My surgery

[Guest TRIWINGGIRL]

I went to Dr. Marcy bowers in trinidad, i was able to go on my birthday. I took with me to friends that are nurses and we traveled in a class A motorhome. What a fun trip the motor home had a wierd electical short, it liked to short a night so the head lights did not work. What fun the first night on the road driving in to new mexico with a flash light. After that we stopped driving at night.

I was told i was the first person to drive in a motorhome. it was also very nice to lay down all the way home instead of trying to sit in an airplaine seat. Question to those who flew home was sitting in that airplaine seat as uncomfortable as i thought it would be.

I remember feeling very normal when i woke up. I had been castrated for many years so i had very little pain but there was morphine. I had to have a skin graft from shrinkage, i choose to have the fake skin, i've had grafts taken for burns and learned they hurt for months and leave a big scare for long time.

About shrinkage by the time i got to surgery after 28 years on hormone and 10+ years castrated there was a lot of shrinkage and i only had enough skin to build the outside parts of my vagina i got to get fake skin inside. After six years i have had no trouble other than bladder infections that i probably gave my self. Did you know you can get a bladder infection from not drinking enough water Or when wind blows earth in it or from dusty toilet paper. I had to learn a lot we all do.

I have seen some of you talk about white spots and infections. I had lots of white spots this is skin that is not getting enough blood. this skin is dying i had some cut out by my OB GYN. no worries.

Healing was fun so was dilating with all that very painful dying skin that could not be taken. keep dilating and get the blood flowing and these white spots will go away. It just takes time grit your teeth and do it the pain goes away if you do it.

Another Question can we post pics of our surgery?

I had to take a lot of pics to send DR bowers to get info on what to do. i also took 1 pic of me before and all the shrinkage the only before pic of my thing.

Now i love playing with my many dildos and am very happy with my first stage results. i don't have the money for stage 2 .

[Guest Pammy]

Congratulations, Triwinggirl!

You may have been the first to arrive in a Class A, but you won't be the last! I will be taking one when I go in for MY surgery (no, no date yet, darnit). The advantages are clear, for those who have access to one! I wonder if I could rent mine to other girls as they head off on that leg of their journey? LOL At least they arrive and depart in STYLE!

Congrats again. And shrinkage is avoidable if you stretch the parts in question.

Love

Pam

[Guest]

Another Question can we post pics of our surgery?

Hi Twingirl,

While the pictures sound very interesting to someone like me, just on the doorstep to surgery, they aren't allowed here on the forum. Thanks for asking before posting them.

I wonder if I could rent mine to other girls as they head off on that leg of their journey? LOL At least they arrive and depart in STYLE!

Hi Pammy,

That sounds like a truly gracious thing to do! That long plane ride home is one of those things I'm really dreading.

Love, Megan

[Guest TRIWINGGIRL]

What a great idea need a driver?

Yea i had that idea to, would love to make it work for those of us that like to fly. Besides i love to drive and see the country. But the motorhome i went in belong to one of my nurse friends.

[Guest TRIWINGGIRL]

Opps forgot to talk about shrinkage, I'm sorry to say after trauma to the area from rapes and time you can not avoid shrinkage. If you have also been castrated no hope it's gunna shrink, and yes i stretched it regularly.

Estrogen will do it's work things will change after time sorry girls. yu would not want me to lie would you.

[Guest NatashaJade]

Question to those who flew home was sitting in that airplaine seat as uncomfortable as i thought it would be.

Yes. Flying home wasn't what I would call a highlight. That being said, painkillers really helped matters greatly and it wasn't nearly as bad as I thought it might be. The worst part was TSA and having to unexpectedly change planes at Midway.

[Guest DesiB]

Opps forgot to talk about shrinkage, I'm sorry to say after trauma to the area from rapes and time you can not avoid shrinkage. If you have also been castrated no hope it's gunna shrink, and yes i stretched it regularly.

Estrogen will do it's work things will change after time sorry girls. yu would not want me to lie would you.

Rapes???

I hope, for your sake, you are using this metaphorically. Then again, rape is a pretty heavy topic to use in such a way, IMHO.

[Guest LizMarie]

Desi, I suspect the automatic word filter did some creative substitution there and came up with "rape". At least it looks that way based on other crazy substitutions I've seen.

[Guest DesiB]

Oh! Thanks, Liz . . . that's happened to my words a time or two . . . that makes a lot more sense.

[Guest TRIWINGGIRL]

No i meant RAPED and beaten and left for dead and had to walk home and got no help. this is were i got some of my head injuries. It's vegas baby

Sorry i did not mean to imply this will happen to everyone it did happen to me, i,ve accepted that , make friends with yu problems and they ain't so bad anymore. i don't mean to say it's OK, it is very wrong I know from experience. I worked it out in my head for me, it was that or be CENSORED in the head.

Sorry

Time and estrogen do there work. I had been castrated for 15+years before sugery so oh did they. Mine went inside real quick after awhile they hurt real bad so i had them removed. estrogen works way better when it's not fighting testosterone. SOOOO SHRINKAGE AHHHHH it ended up about as big as my thumb

When you have to fix some things on your own it's good to have a long background of therapy to help you get through it.

I might write about that one day in detail or not? Lets say it is part of why at this time i'm afraid to break it in with a person. It's hard to be a 50+ year old virgin

[Guest DesiB]

Thanks for clearing that up. I didn't want to just take it casually in passing since it really is such a serious topic. And I hope you are doing as well as possible in moving on with your life after so much trauma. Best wishes for a much brighter future!

Desi

[Guest LizMarie]

I agree with Desi. I do hope you are managing and able to move forward with your life after that sort of trauma.

[Guest TRIWINGGIRL]

Yea I'm FINE all happened long time ago

Thanks

[Guest TRIWINGGIRL]

i am starting to believe that i am having trouble with my fake skin. I have been seeing the ads on tv about pelvic mesh and it's problems. so i called the numbers and got little info. I finally got someone to talk to me and they told me continuous infections are one of the problem. I don't seem to have the other problem yet, but now know what to ask about.

I have that i have been getting unexplain no fever general infections since surgery around every 2 months.

i have always had sinus issues so having trouble getting doctors to switch gears.

I am having trouble getting this confirmed because of this, but i am just now aware of what questions to ask. I will update.

it may be best to just leave it alone i hope.