Jump to content
  • Welcome to the TransPulse Forums!

    We offer a safe, inclusive community for transgender and gender non-conforming folks, as well as their loved ones, to find support and information.  Join today!

Songs That Seem To Capture What You Feel Or Have Felt


Guest praisedbeherhooves

Recommended Posts

Guest praisedbeherhooves

For example, "Bad Habit" by the Dresden Dolls was an amazing capture of my attitude when I was living as a girl in puberty and self injuring. It talks about anger and frustration that no one is catching you when it is obvious as well as people's obliviousness to suffering because they are too obsessed with unimportant things. It also says how it's so hard to quit and it feels like everything you tried fails. Luckily I managed to quit, but at the time it seemed impossible. "Labyrinth" by Oomph seems to be a perfect photograph of what I felt when I was going through psychosis, especially the music video. Well, the subtitled music video is the only way I knew what the lyrics actually are so I guess I wouldn't know how well it captures psychosis if it were not for the video but the video is definitely very much like how I felt too. "Girl Anachronism" by the Dresden Dolls is a good description of how I felt when I was a young child, except I was a boy, people just didn't know. However, I felt more like an anachronism from the future than the past. I felt like that I was supposed to be born a hundred years later in a time when people would understand me. Asperger's Sydrome was already discovered, people didn't know about it so they just said I was a brat when I screamed when people touched me. When I eventually was diagnosed it seemed at first a relief and then an insult that they would say who I am is nothing more than a disorder. Who are they to tell me that my personality, my intellect and my entire mind set is a disease? Hopefully it won't be a hundred years to have people accept Asperger's as a different way of being and not a disease. I still sort of consider myself an anachronism to an extent so I guess the song still captures who I am. I have to say "Until the Day You Die" by Abney Park seems to capture how I am now, which is carrying on despite what people think. However, obviously I am not a laser sling air pirate, though it would be awesome if I was. Yeah, anyway, what songs capture what you feel?

Link to comment
Guest Elizabeth K

A modified Beatle song. "Hey Jude"

"Don't be afraid - you were made to go out and 'be' her."

"The minute you let her under your skin - they you begin to make it better."

Silly I know.

Praised be! I would marry you! (another post!) BUT I looked at your profile. I am 3.5 times your age! BUt I think in most ways you are older than me... and I have an old soul... so know that some of us see much more in you than you see in yourself. Cryptic huh, sorry? GRIN... better go get my coffee fix!

Lizzy

Link to comment
Guest Nikki A
For example, "Bad Habit" by the Dresden Dolls was an amazing capture of my attitude when I was living as a girl in puberty and self injuring. It talks about anger and frustration that no one is catching you when it is obvious as well as people's obliviousness to suffering because they are too obsessed with unimportant things. It also says how it's so hard to quit and it feels like everything you tried fails. Luckily I managed to quit, but at the time it seemed impossible. "Labyrinth" by Oomph seems to be a perfect photograph of what I felt when I was going through psychosis, especially the music video. Well, the subtitled music video is the only way I knew what the lyrics actually are so I guess I wouldn't know how well it captures psychosis if it were not for the video but the video is definitely very much like how I felt too. "Girl Anachronism" by the Dresden Dolls is a good description of how I felt when I was a young child, except I was a boy, people just didn't know. However, I felt more like an anachronism from the future than the past. I felt like that I was supposed to be born a hundred years later in a time when people would understand me. Asperger's Sydrome was already discovered, people didn't know about it so they just said I was a brat when I screamed when people touched me. When I eventually was diagnosed it seemed at first a relief and then an insult that they would say who I am is nothing more than a disorder. Who are they to tell me that my personality, my intellect and my entire mind set is a disease? Hopefully it won't be a hundred years to have people accept Asperger's as a different way of being and not a disease. I still sort of consider myself an anachronism to an extent so I guess the song still captures who I am. I have to say "Until the Day You Die" by Abney Park seems to capture how I am now, which is carrying on despite what people think. However, obviously I am not a laser sling air pirate, though it would be awesome if I was. Yeah, anyway, what songs capture what you feel?

well, as amanda palmer related songs... Shores of California, Sing, Runs In the Family,bad habit, Girl Anachronism (i feel like an anachronism from the past unlike you tho!)

Running up that Hill (Placebo)

Lover I don't have to love (bright eyes)

The Spine Song (Cake Bake Betty) i have no idea why that reminds me of how i feel :P it kinda just does

All the things she said (tatu)

Your sweet 666 (H.I.M)

Under the judas tree (psyclon nine)

Amaranth (Nightwish)

Coin Operated Boy (The dresden dolls) that is more how i feel about others :P

King Rat (Modest Mouse)

King for a Day (green day) Feels like a flashback at parts XD

Empty With You (the used)

"I Caught Fire (in your eyes)" (the used)

Skulls (the misfits)

Thrash Unreal (Against Me!)

In Which Draco and Harry Secretly Want to Make out (the whomping willows)

Im sure there r more that i just cant think of! lol

Hugs, Nikki

Link to comment

When i was young, i liked Supertramp The Logical Song:

There are times when all the world's asleep, The questions run too deep, For such a simple man, Won't you please, please tell me what we've learned, I know it sounds absurd, But please tell me who I am

When i was upset i liked Pearl Jam's Why Go

she scratches a letter, into a wall made of stone, maybe someday, another child, won't feel as alone as she does

it's been two years, and counting, since they put her in this place, she's been diagnosed, by some stupid *****, and mommy agrees, why go home?, why go home?,why go home...

she seems to be stronger, but what they want her to be is weak, she could just pretend, she could join the game, she could be another clone

why go home?

what you taught me, put me here, don't come visit, mommy dear

When i'm with my lover i like Billy Joel's You May Be Right

The refrain goes:

You may be right, I may be crazy, But it just may be a lunatic you're looking for, Turn out the light, Don't try to save me, You may be wrong for all I know, But you may be right

I like the part where he says:

You were lonely for a man, I said take me as I am, 'Cause you might enjoy some madness for a while

Link to comment
  • 3 weeks later...
Guest 91curiouskitten

Was actually thinkign abtuo makign this post, thanks for makign ti :P My lsit, well its all songs I have on ym playlist, when Im laying down or feelign down, I listen to these songs voer and over

Evenecescen: Missing:

Mudvayne: Scarlet Letters

3 Doors Down: Changes ((Especially love this one))

Linkin Park: Numb

12 stones: Lie to me

ICP: I found a body ((ITs another personal fav, listen apst the twisted parts))

Trapt: Made of Glass

Fanastasia: Everythgin burns ((I think fantasia or somethign))

3 Doors down: ITs not me ((One mroe starred one lol))

Three Days Grace: No more

Breaking Benjamin: Breakdown

Breaking benjamin:" No more games

My chermical romance: I'm not okay ((Yup you guessed, another fav))

Default: Get out of this alive ((It has fit me for years))

The Wallflowers: One headlight

Rise against: Swing life away

Simple plan: My generation ((Yuup))

Link to comment
Guest jessica lynn

Well for me it would be baby you wouldn't last a minute on my creek. Acoustic. When I was a younger teen going through puberty it reall helped me just calm down. Its a beautiful song! Its by chiodos which is a great band with a very hot singer! <3 craig owens!

Link to comment
Guest Joanna Phipps

I think one that relates to us all, because although we are all going in the same direction no two trails are the same, would be that old Sinatra classic My Way. When the chips are down the only way to do transition is your way.

Link to comment

There was an old song in the late 70s, Andy Williams recorded called "The Other Side Of Me" - there are two new songs by that title now but the old one is more to the point for us.

And this has got to be our Anthem - all rise and face the world with your hands over your hearts as you listen.

I've Gotta Be Me

You may now be seated.

Love ya,

Sally

Link to comment
  • 3 weeks later...

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now
  • Who's Online   6 Members, 0 Anonymous, 179 Guests (See full list)

    • MaeBe
    • missyjo
    • AllieJ
    • Ashley0616
    • Evelyn J
    • MaybeRob
  • Recently Browsing   0 members

    • No registered users viewing this page.
  • Forum Statistics

    • Total Topics
      80.7k
    • Total Posts
      768.7k
  • Member Statistics

    • Total Members
      12,033
    • Most Online
      8,356

    ArtavikenGenderflui
    Newest Member
    ArtavikenGenderflui
    Joined
  • Today's Birthdays

    1. afraid of self
      afraid of self
    2. Chaidoesart
      Chaidoesart
      (14 years old)
    3. Faith57
      Faith57
    4. Joyce Ann
      Joyce Ann
      (70 years old)
    5. Kelly21121
      Kelly21121
      (56 years old)
  • Posts

    • missyjo
      and just fi sweeten it..I'm catholic n he hasn't been for years..he's evangelical..whatever that is
    • MaeBe
      Let’s stick to cite-able fact. Most of my posts have been directly in relation to LGBTQ+ rights as it pertains to P2025 and I have drawn direct links between people, their quotes, and their agenda. I have made reference to the cronyism that P2025 would entail as well, by gutting, not cutting, broad swathes of government and replacing it with “conservative warriors” (I can get you the direct quote, but rest assured it’s a quote). All this does is constantly force the cogs to be refitted, not their movement. To say that agencies have directly defied a President is a bit much, the EPA did what Trump told them to do at the direct harm to the environment, the department of agriculture did the same by enacting the administrations forced move to KC which decimated the USDA.      How about Betsy DeVoss for Education? Or Bannon for anything? What about the revolving Chief of Staff position that Trump couldn’t stay filled? Or the Postmaster General, who did much to make the USPS worse?   Let’s not mix politics with racism, sexism, or any other ism. Because Trump made mainly white, male, appointments—many of them not, arguably, people fit for service—or unwilling to commit to term. I can argue this because, again, he’s up for election and will do what he did before (and more of the same, his words).   Please delineate how the selected diversity appointments have negatively affected the US, other than being black, women, or queer? Representation matters and America benefits when its people are inspired and empowered.
    • missyjo
      ok ladies if I've asked this before I'm sorry please delete    ok so I have 2vsiblings..one is overly religious..n preachy n domineering..so he keeps trying to talk with me n I'd like to..but he always falls into this all knowing all wise domineering preachy thing tjaz tells me he's praying for christ to beat Satan for control of my soul..which is doomed to hell bc I'm transgender    I'd like to try to have a civil conversation n try to set him strait n gsin a cooperation n real conversation    any suggestions?
    • missyjo
      abigail darling what about extensions or a wig? be brave n hang in there  to thine own self be true  good luck
    • RaineOnYourParade
      When I first started figuring things out, I got a lot more euphoria. Every time a friend would use he/they pronouns for me, I'd get this bubbly feeling, and seeing myself look masculine made me really happy. Dysphoric state felt more normal, so I guess I noticed the pain it caused me less.   Now, it's more just that my pronouns and such things feel natural, and dysphoria is a lot stronger -- I know what's natural, so experiencing the opposite is more jarring than everything. The problem is, most of my natural experiences are from friends, and I rarely get properly gendered by strangers, much less by my family. I've found myself unable to bind in months due to aches, colds,, and not wanting to risk damage.    It partially makes me want to go back to the beginning of my journey, because at least then I got full euphoria. I'm pretty sure it'll be like this until I medically transition, or at the very least get top surgery (you know all those trans dudes online with tiny chests? Not me, unfortunately). It's a bit depressing, but at least I know that, eventually, there's a way out of this.
    • RaineOnYourParade
      Major mood, right here ^^^    I've listened to Lumineers to a long time (a major portion of it by osmosis via my mom), so that is almost painfully relatable
    • RaineOnYourParade
      As for getting a button-up/formal pants suit, you can try to talk to her more -- Cis women in tuxes have worn tuxes in recent years, after all, (for example, Zendaya) so it can still be a relatively safe topic. For jumpsuits, I'd recommend going with a simple one with a blazer, if you can -- this'll make it look overall more masculine. There's a lot of good brands, but going for one without a lot of extra glitz on it will make it look less feminine under a blazer. I don't know many specific brands though since I usually just get my stuff from chain stores, sorry :<   When it comes to your hair, if you can't cut it, you can look up tutorials on fluffing it up instead. If you can pull it off, it can look a lot shorter and more androgynous instead!
    • RaineOnYourParade
      As far as I'm aware, he wasn't -- he just sometimes wore skirts, which was why it was a question in the first place.   In my opinion, part of that is because of the way press spares attention on issues like that. As a bit of a true crime nut and what I see: Child predator cases' (and cases of a sexual nature in general) press focus on those with an AMAB perpetrator generally, and very rarely are AFAB perpetrators given much press time or even getting tried due to a whole bunch of issues I'm not gonna get into. Because of this, when you see these types of cases and a boy is the victim, it's almost always a queer person who is the one who committed a crime that gets press. Therefore, with the amount of cases seen with this type of perpetrator (and due to the fact "99% of queer people are not sexual criminals" doesn't attract eyes), the human brain can kind of naturally makes an association with it. It's not right, but it's also a fault I think falls partially on the media.   That's all my opinion, though!   This is extra confusing to me, as a feminine man is usually viewed as gay. If someone is refusing the acknowledge the existence of trans people, then gay would be the societal connection that comes after, I think. So, that sorta implies that trans women wouldn't be interested in women in the first place by those assumptions? Of course, trans lesbians exist (most trans women I know like women, actually), but it's a little ridiculous to me that people will deny trans people's existence, call all feminine AMAB people gay, and say that trans people are looking to peep all in the same breath.   Wow, this was a lot longer of a response than I was planning to write--
    • Abigail Genevieve
      For one thing, the practice of putting into office wholly unqualified people simply because of racial, sexual or national characteristics.  It is no accident that Karine is a Haitian immigrant, Black and lesbian.  Kamala Harris is a Black female. Pete Buttigieg is gay.  Often you find that Biden explicitly stated that this is why he hired them, not because of competence, but because they checked so many boxes on his little list.  It makes a mockery of people and is a disservice to the US. 
    • Abigail Genevieve
      I am not sure why people are in favor of unaccountable agencies with bloated budgets and wasteful spending. 
    • Abigail Genevieve
      What about it?
    • SydneyAngel
      Hey girl  I had a problem like you happen to me also. In my first year of estrogen I had a period where my level were good then they got really bad where my testosterone spike high.  I felt like you with all that disforia coming hard. Our bodies need time to adjust. The process is a real pain in the beginning. It levels out eventually and you don't even think about it. Hang in there hugs 
    • Ivy
      Biden's woke agenda?
    • KatieSC
      I wonder if there will be law enforcement procedural shows coming this fall. I can imagine Law and Order: Genital Crimes Unit, or perhaps, FBI: Domestic Genitalia. Then again, maybe they will dedicate a CSI program about the dedicated members of the Oklahoma State Police Genital Screening Unit. Good to know that those Oklahomans have their priorities squared away.
    • KatieSC
      Protections? Well, when they mandate that some who is transgender can get facial and genital electrolysis paid as it is essential to affirming care, or when they mandate and pay for facial feminization surgery, speech therapy/voice affirmation surgery, I will believe that the order is effective. One of biggest hurdles for many transgender individuals is the cost of care. I remember when my one insurance company tried to say that my speech therapy and voice surgery were "cosmetic". I remember when they blocked paying for my facial surgery. I remember the fight I had to get electrolysis. These procedures could save someone's life if the procedures help the individual successfully transition, and are no longer misgendered. 
  • Upcoming Events

Contact TransPulse

TransPulse can be contacted in the following ways:

Email: Click Here.

To report an error on this page.

Legal

Your use of this site is subject to the following rules and policies, whether you have read them or not.

Terms of Use
Privacy Policy
DMCA Policy
Community Rules

Hosting

Upstream hosting for TransPulse provided by QnEZ.

Sponsorship

Special consideration for TransPulse is kindly provided by The Breast Form Store.
×
×
  • Create New...