Gender Info?

[Guest Lionheart12]

Ok I talked to someone about my transgender issues and find my gender identy male and my gender exprssion a mix between male and female I don't feel right in either male or female clothes but in fact as weird as it may seem I do with out my clothes on. I Find myself vary confused in both clothes I know I am male but it's like I want to express myself as both at the same time but not two diffrent people. I find that when I dress as one I want to express as the other or as what I am dressed as which is confusing it's weird I am a male in a males body just not centers in clothes made for either gender without wanting to be both. And dressing as both is a big mistake for me that creates an issue a big amount of stress. My gender id is male.

[Guest Amy Androgynous]

Ok I talked to someone about my transgender issues and find my gender identy male and my gender exprssion a mix between male and female I don't feel right in either male or female clothes but in fact as weird as it may seem I do with out my clothes on. I Find myself vary confused in both clothes I know I am male but it's like I want to express myself as both at the same time but not two diffrent people. I find that when I dress as one I want to express as the other or as what I am dressed as which is confusing it's weird I am a male in a males body just not centers in clothes made for either gender without wanting to be both. And dressing as both is a big mistake for me that creates an issue a big amount of stress. My gender id is male.

Hi welcome to lauras I'm actually seeing a simalarity to me its ok to mix and match cause hunny i think it's androgyny i know that you've come to the right place

Amy X (M2F androgynous)

[Guest Elizabeth K]

You are in the right place to ask those questions. I personally don't have answers but I know others do, or at least suggestions. Please look around and post post post - we like opinions.

Lizzy

[Guest ~Brenda~]

Hi Lion,

Very good questions. I would simply suggest this...

Let's not worry about any gender labels right now. Let's talk about what does make you feel comfortable and not stressed.

It is as important to know what makes you feel right as to what does not make you feel right.

Also, don't worry. In all likelyhood your gender identity will change and evolve over time.

So, just relax sweetheart. Everything will be OK.

I would like to know what makes you feel you.

Love you

Brenda

[Carolyn Marie]

Lionheart, welcome to Laura's!

Before getting too deep into your research, why not sit down for a minute, have

some of Sally's world famous virtual cookies, and some steaming hot cocoa? OK?

Now that you're comfy, take some time to look around the forum's for some of

the answers you seek, or talk to folks in chat, or check out the resource pages.

You'll meet some of our fine members and begin getting the answers to your

questions.

You'll find everything you need here, I feel sure.

Carolyn Marie

[Sally]

Hi, Lionheart,

Welcome to the forums and the perfect place to ask your questions.

I'm like Lizzy but not nearly so old, I won't even turn 58 until next month!

Don't worry she won't get mad, we're sisters and we tease each other.

That is how it is here and you are part of the family.

There are more than just a few who identify as androgynous and they are a pretty diverse group in themselves, but they will come and chat and help yyou in ways that I can't.

So relax, there's plenty of time to select a path.

Love ya,

Sally

[Guest Evan_J]

Key question sounds like WHY its stressfull to dress as both?

[gennee]

Hey Lion and welcome to the forums. I wouldn't fret too much about what the labels are. Whatever you feel comfortable with, stay with it. Laura's is a great site and many of us have had similar experiences.

Gennee