Jump to content
  • Welcome to the TransPulse Forums!

    We offer a safe, inclusive community for transgender and gender non-conforming folks, as well as their loved ones, to find support and information.  Join today!

"full Time"


Guest Janis

Recommended Posts

Guest Janis

Hello everybody,

Well tomorrow May 24th I begin living 'full time'. I hope that I am not too nervous making that first walk into my office. I am sure everything will be fine other than my own worries.

So RLE/RLT/Full Time here I come!

Janis

Link to comment

Good Luck Janis.

Do your fellow employees know at the office or is this going to be a complete surprise?

Love Susan

Link to comment
  • Admin

Congrats, Janis, and best wishes for a successful and happy day. I hope it goes perfectly for you.

HUGS

Carolyn Marie

Link to comment
Guest Janis
Do your fellow employees know at the office or is this going to be a complete surprise?

Thank you very much for your support. The staff have known since Feb. 22nd that I am trans. So they have had a long time to get used to the idea, but tomorrow is the reality.

Right now I am a ball of nerves, the mixture of excitement and anxiety.

again I am sure it will be an uneventful day but stil....

Love ya all,

Janis

Link to comment
Guest JustShelly

Congrats!!

Just remember if you have any difficulties during the day. Just keep telling your self 'just keep swimming, just keep swimming". :) I think everything will go good.

Pleas lets us know how your day went.

Best Wishes

Shelly

Link to comment
Guest angie

Welcome to fulltime womanhood sis.

It may get challenging at times,but,oh,is it ever worth it.

Huge Hugs for a Giant Step Forward,

Angie

Link to comment
Guest Cris

Janis,

Hopefully your day went well, and that your nervousness was just self induced, and nothing out of the ordinary happened.

Best

Cris

Link to comment
Guest Elizabeth K

I know its a done deal by now! My advice would have been act like it is no big deal!

Many people will take a cue from how you act - so smile alot and show you are FINALLY at peace.

LIZZY

Link to comment
Guest Janis

Thank you for your kind words of support.

Today is going great! I have gotten a great deal of compliments and encouragement. A few of the office staff went in and ordered my flowers with a Happy Birthday card.

It has been an amazing day for me. I posted a pic my partner snapped of me in the gallery. It is not the greatest, i think the nervousness is written out on my face.

Janis

Link to comment
Guest Elizabeth K
Thank you for your kind words of support.

Today is going great! I have gotten a great deal of compliments and encouragement. A few of the office staff went in and ordered my flowers with a Happy Birthday card.

It has been an amazing day for me. I posted a pic my partner snapped of me in the gallery. It is not the greatest, i think the nervousness is written out on my face.

Janis

Thats you????

Whatta you worried about! Dang natal females pretending to be MTF (mutterings - slinks away again!)

Lizzy

Link to comment
Guest Donna Jean
Thank you for your kind words of support.

Today is going great! I have gotten a great deal of compliments and encouragement. A few of the office staff went in and ordered my flowers with a Happy Birthday card.

It has been an amazing day for me. I posted a pic my partner snapped of me in the gallery. It is not the greatest, i think the nervousness is written out on my face.

Janis

I think that you should know that some of us have been there with you all day....

When I read this this morning, my heart was pounding....

You'd think that I was doing it instead of you!

It really sounds as if the others have been really sweet.....

Good on you, Hon.....

LOVE

Donna Jean

Link to comment
Guest KellyKat
Thank you for your kind words of support.

Today is going great! I have gotten a great deal of compliments and encouragement. A few of the office staff went in and ordered my flowers with a Happy Birthday card.

It has been an amazing day for me. I posted a pic my partner snapped of me in the gallery. It is not the greatest, i think the nervousness is written out on my face.

Janis

Well Happy Birthday!!!

Janis has arrived!!

And you looked wonderful doing it!!

Congrats hun!!

Luv Kat :)

Link to comment
Guest Melanie Dawn

Gook Luck, and I hope all goes well. I WAS pretty close myself, but had a hard stumble... now i don't know when it's going to happen for me.

Melanie Dawn

Link to comment
Guest Janis

So after all was said and done, I survived my first day. I feel that my i should not have been so nervous because everybody was awesome. From here on out my confidence will just continue to build.

Thank you everybody!

Janis

Link to comment
Guest Janis

I know we are well into day 2 at this point and everything has settled into normal routine.

I just wanted to give a very warm and heartfelt Thank You!

Today I have my new intranet employee director photo taken. I am a bit nervous about that, I keep fussing with my hair. I will upload it in my gallery when I get the print.

again thank you everybody for being such a great support network!

Janis

Link to comment
Guest Donna Jean

CUTE!

Janis...you look wonderful.......not nervous at all!

Well, you're setting out on your lifelong journey now....

So, Honey...smooth sailing, clam seas......

I'm terribly happy for you....

It would be nice if we could all get to that point....

Good on you....

BIGG HUGGS!

Donna Jean

Link to comment
Guest doodle

Hey good luck I'm sure it will go well after you get through the beginning of your day. let us know how it goes.

with love

kelly

Link to comment
Guest Janis
Hey good luck I'm sure it will go well after you get through the beginning of your day. let us know how it goes.

with love

kelly

This week has gone amazingly well. The first walk into the building was the worst! After that it turned into any other day for me. I have gotten several compliments on how i am presenting myself so I must be doing something right!

Thank you all again

janis

Link to comment
Guest Donna Jean
This week has gone amazingly well. The first walk into the building was the worst! After that it turned into any other day for me. I have gotten several compliments on how i am presenting myself so I must be doing something right!

Thank you all again

janis

Well, apparently you are doing just about everything right!

You've made my week!

Good on you, Janis!

Continued success!

Huggs

Donna Jean

Link to comment
Guest Elizabeth K

Watching you - dang it girl - you are doing it so well! It seems like you were nervious, I thought maybe you weren't passing that well.

THEN

You posted your new pictures - a natal woman! DANG

Laura's is for transpeople, CDers and Intersexed. NATAL WOMEN don't belong here! WHY ARE YOU TEASING US!!!

hee hee

Seriously

GOOD GREAT GRAND!

Lizzy

Link to comment

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now
  • Who's Online   6 Members, 0 Anonymous, 242 Guests (See full list)

    • Birdie
    • Ivy
    • Petra Jane
    • KathyLauren
    • Mmindy
    • Thea
  • Recently Browsing   0 members

    • No registered users viewing this page.
  • Forum Statistics

    • Total Topics
      80.8k
    • Total Posts
      770.1k
  • Member Statistics

    • Total Members
      12,095
    • Most Online
      8,356

    MossycupMolly
    Newest Member
    MossycupMolly
    Joined
  • Today's Birthdays

    1. Angelo christoper
      Angelo christoper
      (38 years old)
    2. Joslynn
      Joslynn
      (61 years old)
    3. Kaltia_Atlas
      Kaltia_Atlas
    4. Rika_Lil
      Rika_Lil
      (40 years old)
    5. Summerluv
      Summerluv
      (19 years old)
  • Posts

    • VickySGV
      I have not heard about it here in California, but then again we have events of various sorts going on very often, and not just in the June Pride Month.  We have Trans Fashion Week going on at a hotel complex over in West Los Angeles for the next three nights featuring shows by Trans fashion designers and modeled by Trans and NB people on the runways there.  I missed a chance for some free tickets and while I know and love many of the participants I do not want to pay for the tickets which will be in the $50 to $75 range, and which at those prices are nearly sold out.  (Not to mention $25 valet parking each night at the venue complex.).  There will be actual high end fashion buyers there though and it is an area where we are gaining some good footing.  I also admit that NONE of the fashions are going to be anything at all that would fit my basic personal style but look fine if not crazy on my much younger Trans siblings who will model them. (Ok everyone else keep on @Mirrabooka's topic.)
    • Ivy
      TBH, Never heard of it.
    • Mmindy
      Welcome to TransPulseForums @gizgizgizzie    I hope you find this place as helpful as I do. I’m also in a slow transition living in the androgynous world. I’m out to my grown children and my extended family with mixed support from them. Some have cut me out of their lives and others want me to be their flamboyant family member.    Best wishes, stay positive and motivated    Mindy🌈🐛🏳️‍⚧️🦋
    • Davie
      To escape Gaza is already an achievement. And then to be trans?’: the women defying national and gender boundaries. https://www.theguardian.com/film/article/2024/may/16/yolande-zauberman-documentary-the-belle-from-gaza-cannes-film-festival
    • awkward-yet-sweet
      Accidents happen.  So do heat-of-the-moment murders, without premeditation or trans-related hate.  It will take a trial to really figure it out.     One thing we can see from this is that it is people in our circles of acquaintances, friends, and partners who are the ones who usually hurt us.  Not someone random. We have to be careful who we trust.
    • ClaireBloom
      You look so cute in that pic Ashley!  
    • Birdie
      A bit of bra humour...
    • Mirrabooka
      Friday May 17th is IDAHOBIT (International Day Against HOmophobia, BIphobia and Transphobia).   Do you acknowledge or celebrate it? Do you do anything special for it, like taking part in any organized events or activities?   I'm not an activist and I prefer to fly under the radar, but I am slowly becoming aware of important dates. I have been aware of the date of IDAHOBIT for a few weeks now, but other important 'rainbow' dates have not been etched into my brain yet.    I will wear my favorite pride t-shirt as a token acknowledgement of the day, but it probably won't be seen; cool weather here will mean that it will be hidden under a sweater.    
    • Mirrabooka
    • Mirrabooka
      Happiness for me comes from being cognizant of the things that make me feel good.   Sunshine.   Pandering to my inner woman.   Knowing that some people in my life really 'know' me.   Vacations, and Eggs Benedict at an alfresco cafe.   My wife and I being telepathic.   Grandchildren.   Music.   Wine!    
    • Ivy
      True.  Every trans death is not a hate crime. There is so much hate expressed by some people, that we kinda get to expect it.
    • KymmieL
      happiness to me is being ME. At all times, and it has yet to happen.
    • Vidanjali
      Hello & welcome, giz! Your post makes me remember how excited I was to join here too. I also had queer friends at the time I joined, but any of my trans friends lived a long distance away. So most local queer friends are gay & I felt uncomfortable coming out to them bc I couldn't assume they'd understand genderqueerness. So it was a thrill to join here and immediately have access to do many wonderful, genuine, kind & thoughtful friends-to-be.   Are you saying you're concerned that if you come out to your queer friends that somehow your parents will find out?     My love, I just want to affirm that that's not a weird dysphoria. It's just dysphoria. And we definitely get it. You're in good company here!     Look forward to seeing you around here & getting to know you. I shoot for androgynous appearance as well, leaning towards masculine.   Hope you're having a splendid day!
    • Heather Shay
      Listening to a YouTube mix for me and this song came up and I immediately fell in love again and just want to play music with like minded musicians playing OUR music and feel the joy and fulfillment even if no one else gets it. I love to fall into the music....  
    • April Marie
      Welcome to the forums, giz! We’re so happy you found us. You’ll find lots of information and many wonderful people here. Each of us is unique but we all share similarities as well. Look around, ask questions and join in where you feel comfortable!
  • Upcoming Events

Contact TransPulse

TransPulse can be contacted in the following ways:

Email: Click Here.

To report an error on this page.

Legal

Your use of this site is subject to the following rules and policies, whether you have read them or not.

Terms of Use
Privacy Policy
DMCA Policy
Community Rules

Hosting

Upstream hosting for TransPulse provided by QnEZ.

Sponsorship

Special consideration for TransPulse is kindly provided by The Breast Form Store.
×
×
  • Create New...