Advise about strap-ons

[Guest deamon asaro]

ok i know this might be in bad taste but i really need some help my wife and i want to get one but we would like some advise on strap-ons like which ones are the best ,most comfortable the most functional that type of stuff we want to get a real good one that will be comfortable functional and pleasurable not interested in hugh ones or extra long just average you can post your recommendations and your personal expierances with them "NO FICTIONAL TESTAMONIALS " i really like some advise from people that have actually used the product and how it functioned thank you for your time and opinion

[Guest Roux]

I don't feel comfortable giving you a full-on review, but I will say that I've used a harness that featured nylon straps to hold it on and two rubber O rings to hold the dong in place. Totally dissatisfied with it. The nylon straps were uncomfortable and the rubber O rings couldn't secure the dong for more than a few seconds at a time. Also, the dong was really . . . flaccid. It easily bent and squirmed and generally didn't seem to be ideal for its purpose.

I have the Jenna See-Through Vac-U-Lock harness now, but because even its smallest dong attachments are currently a bit large for my partner, we haven't actually used it yet. I wear it around, though, and it's moderately comfortable. Once the dong is in place, you have to really want to get it off for it to actually come off--no fear of it popping out of place at the wrong time. My only complaint is that it seems to be made for people who have fuller hips than I do; I have it on its smallest setting, and had to cut almost a foot off of each plastic strap to keep those unsecured ends from flopping around. If your wife is tiny, she'll probably have to punch holes in the straps to make the harness fit her.

Sorry I can't give you a real review of the Jenna harness! However, there are several at the Adam&Eve website.

Amazon actually has a lot of toys and customer reviews, so you might want to spend time reading what people there have to say, too.

[Guest kimberly c]

Hi, if you are looking for the ultimate strap-on, Doc-Johnson Vac-U-Lock system is the best. The harness stays in place

and its adjustable straps should fit anyone. We have the six inch realistic.No problems during use and it feels natural.

Love Kim

[Guest Elena]

Asaro, this is something not many will feel comfortable discussing in open forums. If you go ahead and get up to 5 posts, you would be able to use the PM system and you might get more complete awnsers that way.

Also, that would give you oportunity to discuss this topic in sufficient detail to be informative for you as the rules for the open forums prohibit discussing this on that level here. We do need to keep the open forums pg-13 for the younger members.

<3

Elena

[KieranD]

I am a person who has purchased many different harnesses and many eher...insertables.

I feel that when it comes down to it the person wearing the harness should pick out the harness and the person being penetrated chooses the insertable.

Since I don't know who will be wearing I'll just say they/them.

You have to think of what the wearer wants. Do they want something that makes them feel sexy? Do they want the insertable to sit low, or up high, like on the public bone. Do they want leather or something animal friendly? Are they somebody with a wide hip measurement? Do they want something that can be cleaned easily? All things to think about. I personally hate the doc johnson system. It allows for only certain sizes, doesn't always stay secure, and doesn't have much variety.

There's a leather company...ASLAN or something that makes harnesses with corset type things on the back. The spareparts joque is a good overall harness...accomidates for many sizes in both waist band and toy thickness. It can also be thrown in the laundry. Spareparts will last a very long time.

Now...for insertables...do you want something textured, smooth, hard, squishy, realistic, non realistic? Things to consider. When it comes down to material I say silicone, metal, or glass only. Jelly and rubber are not good for you and cannot be sterilized. Babeland or pleasure chest should be able to show you your options.