The Weekend , The Women, The World

[Guest Zabrak]

Thats not "asexual " Genesis (don't mind your friends while we talk about you Ains we make sure we do it where you can hear us ) Thats called "I want him to be my man, but I'm too chicken**** of what I think people will say if I admit it in the open, so I run to him for all my emotional needs but withold the goodies cuz I think that keeps me from wearin some kind of label that/s "unappealing" to me." Also called "I wanna get, but I don't wanna give ".

Yuck. Not a woman you want either way so its not a loss.

[Guest ChalenAustin]

When you said calm down, did you mean drooling at the lips? Or however that goes?

[Guest My_Genesis]

@ Evan and Ains: erm, yeah..so, the asexual thing was kind of a joke. I know she's not asexual thus the " " at the end of the statement. Guess I have to learn to be more expressive over the internet..good practise for real life as well... LOL

xkcd is awesome, i should probably add that link to my photo album on Facebook where I put a bunch of my fave. web comics.

i suppose that is where the idea of "nice guys always lose/finish last" came from?

[Guest Evan_J]

You wouldn't want your sweetie to slave away all day when she has her big strong handsome provider taking care of her would you?

Yes. Yes I would. I would like for her to be a whole person , not dependent on me, who is doing her part. Ironically, initially I imagined that a woman would understand that could also be happening in the home. However what I've actually found is that when they stay in the home they feel that means "I don't have to do anything" so yes, she has to slave too, and now outside the home.

[Guest NatalieRene]

Yes. Yes I would. I would like for her to be a whole person , not dependent on me, who is doing her part. Ironically, initially I imagined that a woman would understand that could also be happening in the home. However what I've actually found is that when they stay in the home they feel that means "I don't have to do anything" so yes, she has to slave too, and now outside the home.

I guess the irony of the joke was lost in the translation. LOL sorry. I'd never expect to have everything handed to me in life. For one thing I would get bored. Not to mention my job gives me all sorts of perks like being able to send myself, and if I'm fortunate enough my spouse and our kids through college at pennies on the dollar. And while cleaning up the house and stuff might be acceptable work for you to consider her doing her part I'd rather hire a maid and keep my job. Housework is for the birds.