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JustineM

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So as the title suggests I’m a bit of a mess right now. Just told my biological mother and her husband, got total acceptance.  They said what ever I need to be happy and they love me no matter what. So overwhelmed right now, but in a good way. 
 

Also a small bit, my wife got me a pin for my purse that says my pronouns she/her/hers. 

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Justine, Thank you for sharing your wonderful news with us. I’m very happy for you and know how much it means. You deserve this!

 

My Best,

Susan R?

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Thank you ladies. I’ve been very lucky so far, everyone I’ve come out to so far has been very accepting. 

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Congratulations Justine!

That's a major victory. I'm very happy for you!

TA

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Thats great to hear a good bit of news.  Im glad its all gone so well for you @JustineM

 

This calls for a few emojis.  :goodone::goodjob::welldone:

 

Fantastic stuff :thumbsup:

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Aaaand here I go again with the crying. One of my sisters and one of my brothers.

My sisters response was “Welcome to the queer club” (she is a lesbian) and my brother responded with pictures of him in a dress and some killer heels.  I am so blessed right now. 

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Just a follow up. I’ve told most all my biological family, they have all been very accepting. My brother was joking that me and him should coordinate on our next trip down and both show up to my fathers place in dresses and heels. Lol 

 

I haven’t told my adoptive family yet, I’m anticipating more acceptance issues out of them than my biological family. 

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I love good news @JustineM and this is good. Sounds like they’re an accepting bunch. You can’t ask for much better than that. Joking around about it makes everyone feel good about it too. I wish you the best with your adoptive family whenever that happens. I’m sure you’ll be fine though.

 

My Best,

Susan R?

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On 4/18/2020 at 9:18 PM, JustineM said:

So as the title suggests I’m a bit of a mess right now. Just told my biological mother and her husband, got total acceptance.  They said what ever I need to be happy and they love me no matter what. So overwhelmed right now, but in a good way. 
 

Also a small bit, my wife got me a pin for my purse that says my pronouns she/her/hers. 

This is so wonderful!  I am so happy you have found acceptance with your loved ones.  Its so hard to tell them and when they come back with support and love t is overwhelming.  But a huge release too.

 

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@JustineM  That is so wonderful. I’m really happy that this went well for you. Sounds like you have some pretty great people in your corner. Enjoy your day! Hugs!

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So good to hear good, coming out news. Congratulations, Justine.

 

Kymmie

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Oh my Goddess! It is so hard to keep that impassive, professional security demeanor when you have siblings texting you calling you their sister. So blessed (and a lot of tears) right now

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On 6/24/2020 at 1:34 PM, JustineM said:

Oh my Goddess! It is so hard to keep that impassive, professional security demeanor when you have siblings texting you calling you their sister. So blessed (and a lot of tears) right now

 

This is lovely!  I totally get the happy tears.  Several times, my brother has referred to me as his sister, and it makes me weepy every time.

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On 6/24/2020 at 9:34 AM, JustineM said:

Oh my Goddess! It is so hard to keep that impassive, professional security demeanor when you have siblings texting you calling you their sister. So blessed (and a lot of tears) right now

What a wonderful time in your journey...you deserve this, Justine. These are the best kind of tears to shed. Enjoy every moment of this to the fullest, hon.

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I am indeed happy for you Justine for your family accepting you with open arms.

 

Myself was also very much blessed that my mommy did accepted the fact I told her, when I was small, that something differed with me.

I was fourteen years old (if I remember correctly) that phsychitrists and all other of them continued during my transition.

 

My daddy was on the contrary very much au contraire with my mom.

After almost fours years, he gave me his open arms and he accompanied  me to the hospital for my surgery. My daddy was the one who paid the surgeon's fee.

 

As you see Justine, sometimes life is good.

 

Pardon me all for bubbling, I just wanted to "talk" as I have no one here next to me!

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On 6/27/2020 at 3:01 PM, Dinaki said:

 

As you see Justine, sometimes life is good.

 

Pardon me all for bubbling, I just wanted to "talk" as I have no one here next to me!

Life is quite good right now. Also no need to pardon, I love happy stories! ?

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Well had an interesting conversation with my oldest sister. Came out as transgender to her and she was very accepting. The interesting part is since she is our Dads caregiver, she offered to bring up the topic very generally to him and see how he reacts. She is reasonably asking that I let her know before I talk to him. 
 

Dad is a retired police Lt and very conservative in his thinking. Very much invested in his sons and continuing the family name. I honestly am not sure how he will react. He has mellowed as he has aged plus I am married with 2 sons, so it might not be too bad. 

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