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Two Books by British Authors


Karen Carey

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There are two books that I would recommend, neither of which, as far as I can see, has been mentioned here before. Both are autobiographies by British authors.

The first is called ‘Yes, You Are Trans Enough: My Transition from Self-Loathing to Self-Love’ by Mia Violet.  Mia is a bisexual trans woman who came out in her mid twenties, once she realised that she was trans enough. She documents her growing up as a kid who was bullied and never fitted in. She tried, unsuccessfully, to come out at the age of 14, but she did not have the knowledge or language to understand why. It is a very personal account, narrated with humour, taking on the inaccuracies of trans representation in the media. She is a blogger and is very active online.

The second is ‘True Colours’ by Caroline Paige - the first openly transgender officer in the British Armed Forces.  Caroline entered the RAF in 1980, and, after officer training, went to the Air Navigation School, some 10 years after I had been an instructor there.  She served with distinction on air defence F4s and later on helicopters, operating in Bosnia, Iraq and Afghanistan.  There is a lot of detail about flying in those theatres, and there is a lot of detail about the struggles that she had hiding her gender identity. In 1999 she came out while it was still illegal (under military law) for transgender personnel to serve. Some time before, the law had been changed so that LG could serve, but not T.  The book documents the struggle that she had to overcome her gender identity, and to be accepted. It is very much a story of courage and resilience. After retiring, Caroline helped start the UK military charity ‘Fighting With Pride’, for which she is Chief Executive. I have written a little about this charity in the Military Veterans’ Forum.

 

Karen Carey

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Thank you Karen,

 

My nightstand is filling up with books to read.

 

Hugs,

 

Mindy🐛🏳️‍⚧️🦋

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