I want to come out

[LaurenA]

As the title says.  But because of all the people we honor today I am afraid to come out.  Today's event in Colorado Sprints is a clear indication as to why.  Because of incidences like this I'm afraid to be myself in public.  I have come out in a very safe space withe good results but in general the world is too scary for me.  I guess I'm a coward.

 

[KathyLauren]

It is a tough call.  On the one hand, you have to look out for your own safety.  On the other hand, what makes society safer is more of us being out and "normalizing" the presence of trans people in the world.

 

In my country, the balance at the moment favours being out and normalizing a trans presence.  That could change, and that prospect scares me.  Which is why I am out: to help make being trans so normal that the haters get no traction.

 

But, you live in a different country, one that I am scared to enter.  So I totally get your hesitation to come out.  In your position, I might make the same choice.

 

I can't give you advice.  This is such a personal decision, and one with a potentially high risk.  All I can do is to offer you support for whatever you decide to do.

[Daniel Invictus]

You are not a coward. I want that wholly and inescapably clear. You are the only constant in your life, and it is in no way wrong or bad to prioritize your safety. In fact, it's one of the best things you can do. The best advice I ever received was, "You gotta take care of you." If now is not the right time for you, then it's not. We always say in this community to make sure you are safe before coming out. I know that's usually aimed at teens who could get kicked out, but it's for all of us. Do what's best for you, and everything else will follow.

*hugs*

[Trans22]

My transition, in regional Australia, has been a bit of a fairy tale.  I will be very selective in regards to future international travel plans.  USA is definitely not on my radar at the moment.  Canada is looking very attractive as a destination though.