The Great V Misconception

[Guest Irielle]

Wow, this is a great thread, what a hoot!

Crossroads, I am working my way through “My Gender Workbook” also. I like it a lot. On that long quiz you take at the beginning I scored 21 which apparently makes me a “gender freak”. Well, duh.

Speaking of socks, the other day a friend mentioned I was wearing one white sock and one brown sock. I said, “That’s interesting. I have another pair just like them at home.”

TB – it’s too bad people get hung up on their labels. A guy tells you that you are the hottest guy he’s ever dated and then leaves because your sex is female?!? And he was worried that if he is with you then his friends won’t think he’s gay?!? I’d keep you and dump my friends. He’s no keeper.

When I’m with a girl I could care less what my gay friends have to say. Actually, what they HAVE said to me is “Cool, it’s not me but go for it”. They are happy for me.

You also said:

But case being that I'm pansexual with a pref for boyish types (male female or whatever in between) I really enjoy the full experience.

That’s me, too – pansexual with a pref for boyish types, any sex, any gender, anything in between. BTW I’m andro, GB, mostly female. I”d love to be physically female, and should have been born that way, but I’m just fine the way I am.

[Guest Little Sara]

Sorta - with SRS I can have a vaginal canal and all the frills that go with it - but the rest no and no. BUT I CAN lose my penis and my testicles - good - gone - go away! So I can achieve a almost total minus, and partial plus result - but most importantly - what i end up with is functional for intercourse.

Meh, to me its a no-brainer. I lose absolutely nothing without penis and testes, and gain everything with vagina, surgically-created or not. I don't penetrate, and now can't do so (and am glad for this). I'm generally small there as well (which I also like). I can't even touch myself as it is. So yeah, anything to feel like my genitals are not a foreign body.

[Guest TBForLife]

What I have now, glad that I have it too!

Is more than functional in many ways, it's like having a swiss army knife in my shorts.

What do you want to do? Oh yes, I can accommodate.

Be it penetration with the assistance of toys, my own phallus or being penetrated. I don't let my genitalia define who I am, I let my genitalia explore all the great possibilities being trans-gendered has provided me.

I sort of feel the same way Irielle, I've spent way too long hating on myself for not being born in the role I wanted in society that I've under appreciated the amazing body I have been given and the great opportunities to have it all.

I do love being a man, more than anything. But I am completely unwilling to let go of any of my many feminine traits.

I love my makeup, I love hot girly clothes but I also love being a man, having a flat chest and a deep voice along with my facial hair, my body hair, my muscle tone, I love this body. This body is amazing. How am I so lucky to have such a wonder?

I think I'm perfect, if that guy could not see it right in front of him then it's his loss.

All I can say is I must have had an impact on him because when he left my house he rolled his truck five times because he was right out of it. I have that effect on guys Like a sexual neurotoxin I'm Toxic and hotter than Britney because I look better bald!