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Guest Lee-Asher Geo-James

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I am at like the perfect weight... BUT... My hips stick out... I don't like it... I can feel myself to start going down hill again >.<

It seems as though I'll never be as small as I want >.<

I may be 99 pounds but there are parts of my body that I don't like <_<

Nice weight... BUT not nice parts <_<

Hips too big.

Thighs too big.

I know that I am probably going to end up messing up and going down <_<

I do have to say that I am glad that the new medication I am on makes me want to eat less. Makes me feel good.

I have to start riding my bike again <_<

I know I'm underweight... BUT I can't control this...

And being on T scares me because of the weight stuff...

I know that the weight shifts and I know that it can go to the stomach area :(

I thought that I was stronger than this... I guess not <_<

*sigh*

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Lee-Asher,

First if you are as thin as you are and still have large hips do check to see where the bones stop, no amount of diet or exercise can change that - Make sure that you are not fighting against an unchangeable fact.

However, all is not lost - T will make you gain weight but it will help bulk up your upper body before any excess fat begins to settle around the stomach.

Love ya,

Sally

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Guest Lee-Asher Geo-James

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Lee-Asher,

First if you are as thin as you are and still have large hips do check to see where the bones stop, no amount of diet or exercise can change that - Make sure that you are not fighting against an unchangeable fact.

However, all is not lost - T will make you gain weight but it will help bulk up your upper body before any excess fat begins to settle around the stomach.

Love ya,

Sally

Well it's the love handles ON the hips that are getting to me :( Not the hips them selves :(

That's what worries me though... It WILL go to the stomach eventually... I won't be able to handle that but I got to get on T... <_<

Once the love handles are gone though my hips will look good...

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Honey......

I'll just say this for you...and I know that you know this...

We're our own worst critics!

We see things that no one else notices...

I guess that it's par for the course that we dislike our bodies...

HUGGS!

Donna Jean

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Lee I know first hand how bad it gets when looking at yourself. I am probably under weight but you know what I like where I am at right now. I am smaller that I ever was in High School and I was skinny then. I still would like to lose my belly but I have come to realize that maintaining where I am at is good enough for me. I don't want to look like a skeleton. I want to be a beautiful girl someday and being skin and bones wont help in that department. Lee you could afford to gain just a little like me and still be skinny. I don't know how tall you are but think about my height of 5ft 11 in and as low as 137 pounds. That is underweight on the chart but I feel good and still have plenty of fat on me so that I don't look like skin and bones. I got back to 140 and I plan on keeping it there. I hope you can get past this and just eat a little bit. You don't have to gain 20 pounds but don't let yourself get to skinny.

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Hi there Lee!

I believe that once you are on T and building up your upper body muscle and mass, you will gain weight, but it will be from the muscle weighing more. It is this interim time that is frustrating.

I know, I still need to lose forty pounds or so, yet my hips are getting close, but I have to get the weight down before I can even think about getting a T blocker and E. Plus, I have no idea if any the physicians around here will prescribe E and a blocker to me.

I believe that you and I can somehow get through all this. Somehow, someway.

Hugs!

Opal

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Guest Lee-Asher Geo-James

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Honey......

I'll just say this for you...and I know that you know this...

We're our own worst critics!

We see things that no one else notices...

I guess that it's par for the course that we dislike our bodies...

HUGGS!

Donna Jean

Yea I know it >.< I know it all too well...

People don't see what I see and yet I don't see what other people see either :huh:

I don't know if I said this yet or not but I want to say that I KNOW I'm not fat it's what I SEE and what I FEEL. Just putting that out there...

*hugs*

Lee I know first hand how bad it gets when looking at yourself. I am probably under weight but you know what I like where I am at right now. I am smaller that I ever was in High School and I was skinny then. I still would like to lose my belly but I have come to realize that maintaining where I am at is good enough for me. I don't want to look like a skeleton. I want to be a beautiful girl someday and being skin and bones wont help in that department. Lee you could afford to gain just a little like me and still be skinny. I don't know how tall you are but think about my height of 5ft 11 in and as low as 137 pounds. That is underweight on the chart but I feel good and still have plenty of fat on me so that I don't look like skin and bones. I got back to 140 and I plan on keeping it there. I hope you can get past this and just eat a little bit. You don't have to gain 20 pounds but don't let yourself get to skinny.

5' 3/8" is my height and I am told I am underweight by some and not by others so I just go with the underweight part. I don't want to look like that either >.< I just... I want to be more masculine and all this fat doesn't help me much >.<

Hi there Lee!

I believe that once you are on T and building up your upper body muscle and mass, you will gain weight, but it will be from the muscle weighing more. It is this interim time that is frustrating.

I know, I still need to lose forty pounds or so, yet my hips are getting close, but I have to get the weight down before I can even think about getting a T blocker and E. Plus, I have no idea if any the physicians around here will prescribe E and a blocker to me.

I believe that you and I can somehow get through all this. Somehow, someway.

Hugs!

Opal

Yea T will do that but I am just nervous about the stomach getting bigger >.< What does interim mean?

Well I hope you can get the E and the T blockers :) I wish you loads of luck. :)

One day yes :lol:

*hugs*

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Yea T will do that but I am just nervous about the stomach getting bigger >. :)< What does interim mean?

*hugs*

That means the time that it takes for something to happen...

The time between two things....

You're welcome.... :)

Donna Jean

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That means the time that it takes for something to happen...

The time between two things....

You're welcome.... :)

Donna Jean

Ah. Ta very much :D

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