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Sally

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Well I know that a lot of you were almost as excited as I was about today being 'the day'.

Skyy even exploded, but I have some bad news - the doctor had to cancel tonight's appointments and he only donates his time one day a week so they will be calling in the next 2 days to reschedule in August.

Just another typical day in my life - whenever things are looking really good, my car explodes or a client cancels or my doctor can't show up.

I have come to not only accept these little setbacks but to be prepared for them because I expect them.

I had a great session with my therapist so the day wasn't a total waste.

Sorry to dissapoint all of you, welcome to my world.

Love ya,

Sally

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Guest April63
the doctor had to cancel tonight's appointments and he only donates his time one day a week so they will be calling in the next 2 days to reschedule in August.

So what does he do the rest of the time? Just sit back and relax? Or some other job? That sounds weird. One job one day, another job another day..

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Guest NicolaiAE

I'm sorry about the cancellation. That really stinks. At least you had a enjoyable backup :)

Its not a disappointment, just a buildup to the awaiting event!

-Nicolai

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He works out of his office but he does not do any free work out of there - and for this work the visits are over $100 each - so for me, with no money it is free or not at all.

Love ya,

Sally

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Guest April63
He works out of his office but he does not do any free work out of there - and for this work the visits are over $100 each - so for me, with no money it is free or not at all.

Love ya,

Sally

Oh, I see. So he does free appointments once a week? That's nice.

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Guest Donna Jean

AWwwwww, Sally.....

Dang (cuss word....cuss word!)

I'm so sorry...I was so hoping that this was it for you!

I know how sometimes things just plop like a cow pie in life....But, this is just awful!

Oh, Sweetheart......

I'm sorry....

Dang!

Donna Jean

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Guest Elizabeth K

Sally - You are one tough Lady!

We know you are disappointed - but it's just temporary - hang in there!

Oh how we worry about Momma Sally!

Lizzzzzy

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Guest nymphblossom

I am very disappointed for you, Sally. Thank goodness you have a date and it's not an indefinite hold trying to bring your bloodwork into range or a never ending limbo like I'm in.

Blossom

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Guest ~Brenda~

Thank God you had a good session with your therapist. Dang it! Don't these doctors understand how excruciating it is to wait for months for an appointment only to be told at the last moment "I can't make the appointment. See me next week to set up another one... chow". If this doctor knew that this appointment could not be met, then why did he wait at the last minute to tell you? Sometime doctors misundertsand the whole psychological effects that blithely moving an appointment has on one.

Dang it Sally... I'm so sorry hon.

HUGS sweetie

Love

Brenda

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Guest Jean Davis

Hi Sally

So sorry to hear ; :( But there is no need to apologize, it wasn't your fault. ;)

Hope the time passes quickly for you. :D

Wishing only the best for you

Jean Davis

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Guest Zabrak
:huh: What a pain...doctors just don't get it. However, I know you'll be ok, Sally. You're a strong willed and great Lady! You have the support of all of us here.
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Guest Joe Cool

Oh Sally,

I am so sorry! It seems that there are always roadblocks when we are trying to get started. I know you have been waiting a very long time. Here is a big hug!

Joe

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FIxed it for ya - Lizzy

Thanks, Lizzy dear.

I've hired Brenda as my computer tutor. We're negotiating the rate.

Carolyn

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Gosh dang it Sally i was just about as excited as you were, well life is full of ups and downs, hopefully more more downs from now on.

HUGS!

Paula

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awww....thats just like what happened to me :( they pushed my day back a month too, that really stinks that it happened to you too, i hope it will work out this time though

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Guest Elizabeth K
Thanks, Lizzy dear.

I've hired Brenda as my computer tutor. We're negotiating the rate.

Carolyn

Try - two bottles of nail polish and a lipstick - colors to be named at a future date! grin

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I want to thank all of you for your kind words and I am so happy to see that Skyy in the fine tradition of Wile E. Coyote has pulled herself back together after having exploded.

We just all have to be patient and know that it is still coming, just delayed.

Love ya,

Sally

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Guest rachael1

Sorry about your setback Sally.

Tell your doctor if he cancels again he'll have the Rachael/Rachel army to deal with. :angry:

Hugs

Rachael

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Well the next scheduled launch date is August 17.

You can start your countdowns or place your bets on probability of another cancelation.

Love ya,

Sally

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Guest Naomi Stardust

:banghead:

yeah setbacks are annoying

:wacko:

but the thing is to keep going

-_-

what other choice is there?

<_<

you shouldn't hold a grudge against your doctor

:mad:

i'm sure it was a very important golf game!

:lol:

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Guest April63
i'm sure it was a very important golf game!

:lol:

LOL.

It will be there soon. But I suggest you try to find something to keep your mind off of it, or else it will seem to take forever.

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Guest Donna Jean
Well the next scheduled launch date is August 17.

You can start your countdowns or place your bets on probability of another cancelation.

Love ya,

Sally

OK....OK....OK.....

So, I'll start buggin' you all over.....

Geez.....here we go again......

"Sally launch in T minus 27 days, and counting!"

Dang...

Well, at least you have another launch date......lol

LUCKY HUGG.....

Donna Jean

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