Get Over It Girlfriend

[Guest angie]

Good Day My Sisters,

My two closest girlfriends,both of whom have been living in role

for the last seven years,become impatient with me when I expound

on how happy I am at the way and experiences I am having as my

life is unfolding living life female. I rejoice at being in public,and no

one being the wiser that I am anything but another woman.At wearing

my favorite bracelets for weeks,even months at a time.Of the thrill I

get at putting on my makeup,fixing my hair,and choosing,the outfit for

the day or event. Being missed,and ma'amed,honeyed and sweetied.

Mmmm,I love this stuff. They have both told me,get over it girlfriend.

But I can't see that happening anytime soon,I am enjoying my journey,

and the wonders of taking my place is still magical to me. One day,years

down the road it may become mundane to live life female,but not as long

as my life remains such a wonderous and wonderful journey.For now though,

I simply love being a girl.

Love,

Angelique

[Guest Donna Jean]

I simply love being a girl.

Love,

Angelique

Ang....

No better way to say it, Honey!

I also take umbrage with those that say that you'll settle into unlimited boredom ...

No...maybe They have...I just don't see that for me!

But, in life there are many types and some of us enjoy ever little nuance of our new "female" being!

Although I don't post on every little time I get "Ma'am'd" anymore (gets redundant) I treasure each and every time!

Some people embrace life others just exist!

I think that you and I embrace it!

Tell the girlfriends to take a chill pill!

LOVE

Donna Jean

[Sally]

There is nothing wrong with enjoying life and that is what you are doing - if you don't enjoy and savor the small things in life all of the big problems get completely out of hand.

Enjoy putting on your make up, otherwise it becomes a chore, when people are polite to you smile - it doesn't hurt anyone and it does let them know that you appreciate it.

We are told that we have to give up our male privileges (whatever they were supposed to be - I have noticed any) to become the women that we have always been so if we do then shouldn't we be allowed to enjoy any little perks from being ourselves?

Tell your girlfriends that you are sorry that life has lost its excitement for them but you intend to savor every Miss, Ma'am, Honey, Sweetie, help door, chair pulled out and seat offered.

Love ya,

Sally

[Guest sarah f]

Angie you just keep on enjoying life and don't let them tell you otherwise. It is great that you are out there as your true self and passing so well. I am jealous of you and hope to be able to do that some day.

Love,

Sarah F

[Guest BeckyTG]

Angie,

I am the consummate cheerleader and have been for a long time. I have learned that true happiness comes not from material things or possessions, but the appreciation of beauty, the wonders of nature and simple joys of life.

I have long gotten over the idea that I can't be happy until I acquire ______ or that I need to have newer ___ or more ___ than others. With all the anxiety that's laid buried in my being, I had to learn these things just to survive.

Losing my mother and father taught me that life is a cycle and the birds that appear every spring aren't the same birds that came last year or years prior. Their passing taught me that we only get so many days on this earth, so why do we want to waste one with a bad mood? Rejoice and love life. Well, as much as you can enjoy with the wrong body, anyway.

Yesterday, we had several crisis occur at work, but I spent time finding humor in it, to help me cope.

Angie, sweetheart, you just keep loving being a girl and you're living your life as you should. Proud, fulfilled and happy. I'm extremely happy to be me right now--on HRT, my blood chemistry has been restored, my system is working and soon I'll be out in public as me.

How can we *not* rejoice?

Special hugs to you, sweet Lady,

Becky

[Paula ult]

Angie hon,

Instead if being impatient with you they should be happy that you are having such great success, after all they were once where you are right now. Maybe in the future being called ma'am, having doors help open will become mundane and you will cease to notice it, i am like you, i enjoy each ma'am, miss and door help open and i expect to for a long time to come.

Paula

[Guest Ryles_D]

I wonder why they're telling you to get over it... I think it's awesome that you're so happy with the way your life is going. It probably will get mundane- but why not enjoy it while it's still new and exciting?