I don't know who I am anymore. Non-binary

[Julialikesfashion]

My name is Julia. I have been using the term trans woman to identify myself but I am no longer sure if that is accurate or not anymore. 

Who am I? This very simple yet very complex question is what I really want to figure out in due time.

 

 

[VickySGV]

Give it time and you will have the time.  I know that sounds obtuse but learning who you are really does take a lifetime.  The important issue is to realize that just being different from other people is not a crime and is no reason to be ashamed of yourself.

[Julialikesfashion]

32 minutes ago, VickySGV said:

Give it time and you will have the time.  I know that sounds obtuse but learning who you are really does take a lifetime.  The important issue is to realize that just being different from other people is not a crime and is no reason to be ashamed of yourself.

No, no it's quite alright. I know it takes time. It's not the first time I questioned my identity. 

[Jackie C.]

Aha! Trick question! You... are You.

 

That's really the only label that matters. Being You is pretty awesome. Own that. Other adjectives are negotiable. Maybe you're Transgender Julia. Maybe you're The Julia Who Questions. Maybe you're Julia: Destroyer of Worlds. Aside from being Julia, all those things can change with time and experience. Even Julia can go by the wayside if you decide that she doesn't fit. The only thing you have to be is yourself.

 

In the meantime, explore yourself. No, not like that. I mean you should explore your inner landscape and figure out where you're the most comfortable. Then work to make that your reality. Becoming your best self is the work of a lifetime. Living your best life is your greatest masterpiece.

 

Hugs!

[Lexi C]

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Hey Julia I being Transitioning for also 2yrs. I still have so much doubts. I think a high power is playing  a joke on us, because he creates us one  way only to f with a body and mind. so I know how you feel, but this place is a great source of knowledge and its helping me to understand that its dose not matter what I am but who I am. Its hard work but I guess the road less travel is traveled bye the brave not the weak at heart. Be Safe, Be Proud , and KICK ASS