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Guest Jess_W

ok, i still have some unwanted baggage below lol

the thing is i'm semi new to tucking, and i have a problem, i can get my testicles to go inside, and that happens easy enough, but when i stand the place they are sitting inside gets achy like, uncomfortable, to the point to where they don't last like that for a while before they force me to bring them back out. again it's my abdomen i think that hurts like that, not my testicles.

i was wondering if this is normal, and if it goes away! i'll keep trying untill they stop.

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ok, i still have some unwanted baggage below lol

the thing is i'm semi new to tucking, and i have a problem, i can get my testicles to go inside, and that happens easy enough, but when i stand the place they are sitting inside gets achy like, uncomfortable, to the point to where they don't last like that for a while before they force me to bring them back out. again it's my abdomen i think that hurts like that, not my testicles.

i was wondering if this is normal, and if it goes away! i'll keep trying untill they stop.

Yes it is Jess,

It takes time to get used to (them) being up inside all the time.And you will see,when crossing

your legs at times,that(they) will get pinched and give you a real shock of pain.(ouch) lol

But,with steady practice,and the determination that(they and it) do not belong on the outside,

or not between your legs,you will get used to the feeling and the discomfort.Anti androgens will

do what they are designed to do,and shrink the unwanted baggage down in no time.Then it becomes so much easier and so much more comfortable.Do not push it,it does take time and

experience and lots of patience to get used to something so unusual for your genitals.

I have tucked for the last six years.Four years without HRT.So I know where you are coming from.

Welcome to your womanhood,and remember to use patience with yourself as you get used to

being up inside and back between your legs,like we know they are supposed to be.

Hugs New Girl,

Angie

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Guest Maryteresa

Jess,

Why bother tucking the testes up ? Do you want to wear a bathing costume or a bunny suit ? Too right it's painful, and perhaps injurious in the long term....hernias come to mind.

Most of us who wear even very tight skirts manage to successfully squash everything behind 'control' panties. I submit admittedly two old photos taken off my old album showing a Very Tight swallow-tail skirt which promoted the wiggle-walk alright, but there's no bump showing. Alas, later that skirt fell foul of a 'purge'

Maryteresa

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Jess,

Why bother tucking the testes up ? Do you want to wear a bathing costume or a bunny suit ? Too right it's painful, and perhaps injurious in the long term....hernias come to mind.

Most of us who wear even very tight skirts manage to successfully squash everything behind 'control' panties. I submit admittedly two old photos taken off my old album showing a Very Tight swallow-tail skirt which promoted the wiggle-walk alright, but there's no bump showing. Alas, later that skirt fell foul of a 'purge'

Maryteresa

Why?

Because pushing the testes up inside makes it so you can wear skin tight pants,even short shorts.

I know,been there done that,and do it allll the time.I know the ladies(gg's) I know asked me what

I do with mine since I do wear such tight pants.So it does work and very effectively also.

Not all women want to wear skirts or dresses all the time,some are everyday women,and like the

option of wearing what they want,comfortably.

Angie

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Guest ChloëC

I have to support Angie's feelings about tucking, and add another. Part of the 'fantasy' is not having outside parts, and if there is a way to even affect part of that for a short time, I'll try it.

I have done it both ways, and once I got used to the tucking, I have found it not that much of a problem, if I'm careful, as well as giving me a better feeling about myself. And that, to me, is very important.

But again, I would only recommend it if you try it, find that you can do it, and it doesn't give you undue pain. I think there are lots of different body types, some of which may better allow tucking and some of which may not. So, it may not work for everyone.

Chloë

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Guest Kayliegh

I’ve been tucking for years know too, and it does get easier with time. If you’re wearing panties 24/7, you’ll find that it becomes “second nature.”

While not on HRT yet, I’ve also noticed that the thing between my legs appears to be getting smaller and even “disappears” inside itself.

Have any of you ladies experienced the same thing?

Kayleigh

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Guest erikka2046
I’ve been tucking for years know too, and it does get easier with time. If you’re wearing panties 24/7, you’ll find that it becomes “second nature.”

While not on HRT yet, I’ve also noticed that the thing between my legs appears to be getting smaller and even “disappears” inside itself.

Have any of you ladies experienced the same thing?

Kayleigh

Strangely I feel the similar feeling like you although I started transitioning few moths ago without HRT. Not sure its real or in my mind, I do feel more comfortable when I wear skinny jeans and the thing really looks smaller compare it use to be. Maybe mind over physical matters ;)

Erikka

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Guest ~Brenda~

I simply push everything back, and wear tight fitting undergarments. I put on several layers to make everything smooth and non-descript (no bulge). Works for me without any pain or discomfort.

Brenda

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I did that,

But being a mountain bike rider,with the constant jolts and the ups

and downs on the seat the full ride...Well, that just didn't work for

me.Toooooo Painful. I am tucked all the time, 24/7 no breaks,except

The potty and bath.With my(stuff) inside and back,I can ride 20/30 hard

miles,run rough trails,jump curbs,stand still at a light,with the seat

jammed into my crotch tightly.I couldn't do that the other way.

But that's just me.I decided years ago,that women do not have a bulge.

And knew that since I am a woman,I would not,refused to have one either.

But I can say,it has gotten a tad uncomfortable after the ride and cooling down

at times.(They) were not designed to be treated this way.And rebel against the

mistreatment,by giving me a dull ache that can last hours.But that's just another

good reason to get rid of such unwanted things,that do not belong on me.

Huuuuuggsss,

Angie

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Guest Jess_W

ill keep working at it girls, thanks for the info, i do notice that daily it gets easier and easier and i can keep at it just a little while longer, like anything, it takes work and patience

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Guest Maryteresa

Point taken, girls.

Fact is, I admire (and would love to wear) very tight girlyshorts, where there's obviously no room for even tucked danglies. My sporting passion is rowing, where 'they' don't get in the way.

I did try tucking everything away once, but didn't like it, and wondered if 'they' would ever come down again. I'm just a crossdresser and not transitioning or anything.

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Guest Jess_W

lol if they never came down again no big loss for me :oP

an update i have been tucking in panties today all day, it is getting easier, it's still a bit uncomfortable, but i'm addicted to those haloween things thye sell at walmart, so i got some, despite still some discomfort i can close my leg (not cross) and sit pretty comfortable, and walk without ah, looking like a guy on a saddle?

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Guest brenda lee
ok, i still have some unwanted baggage below lol

the thing is i'm semi new to tucking, and i have a problem, i can get my testicles to go inside, and that happens easy enough, but when i stand the place they are sitting inside gets achy like, uncomfortable, to the point to where they don't last like that for a while before they force me to bring them back out. again it's my abdomen i think that hurts like that, not my testicles.

i was wondering if this is normal, and if it goes away! i'll keep trying untill they stop.

Jess ,Sweetie ,Something I have been doing for along time is wearing tight panties. It sems to work for me on crossing my legs.LOL Brenda Lee

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Guest jaymie
Jess ,Sweetie ,Something I have been doing for along time is wearing tight panties. It sems to work for me on crossing my legs.LOL Brenda Lee

I agree...without tight panties nothing stays in place...if they are tight everything stays perfectly.

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Guest Robin Winter

Ok, Ladies, where on earth are you all getting tight panties???? I have yet to meet a pair that doesn't stretch over the course of the day. Fill me in, I need trade secrets here!! :blink:

^_^

*Hugs*

Shi

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Guest Jean Davis
Ok, Ladies, where on earth are you all getting tight panties???? I have yet to meet a pair that doesn't stretch over the course of the day. Fill me in, I need trade secrets here!! :blink:

^_^

*Hugs*

Shi

If you use a womans body shaper over the top they don't stretch as fast.

Jean

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Guest ChloëC

I have to agree with the just panties problem. Most of the ones I have just can't totally hold a shape over a lengthy time necessary to keep a smooth figure.

I mentioned somewhere that one of the items I have is pantygirdle, well, it's sort of - no legs - I got it long enough ago that I've forgotten the actual name, but is it ever snug. With things just pushed back, Crocodile Dundee would have a tough time figuring it out, and with one tucked up and the other back and not being much, it is as smooth as anything.

The drawback is that it's an elaborate process to get on, and off. It does have a 3 hook closure but even undoing that and doing it up again when necessary still takes a lot of time both ways. So, I wear it for a lengthy time and deal with it, or not at all. My bodyshaper is actually open at the legs, but it's 'boned' (metal) and does a decent job on my middle - which drastically needs something! Put them together and I get a decent shape, but it does get uncomfortable quickly. Just have to get used to it. One of several penalties to pay, I guess.

Chloë

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Guest jaymie
Ok, Ladies, where on earth are you all getting tight panties???? I have yet to meet a pair that doesn't stretch over the course of the day. Fill me in, I need trade secrets here!! :blink:

^_^

*Hugs*

Shi

I buy my bras and panties from La Senza...they are a little pricier but i don't seem to run into the problem of them stretching...the material is important as well...plus i buy them snug.

Hugs (and happy shopping :) )

Jaymie

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Guest Robin Winter

I must hunt down one of these things. I know I've seen panties on line specifically for the purpose, but they're bloody expensive and omgsougly. I like cute panties. It's a curse :P

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Guest Kimburly

It's time, I think, to begin getting used to the inside method. I've been doing "back" forever, but the chair or car seat brings a tear to the eye. However, it can raise the pitch of one's voice!

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Guest Jess_W

new proble, now that their getting more used to being inside i can wear panties longer and longer during th day while staying tucked, except for one problem,

my pen is kind of small, i usually don't care about the size, except when it goes completly flacid it wont stay tucked, thus after a while, even in TIIIIGHT panties, it can work itsway forward, even when taped and tucked, that's ann annoyance, anyone with a salution?

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new proble, now that their getting more used to being inside i can wear panties longer and longer during th day while staying tucked, except for one problem,

my pen is kind of small, i usually don't care about the size, except when it goes completly flacid it wont stay tucked, thus after a while, even in TIIIIGHT panties, it can work itsway forward, even when taped and tucked, that's ann annoyance, anyone with a salution?

Sorry not I,

When the good maker made me,he made sure I would have been happy as a cisgendered man.

But that's another problem in itself.

Angie

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Guest ChloëC

Sorry, Jess,

Can't really help you there. I don't know enough about gaffs to know if they work in that situation - which is the only other possibility other than removal. I just wear my very tight panty-briefer(?) and that works for me in practically all situations

Chloë

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Guest Sakura_Stingray

jess i have the same problem as you... mine has always done that and it is an annoyance.. I suppose the good part about our type in tucking would be less of a chance for involuntary blood flow in the area

i have two things of advice to give..

1. KEEP FAR AWAY FROM COTTON PANTIES they stretch easily and are very dissapointing.. they are made in my opinion to give gg women comfort in every day activities but are an emberessment for us.

2. the best and cutest gaff types i can find i got from this website https://www.crossdresser.com/product_page.a...ductSubCatID=20 they have both panties and gaff's but make sure you buy the gaff's.. they hold great and do not streach at all except with the waist band but thats normal. they make it designed to fit the male bone structure so it will be more comfortable. It is made like a g-string type in the back. the panties are pretty see through and make an awsome combo with the gaff's.. i combine a pink gaff with a red type pantie and it looks sooooo cute XD

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