been a pleasure talking to you in the chat room. It is a pleasure having you around. I have enjoyed listening to you. I hope you have as much fun here as I have. I have learned alot since finding this spot. Say hi anytime. Again welcome and hope you make many friends.

Hugs,

Dionn

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Guest brenda lee
Hello everyone,

My name is Nikki, I am 43 years old, married for 12 years, I just told my wife 2 weeks ago I am a TS mtf. She took it hard, but is still with me.

I love her more than life itself, I can compromise with her to keep her. I don't want to lose her.

We have 5 young children. All under the ages of 12. They can't know, atleast not yet.

I feel I am a good person and caring and loving.

Please get to know me.

I want friends, I am looking for friends that live kind of close so we can meet and talk.

I live in a small town in Mid-Michigan.

Please hit me up. I am very talkitive when I get to know you.

Thank you,

Nikki

Nikki , You are at the right place. Here we are all family and friends.LOL BrendaLee
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Guest ~Nikki~

Thankyou all, I do fel very wecome here.

I know it is going to be rough long road, but with support of you, my friends and sisters and brothers, my wife and I will have be together forever.

She s getting more suportive everyday. I truely do love her so much and cant bear the thought of ever losong her. She is helping me very mich now.

Along with all of you and her, I know I be the person I was meant to be. I just want to feel whole and happy, thats all any of us really wants.

Thankyou all again,

I hope to see you here and in the chat room.

Best wishes,

Nikki

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Guest BriannaM

Hey nikki, im new here in the forumns, so not sure how this works. we have talked many times, and like u have family that im out to. if u ever need me hon, feel free.

Bri

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Guest Mika N.

Hi Nikki! Nice to meet you and welcome. Unfortunatly I don't live close to you. I don't do too well in cold climates. I once visited my sister when she lived in Chicago and I froze my butt off. lol. Enjoy your time here. :)

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Guest ~Nikki~
Hello Nikki

Sorry I'm late, Welcome to the playground!

{HUGS}

Ashlee

Late, no girl, right on time.........

Thankyou for the welcome.

Please talk to me anytime.

I am a very open person.

I look forward to making wonderful friends, such as yourself.

*hugs back*

Nikki

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Guest ~Nikki~
Hi Nikki! Nice to meet you and welcome. Unfortunatly I don't live close to you. I don't do too well in cold climates. I once visited my sister when she lived in Chicago and I froze my butt off. lol. Enjoy your time here. :)

Hi Mika,

Thankyou, I will enjpy my time here.

I have been in the chat room a lot.

I am new here to forums.

You are a sweet person.

I understand the climate thing. I have always wanted to move to Texas.

It is a pleasure to meet you Mika,

Thankyou again,

Hugs

Nikki

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Guest Marissa Anastasia

Hi Nikki,

We talked in chat...I do consider you a friend. I'm sure by now you have forged many friendships. We're so glad to have you join our growing family....

Love,

Marissa

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Guest ~Brenda~

Hello Nikki

Welcome to the forums hon.

I would love to ge to know you and be friends.

To get to know me, you can start by looking at my profile

hugs

bernii

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Guest darlene lynn
Hello everyone,

My name is Nikki, I am 43 years old, married for 12 years, I just told my wife 2 weeks ago I am a TS mtf. She took it hard, but is still with me.

I love her more than life itself, I can compromise with her to keep her. I don't want to lose her.

We have 5 young children. All under the ages of 12. They can't know, atleast not yet.

I feel I am a good person and caring and loving.

Please get to know me.

I want friends, I am looking for friends that live kind of close so we can meet and talk.

I live in a small town in Mid-Michigan.

Please hit me up. I am very talkitive when I get to know you.

Thank you,

Nikki

HI girlfriend!! Im darlene lynnette I told my wife of 18yrs I was tg. MTF.. My advice is to let her know she can talk with you about it. And be honest with her and youself.. and let her know how much SHE really means to YOU.. My wife has known for 16years now so it can work out very well I consider my wife my best girlfriend..she doesnt always understand but we talk about everything openly even if she disagrees with me.. And we've been married 33yrs ..Oh yes welcome to the family.. And your wife can find support and answer here from other spouses.. and I'll bring coffee and sticky cinn rolls to the chat!! HOT out of OVEN

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