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Do Any Of You Have Anger Issues

Guest Jay_son

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There is nothing wrong with me-with any of us - but society sure needs to clean up it's act!

Very Well Said - we all need to read this.

We should have signs made up for our walls.

There is nothing wrong with me

with any of us

but society sure needs to clean up it's act!

Thank you JJ,

Sally

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Guest ReginaRenea

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Hi All; Everyone of you hit the nail on the head for me on anger issues but since I started the estrogen I've been much calmer.

I do still have 3 people in my building that I'd love to choke the life out of them, and last june I would have, but now I have much much more restraint. I just call them walking diaper stains now. Since I've started my transition and came out to everyone

I know I've got so many friends that I can't remember all thier names. I'm also counting everyone here at Luara's.

Luv All of You Regina Renea

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Guest Opal

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I have been SO ashamed and frustrated at myself for the many swearing anger episodes I have had through the years. These episodes were usually always directed at inanimate objects. Guess it was more tolerated around here than my many crying times I had as a child. I guess I have gotten away with it because of living in an unpopulated area.

Since accepting myself for who I am, I seem to be able to maintain much better emotional control, and so far have not had nearly the number of anger outbursts. I really hope to be able to continue emotional control over anger, yet free to cry as needed.

Hugs!

Opal

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Guest Micha

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I have been SO ashamed and frustrated at myself for the many swearing anger episodes I have had through the years. These episodes were usually always directed at inanimate objects. Guess it was more tolerated around here than my many crying times I had as a child. I guess I have gotten away with it because of living in an unpopulated area.

Since accepting myself for who I am, I seem to be able to maintain much better emotional control, and so far have not had nearly the number of anger outbursts. I really hope to be able to continue emotional control over anger, yet free to cry as needed.

Hugs!

Opal

I used to do something like that, walking down empty hallways screaming, shouting and cussing 'till I was hoarse. And the thing was, it never really helped me get over the anger. I agree though, since self acceptance, keeping cool is a lot easier.

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Guest megan_selene

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When I say anger issues, I mean surrounding being Trans/your Transition? :banghead:

ke

I used to get angry not so much any more. I found that embracing who I am more helps keep me from getting angry as much. Now about the only things that ticks me off is my siboling and my job. It get better with time I found it takes more energy to be mad about than just doing something to makes me happy.

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Guest Mr.Yoav

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Oh god yes.

I try to hard to be civil but in reality, there is some beast inside of me that will not be tamed until I can really live as myself.

Things are not amazing at home, which just fuels my anger more and more.

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Guest Sotha

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Hmm...

I don't have anger problems

More like stupidity issues

I have stupidity issues

with all the stupid people in the world

And the ignorance and bigotry

That are the fire to my fuse.

Their stupidity

It grates against my rational brain

and wears away my restraint

Until their fire reaches to my core

raw and untamed

I explode and implode

And all the little pieces

They must be picked up

Again and again

--

Well, I didn't intend to write poetry initially, but oh well.

Know what I mean?

Kate

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