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Congratulations on taking that first step. Each one will get easier. Beware, shopping can become addictive!

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1 hour ago, BrandiBri said:

Congratulations on taking that first step. Each one will get easier. Beware, shopping can become addictive!

Thanks!

Yep, need to be careful and plan everything. I know that my body will change a lot so I can’t by my whole wardrobe yet. Just some accessories for starters :) A good looking handbag would be nice to get, need to learn how to walk with it and handle it naturally. Maybe lipgloss, hand mirror  and ladies stuff that I can have inside of it. 

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Wow! I have some serious help from my transgender sister nearby. She offered to walk with me in town when I go out as Anna, as support. She will also help me shop for clothes and she is a hairdresser and good with makeup as well!

This call today turned out to be much better than I could have expected.

I get “rush”started, and I don’t mind! By myself I could have dragged out this process for years. I need a kickstart, and I will get it :)

 

just smiling silly for myself right now... Smiling of joy. Oh my female emotions get the better off of me already even before hrt!

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Very good!  Having the support and help of another is so validating too.   I hope your friendship grows.  

 

Have a great time when you do get out.

 

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On ‎7‎/‎19‎/‎2018 at 4:29 AM, Jani said:

Very good!  Having the support and help of another is so validating too.   I hope your friendship grows.  

 

Have a great time when you do get out.

 

Thanks!

I found a great mentor locally too besides this forum :) 

I want to start to work on these areas now (while awating HRT and the other steps):

- Learning female speech patterns (not just the voice) but how women put emphais on words when speaking. 

- Female motion, facial expressions, movement legs, hands etc

- Makeup

 

I am really motivated now!

 

Hugs, 

Anna

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23 minutes ago, Anna75 said:

Thanks!

I found a great mentor locally too besides this forum :) 

I want to start to work on these areas now (while awating HRT and the other steps):

- Learning female speech patterns (not just the voice) but how women put emphais on words when speaking. 

- Female motion, facial expressions, movement legs, hands etc

- Makeup

 

I am really motivated now!

 

Hugs, 

Anna

That sounds fantastic! 

I'm so glad that you're getting to be the person that you feel like inside! 

My best wishes for you! The road is long but you'll get there ?

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6 hours ago, TheJudeResistance said:

That sounds fantastic! 

I'm so glad that you're getting to be the person that you feel like inside! 

My best wishes for you! The road is long but you'll get there ?

Thank you hun!

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