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Came out to my wife last night!


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I hope the day comes soon when you can be Jae Rabbit. Sounds like that day my not be too far off. I'm sure that will feel sooo good, and I believe you deserve it after all that you've been through. Again, I'm so happpy for you!!

 

Love,  

Brandi

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Thank you Brandi! I hope so too, time will tell... For now I’m just happy about last night and my upcoming therapy appointment!

Big squishy hug!

Jae

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Going to meet my therapist in a couple hours! So happy! Last night went well at home, not much talk, no new question or heavy concerns... Just a little worried about me talking with girls and getting involved somehow online, really not my style, and I just lean on you girls for support and a completely different style of love (more acceptance and understanding)... I think she might be a touch jealous, but I think I would be too if the tables were turned (thank you Brandi for this tip). We had a nice quiet evening and that felt good, I got some laundry done and a little house cleaning, helped the kidlet with her math and all went smooth. We were tired and fell asleep in comfort, it felt so nice to be near her and feel good about us as I fell asleep. Woke up feeling really good too-

Big squishy hugs!

Jae

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Hey , sweetheart, I'm glad that things seem to be going smoothly for you. I know that there will be bumps and potholes in the road ahead, but I have faith that both you and your Bunny are going to get though this and be the better for it. Good luck at the therapist.

 

Love,

Brandi

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Thank you Brandi! Your support and the support of everyone here is more important to me than air right now (probably always will be)... My therapist is amazing! I love him! I’m going to see him once a week and I can’t wait to see him next... I was a touch concerned about being honest with a man, but I can not imagine a better fit after meeting with him!

Big squishy hugs!

.Jae

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Glad to here it. I too was worried about talking to a man, but he's great. It's soooo great to talk and get in touch with feelings that you didn't even knew you had. That's how it is with me anyway.

 

Love ya,

Brandi

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Oh Brandi, I could not agree more! I promised myself I would keep it all together today since it was just an interview, but I got all misty when I told him about Robert, I feel so terrible about it, I am looking forward to talking to Robert as soon as he is better and his health is not at risk... I plan on apologizing, handing him my poem and coming out to him while simultaneously begging him to keep my secret...

Hugs & Love,

Jae

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I am not entirely sure what just happened, but I am willing to accept a good thing when I see it... My wife and I had a great weekend, lots of laughing, joking, singing to Elton in the car, I don’t know if I just pushed her over the edge or if she got a new cute boyfriend! I shaved off half my beard today and she couldn’t stop touching my smooth skin and slapping me! She’s so strong she rattles my fillings, but it is all in good fun, I think... I shaved my chest as well, not that I am very hairy, I’m not, but she thought the smooth flesh was interesting. I don’t know why the sudden changes happened, but I hope my funny Bunny stays around permanently, Like we were newlyweds all over again... Is any of this normal? I don’t want to over analys this but it really took me by surprise!

Squishy hugs,

Jae

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