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What Part Of Your Body Are You Most Dyshoric About?


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Guest My_Genesis

Good Question by the way...... I have thought about this and wondered if I was different to others. For me, even though I am pre T and pre op, its not my chest that causes me the most problem. Its my lack of male genitals, down below. There isnt a day when I dont think about it and crave that.

Suppose everyones different.

Rudi

same :/

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Guest Adam_Lantz

For me its mostly my chest, although I am already incredibly small chested to begin with...but even that is too much. But I am also quite dysphoric about my voice and also my face, which I've been told is feminine enough to keep me from passing. I personally don't think it is, and I believe my voice is low enough to be somewhat masculine, but if it keeps me from passing, it bothers me.

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sideslicker: You know, that bummed me out too at first (I'm 5'6), but then I started noticing heights of cis-men out in public (grocery stores, etc.) and there are so many cis-dudes that are as short or shorter than me. I didn't notice it until I really started looking, but it's totally true. There are some super-short cis-guys, and it doesn't diminish their "manliness" at all.

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Guest MelissaC

I don't like my toes at all.

Belly I've already begun losing, chest I can worry about once I start hormones, eyebrows and facial hair and body hair can be trimmed or shaved or something, and I'm tall far a girl but not so tall that it's a big issue. My toes on the other hand are a problem that I can't really fix or ignore.

I used to have ingrown toenails. Because of that both big toes got what my podiatrist said was the worst infection he's even seen and I had to have surgery to save them. Problem is surgery killed half of one nail and a third of the other, both at the roots. I know it's a precaution to stop my nails from growing back under the skin and getting ingrown again but it looks so ugly and gross. :( Even without the half-nails I have naturally wide toe and fingernails though, it's a genetic trait my mother has too. That means my toes always look kind of swollen to accommodate them. Luckily for me it didn't affect my fingers in the same way.

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Used to be my chest. Ever since I started losing weight there though, and my endo told me I most likely won't need top surgery, it doesn't bother me all that much anymore.

Now it's just the down-belooow.

I'm used to the empty air/phantom limb feeling by this point. What upsets me is knowing that I can't penetrate. Yea I know there's ways around that... without going into detail ahaha. But it's just not the same.

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Guest Gauvain

For me it's pretty much everything... Mostly my chest and below areas, though. My face also really bothers me, and I don't know if this really counts or not but my voice bothers me too. It's just so high-pitched and horrible... There were a few times where I almost actually passed in public for once, but then when I spoke I could tell the other people just freaked out and started looking me up and down in confusion... My voice literally ruins everything... x.x

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