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Please Pray for My Momma (Sorry, I know this is not technically Trans related)


Charleigh Dakota

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Im sorry to put sad news out but I need my friends to pray for my momma please. Here is the most recent Facebook post by my stepdad about my momma (which I have just begin to finally grow close to after 48 years)....

 

Hello everyone. They have just taken Jane down to surgery to have a chest tube placed into her gallbladder because she is not strong enough for that surgery. Please pray 🙏 for everything to go smoothly. This is one step closer going forward to her recovery. Her heart is weak with a blockage of 95% but she is too weak for surgery again. It looks like the internal bleeding has subsided for now. I will keep everyone updated as I can. Thanks again for your love and prayers during this difficult time.

 

His text to me said "They told us last night that she was not going to make it. That she was too critical. But everyone started praying from everywhere and this morning she had improved somewhat. She is still critical with a lot of problems. The problem is they cant do the surgeries that she needs because she had another heart attack and it damaged the heart. They are getting ready to take her to the OR to put in a chest tube into her gallbladder to drain the infection and to restore blood flow. Her heart has a 95% blockage so they cant even fix that. She is bleeding internally and has been given 2 transfusions. Her leg was turning blue and they had to cut her neck open and install an open portal for large doses of meds."

 

Love,

Charleigh

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@Charlie Dakotayou and your family are in my prayers as you move forward with whatever happens. 
 

Mindy🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼

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Healing Blessings to all of you.  At this time in your mother's experience of life, her distress weighs heavily on all of you.  Healing for relationships, Healing for memories, Healing for fear of journeys ahead for all of you.

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I'm so sorry.  I hope things get better so she can receive the needed surgeries.  Always difficult when there's more steps to take ahead of the steps you wish could be taken immediately.  😢

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Praying for Jane, love. I'm so sorry she's going through all that. 

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On 2/3/2024 at 10:53 AM, Charlie Dakota said:

I need my friends to pray for my momma please.

@Charlie Dakota, I will keep you and your mom in my prayers. I hope the procedure went well and her recovery is smooth. Please keep us updated.

 

*Big Hugs*

Susan R🌷

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Charlie,

 

I hope things go a bit better for your Momma. It is tough seeing them so fragile and struggling. If she is a GRIT (Girl Raised In the South), she may be tougher than anybody thinks. Prayers for both of you. 

 

Sincerely

Katie

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Everyone, thank you so very much for all your kind words, loving support and thoughts and prayers for my momma. She is still not doing very good but they are at least talking about moving her from ICU to Intermediate Care....so it seems she has improved somewhat but still very far from okay. Please continue sending thoughts and prayers for my momma!! Thank you so much everyone!! I love you all!! ❤️ 

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Thank you for the update. Continued prayers for you and your family. 
 

Mindy🌈🐛🏳️‍⚧️🦋

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Well that is definitely to get out of the ICU. Continuing of prayers most definitely!

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UPDATE: My mom is back home from the hospital, though she is still very weak and has a long road ahead of her. Thank you all again for all the love, support, thoughts and prayers!! Yall are the best non-family family ever!! ❤️ 

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4 minutes ago, Charlie Dakota said:

UPDATE: My mom is back home from the hospital, though she is still very weak and has a long road ahead of her. Thank you all again for all the love, support, thoughts and prayers!! Yall are the best non-family family ever!! ❤️ 

This is such amazing news, Charlie!!! I will keep the prayers coming!!

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That's wonderful, Charleigh. She'll be in my continuing prayers. 

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Thank you for the update. I will continue my prayers. 

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This is very good news @Charlie Dakota

 

Continued prayers you and yours don’t forget to take care of yourself, as caregiving is very important but stressful. 
 

Hugs,

 

Mind🌈🐛🏳️‍⚧️🦋

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