New Year, New Hair?

[awkward-yet-sweet]

The more comfortable I get in my boy form, the shorter my hair has gotten.  When I was first with my GF (years ago) I had long hair.  For the last couple of years I've had a kind of fluffy pixie cut.  The sort of thing that "emo" boys wear, but that girls wear too.  Fluffy all over.  But I'm thinking of cutting the sides close now.  This one keeps the top fairly long:

https://www.hadviser.com/non-binary-androgynous-haircuts/19/

 

And this one takes it way shorter:

https://www.hadviser.com/non-binary-androgynous-haircuts/16/

 

I'm leaning toward the shorter one, but I'm not sure how far I can push it with my partners (especially GF.)  I guess since hair grows pretty quickly, the difference between the two styles wouldn't take much more than a month or two to grow back?  Thoughts? 

[LittleSam]

Go with what you want. It's about what makes you happy. It's only a haircut, your partners will have to accept you, it's unfair not to. I bet after having that short hair you will feel fantastic. I absolutely love having my hair really short. I've shaved my hair to a half sides and back and a 3 on top. It's military style and it makes me feel like me. Usually I have at least a 6 on top and spike it up a bit with wax. I get the odd annoying comment from work colleagues that's it's too short and they prefer me with my hair longer, but it doesn't bother me now, they are acquaintances and shouldn't be commenting on my hair. What they really mean is that girls shouldn't have hair that short. Well that's what I got from it. I chose to think screw it, because I'm not a girl anyway, I'm not binary and I love my short hair. Be brave and go with your gut. Good luck