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Guest AshleeB

ok first off, i wanna say that i feel bad coz its like i only ever post when its about me :P

Second. Im 100% out now. all my family and friends know! WOOT WOOT! no more hiding! new life begins now! :D

dads reaction was great. he even offered to take me shopping for clothes and make up. but i already have that stuff so i didnt need to lol. all this time i was so scared of how he would react and BOOM he was perfectly fine with it!

So advice to all you future commer outers, when you think your rents will react badly, i rekon theres a good chance they will be more accepting that you think. my dad was the kind of person you wouldnt tell anything to because he is so racist and anti everything. but look at him! open arms i tellz ya!

dont be afraid. courage is key!

Lots of love

Ashlee

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Guest uncertain_cd

I;m new here so we don't know eachother but I'm SO proud of you and envious of you that you did such a thing.

I would still accept the offer with your dad to take you out shopping just for that new bonding experience between the 2 of you and he'd probably buy you some awesome things!

Hope all goes well for you :)

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Ashlee that's fantastic you are completely out, i was scared to tell my 89 year old religious stepfather but he accepted and is my biggest supporter.

I would take him up on his offer, a girl can't have too many clothes or makeup.

HUGS!

Paula

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Guest Donna Jean

Ashlee................

WOOT WOOT!

All of the way out!

And accepted to boot! Now, that's what I call progress...

And Paula is right...you can never have too much stuff.....lol

Go shopping with him, Honey...

It will be good for both of you!

Good for you!

Love

Donna Jean

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Guest AshleyRF

That is awesome news.

One of the main things I learned from all this is never underestimate parents. I never thought mine would accept this but they have been great.

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STUPENDOUS NEWS (I don't get to use that word too often, lol)

I'm with Paula and Donna Jean, it would be so cool to go shopping with your dad.

Who cares if you don't need anything. Just to be with him as father and daughter -

now THAT's something!

Carolyn Marie

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Guest Kayliegh

Great news Ashlee -

You can finally be yourself 100% of the time and a dad that undserstands and accepts you for who your are to boot!

As one of our sisters said, have him take you out shopping - it'll be great for the both of you!

Kayleigh

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