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By Dave12290 · Posted
Thank you, Ashley and I have those same concerns. It so sad that others prefer to judge instead of educating themselves, but the world has changed since the 80’s when there was no way I would say anything about these feeling inside me. I knew it was a different feeling, I knew I was different because no one ever talked about these things or I just wasn’t around anyone to know the difference, but not having anyone to talk to and being scared, it was easier to be what society wanted instead of what I wanted. Now I’m taking care of me! I want to leave florida in the next few years, but for now I’ll learn about myself while I decide where I want to go. Been thinking of going out west, but unsure. Thanks again! -
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By Ashley0616 · Posted
Welcome Dave I live in Mississippi as you can tell. I'm down by the coast about 30 minutes to Alabama border. If I didn't have joint custody I would definitely leave to a much more LGBTQIA friendly state. I worry about the LGBTQIA community in the red states especially Florida and Texas. It seems like it's they only agenda to make it worse on us. I wish you good luck on your journey and hope to see more future posts from you. -
By April Marie · Posted
Welcome Amey! I was 70 when I started - now coming up on a year. It is truly magical!! -
By Ashley0616 · Posted
@Amber48 I can be your friend. I'm not too much younger than you. I'm turning 42 on the 16th of this month. I have about every gaming system covered. PlayStation 1-5, Xbox original-Xbox Series X. All Nintendo handhelds, Steam, Epic Games, GOG, I have ISOs from Atari 2600-Playstation 4 and Xbox. I have over 8 TB of games on my hard drive. I'm a disabled combat Iraq veteran. I'm a parent of two boys so they sometimes keep me busy. I have a DVD collection of over 1600 in alphabetical order. I love animals but seriously allergic to cats and dogs it's to the point I have an Epi Pen on me at all times. I also love reptiles. I love fashion and have over 25 pairs of boots, 26 pairs of shoes and heels, a walk-in closet full of clothes. I rarely put makeup on though. If you want to send a PM then I would love to talk. -
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By DrunkJam · Posted
Ah, I see. But then, maybe you can learn from this? parents are / can be difficult. (I AM a parent, and my parents disowned me, so, I am trying to work out how to do what my kids - 19 and 12 - need, and make sure they know they are loved for ALL that they are, and all that stuff, but, really, I have no idea what I am doing, and I need them to ALSO understand that, I might well wrong sometimes!) You haven't stopped travelling though! So, you can change the things you don't like? -
By KathyLauren · Posted
I wasn't precise. There were of course, many people in previous generations who had tattoos. But in my generation and prior, they were occupational. Sailors had them. Military men. Lumberjacks. Tattoos indicated a highly physical trade. In generations younger than mine, tattoos do not suggest an occupation: anyone might have one. -
By Bail3y · Posted
Basically what I am trying to say was that I realized with the movie that I felt just as the main character did, but I had also realized within my own self (not the movie I promise) that I've become more hateful internally over certain things that my parents say that I know I cannot talk back to them about because it will just continue this cycle of them telling me that this is a decision I will regret. The movie was beautiful and I loved it so, but I just wished within myself that when I came out and finally accepted myself that I wasn't so hateful and reserved as I am now especially around the two people I am supposed to go to with problems and ask advice for the most part. -
By Marai · Posted
@Amber48 I am envious of your 5’6” 140lb body. I’m 6’4” and 230 lbs. You’ll have a lot more options for great clothes and shoes! You’re gonna look fantastic! -
By Marai · Posted
Thank you for being here. I appreciate that the focus of the site is affirmation and caring. It is therapeutic to be able to post things I would have to keep to myself before. I am new on the journey and just building my support system. My therapist is very supportive, but 1 hour a week is not enough. My wife knows and is initially supportive, but it’s Proceed with Caution mode for now. It helps just to be able to come here and know there is affirmation and love. -
By Marai · Posted
I never would have thought about watching Barbie until my egg cracked. It would have been Oppenheimer for me. But I offered to watch with my wife a couple of days ago and actually enjoyed it. I found myself identifying with Barbie much more than Ken. The changes that come from just listening to my authentic self are absolutely amazing. -
By DrunkJam · Posted
This is not a movie I am familiar with. But 'hateful' seems like a strong choice of words? Do you wish for more people to support you on your journey? -
By Dave12290 · Posted
Thank you, thank you, thank you 😊 yes, it’s been a long tough journey, but looking back now, it’s also been a very slow educational experience too. Watching family and friends pass away for whatever the reason may be, has made me look at this differently. I don’t care what we have or how much we have, if we aren’t happy inside, deep inside, nothing else will make us happy. So when I looked at it this way and then looked inside myself, I saw the female side and she wanted to be happy too, so decided to open up, even if just a little. Let her out and let myself accept it. If doing this helps me to be comfortable and to keep facing this, I’m all in. I don’t want to be that scared little boy anymore. So, My new therapist will be my safe place and not my hiding place. My journey will begin and I’ll find my happiness, even if I find that, that’s a different me or maybe I should say, even if it’s the real me!
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