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By KathyLauren · Posted
I am sorry you had such a traumatic childhood experience. There are many of us trans folks who are asexual. It is not at all uncommon. Sometimes it is due to traumatic childhood experiences, sometimes for other reasons, sometimes for no discernible reason at all. As Carolyn Marie said, you get all sexual variations in both trans and cis people. I strongly second her recommendation to see a therapist. -
By BobbiSkunk · Posted
My whole approach to this has generally been telling a handful of people very close to me, and nobody else. I feel they don't really need to know? Is that a wrong assumption? I was just going to do my HRT and if they see changes in me they can ask. I don't really like sharing info with people. Will this approach be more trouble than it is worth? -
By Carolyn Marie · Posted
Yes, you would still be considered transgender if you are asexual. Sexuality and gender preference are separate issues entirely, so one can be trans - desiring to be or dress as someone of the opposite gender (including cross-dressers), and also be Gay, Lesbian, bi-sexual, asexual or pan sexual. I am also very sorry that you had to endure such mistreatment as a child. That must have been a horrifying and traumatic time. I hope that have been or are now seeing a therapist to help with those experiences. Carolyn Marie -
By LittleSam · Posted
Looking for a bit of advice or encouragement really. I'm 5 weeks on T and excited about any new body hair. I'm not getting much, but I've noticed more around my pubic area and bumhole lol, sorry if tmi. I've also a got a few more thigh hairs and lower leg hair is growing longer. I know it's very early days so I wasn't expecting facial hair at all for a few years, but I definitely seem to have more longer blonde peach fuzz hairs. Pre T I had some anyway and I used to use hair removal cream and pluck, because I did get some darker hairs I didn't like. So I don't know if this is my natural hair because I haven't been plucking so much and using hair removal cream. I really want to have facial hair, but also I am worried that I look like a cis woman with some facial hair. I certainly am far from passing at the mo. Basically I'd love to embrace the hair and not shave. I'm already excited by more moustache hair that's growing through, however the hair is only on the sides frustratingly, rather than the middle also. I think shaving could be a euphoric experience, but could make me look more fem. I'm not sure if I should leave peach fuzz or shave. Do teen boys shave or leave their chin hair? I'm 34 and don't want to look like a teen. Want did anyone else decide to do? -
By Carolyn Marie · Posted
Well, those are his besties after all, as he is very fond of saying. He was/is even "in love" with Kim Jong Un. They do very much want him to win in November. Carolyn Marie -
By Perplexed45 · Posted
If discussion of past child sexual assault triggers you turn back In a Previous post I have stated I am an Asexual 45yo M who turned Asexual due to childhood trauma. I feel i need to get this off my chest. Sorry if this triggers anyone. Okay backstory: at a young age around 13-14, I was interested in dressing up as a girl. I was a skinny effeminate boy with silky black hair and clear complexion. I was lucky in that I had an understanding female school friend(Jane) who liked helping me to dress up at her place, hell even her mother helped after she caught us 3 months in. boy was that embarrassing! anyway fast forward about a year later just before the school holidays and my father comes home Early from work Drunk. This is after I returned from visiting my friend after school, I had taken a shower upon returning but had made the mistake of leaving some of the clothes given to me by Jane's mum out(was going to hand wash and dry them in the back of my closet before father came home.) Queue ugly scene Gay shaming, physical violence, forcing me to dress back up, using me as a "-awesome person- son should enjoy it if he is dressing up". two days later during holidays, after being grounded and unable to see Jane, Father ships me off to some friends of his --------{i hope i do not have to explain what happened to me during this time}) on the Coast with money being exchanged I think. after that holiday season I forced myself to wear the ugliest boy clothes i could and eat unhealthy in an attempt to gain weight to make myself look unattractive which seemed to trigger puberty as I shoot up and out putting on an athletes build over the next 6 months. with the help of Jane and her mother I was able to get Father arrested and sentenced for 15 years about 2 months after the holidays ended with me ending up in foster care for disturbed children. After that holidays the very thought of being with someone since has been.... sickening. The idea of very idea of having sex makes me Shudder still the idea of dressing back up has been too painful 30 years later. It was only after a doctor recently recommended I wear sports tights or stocking to bed (to try and alleviate night terrors which had sprung up recently brought about by personal skin to skin contact as I slept) that the idea of dressing up again crept in. I enjoy dressing up in pantyhose and underthings in the safety of my bedroom on occasion but the idea of being with someone still.... I guess I want to ask is: can you be classed as trans for liking to dress up in lingerie occasionally but also Asexual for not wanting sex? -
By Davie · Posted
Dictators and friends Putin and Orbán voice support for Trump as allies respect US legal process. Kremlin spokesman decries ‘elimination … of political rivals’ while Hungarian prime minister calls Trump ‘a man of honor.’ -
By Justine76 · Posted
This stuff ends up on my playlist almost daily. -
By Carolyn Marie · Posted
I think it is true that MAGA-ism has been exported to the U.K. and other places in Europe and even Canada. It is a very sad phenomenon. Hopefully, it is also a transitory one. Too much of the world seems to think we are a scourge that requires either control or elimination. It is depressing. Carolyn Marie -
By Ivy · Posted
https://www.erininthemorning.com/p/uk-secretary-uses-emergency-powers?utm_source=post-email-title&publication_id=994764&post_id=145165151&utm_campaign=email-post-title&isFreemail=true&r=k5hac&triedRedirect=true&utm_medium=email This is how these people work… "The prohibition relies on a decades-old law that allows for the emergency prohibition of medications without the need for a full legislative process; no vote was taken on the edict, and the order was issued just before parliament dissolved for the general election, meaning it could not be overturned." "“It basically says puberty blockers are being treated like other illegal drugs like cocaine and heroin.” He then followed up with the applicable law, which indicates that those who violate the ban could be imprisoned for two years." I suppose soon Social Transition will be outlawed. It is contagious, you know. -
By Perplexed45 · Posted
background: I am a 45yo Asexual 6foot 4 Male who most days has as much sexual identity as a dead Rock most days. But every now and then I want to feel pretty by wearing pretty underwear and pantyhose. but as a Larger person (3-4xl Aus boxer) I am finding it hard to find underthings that are not overly frilly (sissy) or have false camel toes online. I am unable to go out shopping in public without being drugged due to a spinal injury. I am not trying to be something i know i am not. I know I am a rock due to childhood trauma that caused me to have issues with being with others and even skin contact with myself at night can give me violent attacks which was what actually got me into pantyhose (by doctor recommendation). Sports leggings during winter and pantyhose during warmer months to block leg skin on skin contact and long sleeve mircrofibre shirts to stop torso skin contact. i brought some mesh shirts on etsy (custom made on sale) which has gotten me into wearing nice clothes occasionally. my question is: I am looking for some HI CUT HIPSTER BIKINI style panties for crossdressers for someone with 49inch/125cm hip that will not break the bank. I have gotten some pretty shirts and leggings on etsy but am finding it hard to get underthings that are not OVERLY sexualized just some thing that makes me feel pretty every now and then -
By Ivy · Posted
I have had a similar experience, and it is hard. I'm thinking about you. -
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By Ivy · Posted
Something good for a change.
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