Have to talk to my Daughter

[MackenzieB]

I have to talk to my daughter. I really don't know if she knows about me. So I'm going to fly down to San Diego in 2 weeks and have "The Big Talk". My wife and son know. But there's a 6 year difference between my children. And when I told him several years ago I thought that I'd wait a few years prior to informing her.

There are going to be a couple of problems with this. The first one is that she's in a play that weekend. So I really won't see her until after the play on Friday night. But my wife wants me to surprise her and be there to pick her up after the play. I'm thinking that prior to the discussion, it might be best to dress in a more androgenous appearance. Problems with that are what to wear. It's not as if I have a ton of unisex clothes here. And as far as wearing guy stuff, well, let's just say it's not going to do much of a job at covering up a few items. That was the main reason I went full time. Couldn't hide my chest anymore.

And then on Saturday my wife wants me to go to the play. Fine idea, that one. So now I'll get the honor of mingling with a whole big bunch of Kylie's friends' parents.

Who of course all know absolutely nothing about me other than I've been up in Seattle for a couple of years. And of course the spouse wants me to go androgenous once again. Lol... in what? The last time I saw my Doc he said "Damn! You have quite a rack going there!" Uhm, ok. But it doesn't hide very well. And add to it the twice pierced ears, the nicely styled longer hair etc,etc. This is going to be an interesting trip. I'll be having that conversation with my daughter the first night I'm there.

[Guest Tamar]

Good luck with all that. I can't wait for the curves (and the atrophy ) ,but I suppose they're gunna bring their own problems. Anyways, keep us in the loop,please. I still havnt told any of my kids yet. I am most interested in how it went with your son. Any tips on that?

[Guest KarenLyn]

I hope it goes at least as well as it did when I came out to my daughter. She just rolled her eyes and said "Well, Duh!" as if she'd known all along. Our kids are amazing some times.

[Guest CariadsCarrot]

I really hope it goes well with your daughter.

Gabe

[JJ]

Good luck!. I bet you find a way to carry it all off with grace and aplomb.

Please let us know how it all turns out

Johnny

[Guest]

Hi Kenzie,

Of course, I can appreciate your problem(s), seeing them every day. And you can't wear layers like you can here. But, perhaps a jacket of some kind would help. Remember the knuckle-dragger posture, and if that doesn't work, be proud!

Love, Megan

[Guest CariadsCarrot]

Megan's reply made me think, For us FTM's we often find that wearing a button down shirt and/or a open jacket layered over can help to hide your chest so you could try that when you go to talk to your daughter.

Gabe

[Guest Donna Jean]

G'luck, Hon...........

Thinking of you!

Huggs

Dee Jay

[Guest Robin Winter]

Hi Kenzie,

Of course, I can appreciate your problem(s), seeing them every day. And you can't wear layers like you can here. But, perhaps a jacket of some kind would help. Remember the knuckle-dragger posture, and if that doesn't work, be proud!

Love, Megan

And here I thought I had discovered that!

[MackenzieB]

Hi Kenzie,

Of course, I can appreciate your problem(s), seeing them every day. And you can't wear layers like you can here. But, perhaps a jacket of some kind would help. Remember the knuckle-dragger posture, and if that doesn't work, be proud!

Love, Megan

That's why I'm going to tell her the first night down there. I've serious doubts that things will sneak by not noticed.

[Cyndee]

Good luck MacKenzie, talk to ya soon, glad you getting the trip in girl. Daughters are special.....

Cindy

[MackenzieB]

Thankfully I got the new driver's license today. I thought that I'd have to use my work ID for the TSA people as it doesn't have a gender on it.