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Leaving House Dressed As A Woman For First Time


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Guest Arielle

Jenny.

A TS woman that I just met started wearing women's glasses (very cute too) when she wasn't presenting as a woman. Some of the people at the place she worked gave her a hard time about it, but in a couple weeks it was just another thing that she wore on herself. I know that if I had to wear glasses I would love to get something really cute.

I've also been out a few times dressed as myself, not the guy I still present as sometimes (the lie). It's really not a huge deal, I get stares and other things but most people aren't brave enough to come up and say anything to me or ask questions. I also have to go into the MAC cosmetics dept at I think Nordstrom or something where a guy who does many TG girl makeovers works. Yes I know MAC is expensive, but here's a comparison of eyeliner pencils. I bought a name brand one at Walgreens and it was $7 and it really writes or draws like a pencil, not very comfortable and doesn't mark well at all. It also takes me multiple times to get a line going, which most of the time looks horrible because one part is way thick and the others are very thin. MAC stuff (or higher end makeup) in this case is almost like a gel or melted butter tip. You don't have to put very much pressure on it at all if any really to get it to look really thick. The MAC pencil is also $14 and most people at MAC won't question when you go and buy it.

I was in the store and still had some mascara remnants as well as the cheap eyeliner and the girl was very nice and helpful about showing me the product. I reckon these people see all types walk into the stores, and realise very quickly that all their clientele aren't natal girls or women.

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Guest Donna Jean

I was in the store and still had some mascara remnants as well as the cheap eyeliner and the girl was very nice and helpful about showing me the product. I reckon these people see all types walk into the stores, and realise very quickly that all their clientele aren't natal girls or women.

Yes, probably pretty used to it.

And our money spends as well as anyone's!......LOL

Good on you, Hon..

Huggs

Donna Jean

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Guest Nikki A

And that is why most women wear bras - a great place to stuff money!

My first trip out was to my GT as well, I refuse to see her as male now.

You will always remember this day and exactly what you wear wearing - I hope it is cute!

Love ya,

Sally

i forgot what i wore first time out!! D: a shirt and jeans maybe? i need a new memory moment now!!!!

hugs, Nikki

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Guest KellyKat

Believe it or not. Last night I got all dressed up.

Full hair, makeup, fun summer dress.

I was looking my best....

To take the garbage out!! ;)

And to top it off I went dumpster diving!!!

Pulled out 25 pairs of nice jeans and 15 tops!!

All washed up nicely, some still had tags!!

One top fit me. The rest will go to my friend who had the fire.

Or the Goodwill.

If this is any indication of my first outing....

Does this make me an alley Kat? ;)

Luv Kat :)

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Guest Donna Jean

If this is any indication of my first outing....

Does this make me an alley Kat? ;)

Luv Kat :)

LOL....Alley cat, indeed!

Tell me about the clothes!

What was all of that loot doing in a dumpster?

Where do you live?...lol

HUGGS!

Donna Jean

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Guest KellyKat

LOL....Alley cat, indeed!

Tell me about the clothes!

What was all of that loot doing in a dumpster?

Where do you live?...lol

HUGGS!

Donna Jean

Oh Dee Jay

It was all nice Name brand stuff.

Tommy, LEI, Mudd, Gap, Silver, So, Bitten, Von Duch...

Nothing you'd find at Wal-Mart!!!

I called my friend up to tell her.

All in her size but a pair of Silver jeans and a Takeout sleeveless turtle neck.

I'm wearing the T-neck now. So cute, black with a side snap neck undone!!

My guess is someone moved and didn't want everything .

I live in apartment complex. I see this often.

That's how I got my couch. lol ;)

Luv Kat :)

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Guest SouthernBelle

OK, it's only to my GT, but I will be exposed to my neighbors while walking to my car. And I won't start using ma make-up for a couple weeks. Well except for my toenails. I did just realize I could use a purse. Most of the women's clothes I bought don't have pockets.

Love Susan

Yes, the first time walking to the car is quite frightening to say the least. I wonder what my neighbors think. They haven't really said anything, but I go out as me all the time now.

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