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Charlize

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  15 years ago i moved through the hallucinations that alcoholism was causing.  I hadn't had a drink yet and it was 9 in the evening.  I ended up hiding behind a pillar in a church basement for my first AA meeting.  I was unshaved, unwashed in a dirty shirt.  I am truly blessed to be alive and sober today.  I'm living a life beyond my wildest dreams being true to myself.  That would not been the case if i hadn't reached out for help.

 

Have a beautiful day!

 

Hugs,

 

Charlize

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Congratulations on 15 yeas sober!  I am happy that it allows you to live your true life now.

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That is a nice long string of "one days at a time" but it has worked for you and you have worked for it I am at 13 years and a number of months and sobriety is a way of life by now.  I guess we both can claim the Sobriety was a Transition alongside our other Transitions that have all improved our quality of life in big ways.  Happy Re birthday.

 

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Congratulations! I am giving you an imaginary 15 year coin and a hug.

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Congratulations Charlize. Glad to be hearing your experiences and being inspired by them.

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Congratulations, Charlize.  You are a shining example of courage and determination and wisdom.  Thanks for being here to help others.

 

HUGS

 

Carolyn Marie

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It's always a beautiful day when you are here!  Congratulations Charlize.

 

Big Hugs, 

Jani

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13 hours ago, Charlize said:

Have a beautiful day

Congratulations @Charlize I’m happy and proud of you. My father had a similar experience, and returned to being the better person he promised to be. 
 

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Mindy🐛🏳️‍⚧️🦋

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What a fantastic thing, Charlize! I'm glad you've found recovery, because you are such a beautiful person to have in the world.

 

Lots of love,

Timber Wolf🐾

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Happy Birthday Charlize! Glad you kept coming back to see the miracle.

 

Hugs!

Delcina

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