Covert trans conversion therapy

[shelli]

Hello.

 

My name is not Shelli but for my safety i have to use this name here.

 

Im looking for advice.

 

In canada conversion therapy is illegal.

My family has employed a psiciatrist to comversion therapy me covertly. I am 45 and the administrator of a wealthy families estate.

 

I have been fleeing this for about 7 years.

It began by me having mtf grs. I was supposed to have ffs and top and vocal aswell. They allowed the bottom surgery. Then began getting social workers, the psyc and an accountant to slander me from town to town as i tried to get work and stablity in my life.

I eventually went back to male atire to try and hide and restart transition. Each time they wojld find out where i was and it would start again.

 

I spoke out about it and now they claim i destroyed there lives by seeking help and that im an adult child since i cant get a job while they do this so that i cant as i would take control of the families fortune.

They have had this psyciatrist diagnose me falsly with scizophrenia, upsetting me then bipolat, borderline, psicotic, and so much more. They have even tried getting me framed for crimes i never commited.

 

Im terrified, living in the woods, off hormones and even when i turn to the lgbt community in my area they have convinced many of them that im a trans man etc etc etc.

 

It never ends.

 

I would like to hear any advice.

[VickySGV]

Find and get in touch with the closest LGBTQ center near you and (1) they will know of programs that employ Trans people willingly and (2) will have ways to get you competent legal help to break you free of your family and their controlling and damaging behavior toward you.  I do not know Canadian Law on this, but here where I am you could get a court order to stop them from interfering in your life.  Gender Dysphoria is not a mental health issue that should keep you from managing your personal affairs.  The people at those centers know what we go through and are ready to help you.

[Carolyn Marie]

In keeping with @VickySGV's train of thought, here are links to a couple of Canadian legal resources.  I hope these can help you, as you do seem to need it.

 

https://justicetrans.org/en/resources/

 

https://www.courthouselibrary.ca/how-we-can-help/our-library-services/lawmatters-public-libraries/lgbt-legal-resource-round

 

https://www.halco.org/our-services/trans-legal-needs-assessment-ontario

 

BTW, welcome to Transgender Pulse, hon.  You are safe here.

 

Carolyn Marie

[shelli]

Thanks for the responces.

 

I have gone to police, because they have used apsyciatrist for 7 years to do this to me when i do they look in the system and have a handfull of false diagnosis so im treated like im crazy and since my family is wealthy they are treated as if they cant be the problem. I then get refered to mental health and the cycle repeats.

 

Im back in my home town atm and an ex partner who stole my transition funds for themselves (LONG story) is a trans man has slandered me convincing people i am the other parent of there children. Which is ludacrous since im post opperative and since he was a social butterly the community at large believe it.

 

This repeats everytime i run away and try another town with variations to there claims. Both my ex and my real family.