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Bdolfan1964

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Hi all!

i have just discovered my love of wearing woman’s clothing and painting my toes . I love to feel girly and adorable. Thank his is all new to me at 57 and I’m looking for community. I’m m feeling like I’m the only one 

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Welcome to our community. You are surely not alone - and will find lots of resources and amazing people here. Jump into the conversations, ask questions, and enjoy.

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Hi @Bdolfan1964! and Welcome!
As April said - You are not alone - and you will discover the more you explore.

Many of us here (me included) started with the well-being created by cross-dressing.  Whether a lifelong endeavor (or re-discovery), or something you just realized - it can be either the fulfillment you've been looking for, or just the first step in a longer journey destination.  Everybody's unique.

Regardless ... Happy you have joined us!

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I’m new to cross dressing, and just really love the feeling.

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Welcome Dilly

Sometimes we find that it's more than crossdressing.

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8 minutes ago, Ivy said:

Welcome Dilly

Sometimes we find that it's more than crossdressing.

Thanks!  Are you a CD?

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12 hours ago, Dilly453 said:

I’m new to cross dressing, and just really love the feeling.

Welcome, Dilly!! I think that what @Ivy was saying is that many of us who are trans found crossdressing as a way to physically express ourselves (male or female) early on before we gained an understanding of our real gender identities. I know that was the case for me. I assumed I was a CD - which is perfectly wonderful -  but found over time that dressing was just the bandage over top of the real issue and that I needed to find myself beyond the clothes. But, I still love the look of a pretty outfit and shoes. 🙂

 

We are so glad you found us. There is a wealth of information here and so many amazing people. Each of us is unique, yet we share much in common. 

 

Jump in where you are comfortable.

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Yeah, like April Marie said, I first "crossdressed" in my late 60's, and that was when my egg cracked.  It only took about a week for me to realize I was actually transgender.  I had been in denial - refusing to accept her - for most of my life.

But I realize that's not everyone's experience.

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Thank you both for your comments!  I’m very new to this.  I’m only able to present female rarely, but get such a thrill and feel exhilarated every time I do.  I wish I could more often.  I feel like I’m female most of the time, but not sure that I could fully transition, although I do fantasize about it.

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10 hours ago, April Marie said:

... I think that what @Ivy was saying is that many of us who are trans found crossdressing as a way to physically express ourselves (male or female) early on before we gained an understanding of our real gender identities. I know that was the case for me. I assumed I was a CD - which is perfectly wonderful -  but found over time that dressing was just the bandage over top of the real issue and that I needed to find myself beyond the clothes.

This! 

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Late 60s for me too Ivy but prior to that moment I hadn't a notion of what was coming.Looking back I can see a lot of little things pointing in that direction.

Welcome Bdolfan and Dilly.I hope journey is kind to you

Love Keera

 

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32 minutes ago, Keera said:

Looking back I can see a lot of little things pointing in that direction.

There were people that had suspicions.  But I was in denial, big time.

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1 hour ago, Keera said:

Looking back I can see a lot of little things pointing in that direction.

 

Now at age 53, I see a lot of threads winding their way through my whole life... didn't really see it as such along the way... now it makes more sense... 

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16 hours ago, EasyE said:

Now at age 53, I see a lot of threads winding their way through my whole life... didn't really see it as such along the way... now it makes more sense... 

Breadcrumbs, breadcrumbs...

 

It seems like I'll be in denial forever, yet here I am.

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