How well do I pass for Male?

[Guest KatyDesire]

If I can add my 2 cents worth.

I am a genetic male who cross-dresses from time to time.

I have a neck problem, so I keep my hands in my pockets, because when they hang loose it hurts my neck. But if your attitude and posture is right, it just says "I'm confident enough to be me." Also, with the thumbs out, it is certainly a more masculine stance.

The other thing men do with their hands is to hook the thumb in the belt. That way the fingers point towards the crotch, and is a (more than) subliminal sexual expression. It says "I'm confident, I'm dominant, and I'm ready for anything". Quite a good tip is to watch ballroom dancing - look at the difference in the way the men hold their hands to the way the women do it. This is an exaggerated posture, but it makes the point

Remember, being male is all about dominance My car is bigger than yours. My girl-friend is prettier than yours. And if you don't like it, I'll thump you. Not spoken, but that is always the unspoken message in the body language.

As far as clothes are concerned, I would say don't go for fitted shirts. Lots of shirts will fit well, but will not follow the body contours. I generally wear those to work, and the fitted ones when I want to look a bit more femme without doing the whole dressing thing.

Good luck - you're going in the right direction.

[Guest Lacey Lynne]

Silver:

Lookin' good to me, bruh!

The transguys I've known personally, and I've known several, really pass when they find their own groove, their mojo, their vibe.

When they do, THEY ROCK!

I love transguys! I really do! The gender therapist who wrote my gender marker letter was a transguy!

As Johnny and the other guys on here will tell you, basically settle into what's right for you! You'll rock the house and your world when you do. Good luck on that!

Rock On Lacey Lynne