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Came Out To A Family Member


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Guest SouthernBelle
As the title says, I came out (by accident) to one of my sister's in law... I wrote it all down at my blog so check it out for the full story :P

Melanie Dawn

I checked out your blog, but I don't get something... How did she take it?! Did she give you a weird look or a thumbs up? Do you think she will tell others? Are you glad she knows or upset? I hope that your accidental coming out isn't something you regret. The way I see is that coming out is hard no matter what you do (not that I wouldn't understand if that's not how you wanted it to go)

Anyway, I'm happy for you if you are happy and I am here for you if you are not. Either way, it sounds like your wife is VERY supportive and that's just wonderful!

HUGGS AND KISSES

Belle :D

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Guest Melanie Dawn
I checked out your blog, but I don't get something... How did she take it?! Did she give you a weird look or a thumbs up? Do you think she will tell others? Are you glad she knows or upset? I hope that your accidental coming out isn't something you regret. The way I see is that coming out is hard no matter what you do (not that I wouldn't understand if that's not how you wanted it to go)

Anyway, I'm happy for you if you are happy and I am here for you if you are not. Either way, it sounds like your wife is VERY supportive and that's just wonderful!

HUGGS AND KISSES

Belle :D

She didn't say alot, I did text her the next day to thank her for being so cool about it (she and i haven't always gotten along), I'm glad she knows, and She is being very sweet-she said she was proud of my bravery. You see, her son also lives with us, and I think he may have an idea, but i don't know for sure. She wasn't sure who I wanted to know so she has let me deal with it.

Thanks a ton for you kind words Belle, I appreciate it. :)

/hugs

Melanie Dawn

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Yup, Melanie, that is a bit of a different approach to coming out. :D

I'm glad that it went so well, intentional or not (or maybe in-between somewhere). I hope that coming out is always that easy and well received.

It really is great that your wife is so supportive. We are incredibly fortunate to have such wonderful spouses, because Lord knows its a rare thing.

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Carolyn Marie

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Guest SouthernBelle
She didn't say alot, I did text her the next day to thank her for being so cool about it (she and i haven't always gotten along), I'm glad she knows, and She is being very sweet-she said she was proud of my bravery. You see, her son also lives with us, and I think he may have an idea, but i don't know for sure. She wasn't sure who I wanted to know so she has let me deal with it.

Thanks a ton for you kind words Belle, I appreciate it. :)

/hugs

Melanie Dawn

Well, I'm glad to know you don't regret it. Like I said coming out is hard and it's nice to not have to regret doing so.

My kind words are always here to brighten your day. And they come from the heart. Feel free to PM me if you ever need someone to talk to.

HUGGS

Belle

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Guest Donna Jean

Well, That's one way to do it, Mel!...lol

Good on you, GF!

You are squeezing out bit by bit!

HUGGGGGS!

Donna Jean

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