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I told an old friend of mine, of 24yrs. of friendship, that he should know the truth about all the years of depression and anxiety that he has seen me go through. I simply said, " You know I have been going to a Psych for some time, and I came to the conclusion last year, that I am TS/TG. I have struggled for years and years with it, it is something that I was born with. I did not wake up one day and say this is what I choose for the rest of my life. You are the only male friend I am telling at this time, and I know you respect me very much and I value your opinion and friendship greatly. You deserve to know the truth".

He said that he knows it has something to do with identity, but not sure exactly what it means. You are who you are and that's cool with me! You have always been kind, gentle and creative,. Besides, you always had pretty hair! Is that why you dressed as a female for Halloween in High School?? LOL

He is a great friend, and I knew he would not let me down. I think that's why I chose to tell him out of all my friends, first. I told him how happy I was that he heard me out and how much it meant to me.

So far so good! Love Aylen

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That is absolutely fantastic Aylen. So heart warming.

Thank you for sharing

Hugs

Johnny

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Aylen,

Your friend is great and his response tells a lot about what a wonderful person you are. Wishing you many more positive responses.

John

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