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Guest LaurenFrancesca

Drawing my testicles up inside me has just felt too weird, when I've tried it, or it has happened accidentally, so I rely on tight underwear and cheaters to do the trick. Just have to get a body shaper to help the tuck and keep my tummy in control too! I may also try again at a full tuck, since knowing it has happened, by accident when I've been wanting it to almost makes my day!

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Guest Lizzie McTrucker
2. the best and cutest gaff types i can find i got from this website https://www.crossdresser.com/product_page.a...ductSubCatID=20

Those are cute!

Me, I go one extra step and wear a pair of either snug or comfy panties (including the cotton ones) and wear a pad, then I wear a spandex panty (usually pink or black) over it. Never had a slippage problem since the pad seems to keep it in place. Not worried about extra bulk because it's normal for women my age to wear some form of feminine hygiene for at least part of the month.

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Yes it is Jess,

It takes time to get used to (them) being up inside all the time.And you will see,when crossing

your legs at times,that(they) will get pinched and give you a real shock of pain.(ouch) lol

But,with steady practice,and the determination that(they and it) do not belong on the outside,

or not between your legs,you will get used to the feeling and the discomfort.Anti androgens will

do what they are designed to do,and shrink the unwanted baggage down in no time.Then it becomes so much easier and so much more comfortable.Do not push it,it does take time and

experience and lots of patience to get used to something so unusual for your genitals.

I have tucked for the last six years.Four years without HRT.So I know where you are coming from.

Welcome to your womanhood,and remember to use patience with yourself as you get used to

being up inside and back between your legs,like we know they are supposed to be.

Hugs New Girl,

Angie

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Sorry not I,

When the good maker made me,he made sure I would have been happy as a cisgendered man.

But that's another problem in itself.

Angie

What is tucking? What are you talking about?

Melisa

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What is tucking? What are you talking about?

Melisa

youll probably have like five girls answer you at once

tucking is taking your testicles, and pushing them back into your abdomen where they where before they "dropped" when you where young, also where (on most men) they retract to in extreme colds, and then taking your penis and pushing it back wards flat against your bottom between your legs.

some people perfer to tuck buy pushing teh whole package back but it can be uncomfortable to sit like that,

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Guest Robin Winter
What is tucking? What are you talking about?

Melisa

Adjusting the male um..organ, in order to hide it, usually by tucking between the legs, so there's no telltale bulge in the front of the pants. Makes it much easier to pass as a woman in public :P

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Guest ChloëC
What is tucking? What are you talking about?

Melisa

If you remember the two sequences in the original "Crocodile Dundee" movie where he first mistakes the cross-dresser in the bar for a cis-gendered woman and decides to determine what's going on, and then later meets the older woman at that cocktail party/exhibitwhatever and checks her out too; tucking (along with very tight undergarments) reduces the chances of having someone like him find out, the way he did. If that's what you're trying to accomplish.

Oh, and for your next possible question, a gaff is a specially designed device that helps accomplish the task.

Chloë

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Guest JessicaUK14

Hey is it normal for "them" to go all tingly when tucked 4 a long period of time and also does anyone know any good tips on generally looking feminine (down there). Thanks girls lots of hugs love jes.

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Guest Elizabeth K
Hey is it normal for "them" to go all tingly when tucked 4 a long period of time and also does anyone know any good tips on generally looking feminine (down there). Thanks girls lots of hugs love jes.

Hon - this is an OLD Topic. Some people are no longer here. I can answer as a MTF - biut i am on HRT so its not something I do much - shrunken down as I am. BUT when crossdressing - I did not tuck too often, unless I was in tight jeans or shorts. It is just me - tucking reminds me something is 'down there' and without tucking I usually tune it out.

BUT

Tucking? Spanx control panties - perfect.

Your question? YES - you are pushing against a nerve system and a huge blood supply potential. Everything gets 'tingly." Usually you have to untuck to pee - so it is self limiting.

Looking more feminine - hee hee - duct tape! Be sure to cut your hair real short down there (DONT SHAVE - too prickly later) - but it takes practice. Tuck - then secure

hummmmm.... glad THATs over for me!

Lizzy

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Guest NatashaJade
Looking more feminine - hee hee - duct tape! Be sure to cut your hair real short down there (DONT SHAVE - too prickly later) - but it takes practice. Tuck - then secure

hummmmm.... glad THATs over for me!

Lizzy

Oh, no! This is a place where duct tape is not "man's best friend." I've heard some horror stories about the...ahem...removal. You may not like what's being covered, but don't punish yourself and having to go to the emergency room to explain that one...yich! Surgical tape is probably more in order. If you're going to use a stronger variety adhesive like duct tape, get some of that foam tape like the athletes use to cover the delicate skin first. Some duct tape sticks as well as super-glue.

luv

Gin

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Guest Elizabeth K

HEE HEE

I do remember a certain - reluctance - of taking the duct tape off! Sort of a double thing - immediate depilation as an extra!

I used it for 25 years - holds better than surgical tape and you can use less of it! Sorry if it makes you shudder!

Ripppppppppp! AUGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGH

Lizzette

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