-
Who's Online 6 Members, 0 Anonymous, 67 Guests (See full list)
- JennaLSinclair
- AmberM
- KathyLauren
- Beatriz
- JustKate
- Jandi
-
Recently Browsing 0 members
No registered users viewing this page.
-
Topics With Zero Replies
-
Forum Statistics
-
Total Topics73,766
-
Total Posts681,084
-
-
Member Statistics
-
Total Members8,316
-
Most Online8,356
Newest Member
myteethareshiny
Joined -
-
Today's Birthdays
-
Damien Mcknight
(15 years old) -
JJ
(74 years old) -
memyselfandwe
(41 years old)
-
-
Posts
-
-
By Jackie C. · Posted
Yes. I see my therapist every week and we talk about my issues in general. While she's not specifically a gender therapist, she's an ally. With her help, I've made great strides in going from an angry bung-hole to, well, me. Hugs! -
By Taylor_The_Human · Posted
Who is that in the mirror? Is that me..? No, oh no it couldn't be. For I'm a girl but is that who I want to be..? I don't even know who I am. I frown yet in that frame I smile. This thought drives me insanely wild. Is it me or is it not..? I cannot tell, everyone calls me her or she. But, what if that's not really me? What if I'm not a girl? If I told them all these feelings would I still be apart of their world? Everyday the same old lie convincing myself to be her. I put a mask on as I pass those I love by grinning ear from ear. While entrapped is this boy, begging to have a walk outside. This charade is permanent I fear, unless someone sinister were to hear. I pretend and pretend that it's okay, As I watch myself fade away. Wear this, put that jewelry on. The same commands I hear and hear. While I always find myself in tears. No one cared no one did, so this "girl" committed. She had a plan, scary but true she killed herself to be the girl her family always wanted her to. -
By VickySGV · Posted
I wish I was seeing some numbers when they say "increase" but the heading is a bit misleading which I think our "concern trolls" will grab like a jelly doughnut. In line with the study, my blood pressure has entered the "well controlled" stage that my medical team feels proud of. It is good information for our doctors, but we need to keep it away from our H8ers. -
By KymmieL · Posted
@Willow are suggesting that I be an adult. I don't wanna be a dult. LOL. I do agree with you. I should just call. Well good new for my weekend. My youngest is working days. So, its Kymmie time again. Hopefully I will be able to get to my VA appointments. I will be going as Kymmie yeah. Hope the stupid white crap stays away. Hugs, Kymmie -
By VickySGV · Posted
Pornography, especially the pictures of women in the nude, and even involved in sex action do show nice looking women in them who are presented with overtones of sexuality. As part of my career in business law enforcement I met some of them from time to time. The same women also modeled for "non-porn" magazines and looked just a good without the sexual connotation and were just as beautiful in clothing and just as interesting to me as role models in those cases as the porn. Cis males are looking at them in either place with the sexual connotation, I was not. A role model is only effective when the role is one you find you must take on and you get them AFTER you decide it is for you, even if it is slight and hidden from your conscious world. Porn gave you some idea of how you want to be, but did not INFECT you with being Trans. -
By Natalie99 · Posted
Yes, you are right. Gender comes from deep inside. Thank you for your answer, girl! -
By Natalie99 · Posted
My dear, Please don't do it! Suicide is never a solution. Try to find something that gives you hope. A childhood dream, a hobby, anything that you can imagine and will make you feel less stressful. E. g. reading a book, writing a story or a poem, listening to or playing music, doing sport, cooking, watching movies series anything. I know that it is really hard to fight these thoughts and depression. But it can be better! Sometimes life is a roller coaster, but you will eventually go upwards. Control your life, don't let your thoughts control you. -
-
By Taylor_The_Human · Posted
Yeah, I agree It usually feels awkward sometimes..! I'm hoping it won't here though. I'm 14, but soon to be 15, I'm really shy usually, but it doesn't always seem so when online. I've tried making friends before but they've all turned out to be people I shouldn't associate with or just weren't great people... I agree a relationship of ANY sort requires effort from both people. If anything I'm more outgoing online but that's the only difference between how I interact in person. 🙂 And I'm will to get to know you if that's cool. Thanks! -Taylor. -
By Mary Jane · Posted
we could be friends im 17 now by the way and me too for being shy i dont seem like it now but i am and im typing here because for everyone ive tried and gotten a friend (3 times) its never really felt like an actual friendship maybe some kind of friendship but in comparison for how it feels, my current real life best friend VS every other wellll every other has felt like weaker and its never really worked out that long Im also typing here because I've tried before but all the other people dont even try back and a friendship needs both people working or is it really a friendship? for me no even if its online only, which ive found most people usually treat it differently than real life but i try to not treat it differently -
By LusciousTheLock · Posted
I'm on my third counsellor. She's admitted to taking a different approach to me as we come from similar backgrounds and we have a scary way of understanding each other. She reminds me of the little lady in the film Poltergeist! Cow, can read minds!!! Knows everything about me, what I'm thinking or if I'm lying. I've spent sessions where I've been shouted at for an hour, and others where we've chatted about random stuff, laughing like old friends. Its been three years and I can honestly say I wouldn't be here without her pushing me along when I've faltered and opening my mind to new ideas and learning to accept who I am. -
By JustKate · Posted
I think you have to look at it from another perspective and your thoughts. Would a cis guy see attractive women in porn and think "I could be a woman"? I mean I'm sure they have some sexual fantasies about being a lesbian for a day. But, when all is said and done, they want to be a man. I do know that quite a common fantasy amongst the trans women I know before they transitioning was to be a "sissy" and liked porn like that. Do I think it could change someone's gender impression? Maybe at surface level, but deep down, cis people want to be cis even if they have periods of time where they are influenced by outside issues. -
By Natalie99 · Posted
I'm sorry to hear that. Do not feel guilty! You were really brave to come out. You don't deserve to be called a liar. It is not like you have cheated on them or something! However, understand that it is shocking for them, as others have said before. They experience grief of a loss one. But I recommend you to focus on your emotions, and that you are beginning your new life - the one that you deserve. I also recommend watching this video. (And her other videos too, she explains stuff really well.) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0pfZyR-34-g -
By Taylor_The_Human · Posted
Oh that's great news! Thank you so much!
-
-
Upcoming Events
-
Recommended Posts
Create an account or sign in to comment
You need to be a member in order to leave a comment
Create an account
Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!
Register a new accountSign in
Already have an account? Sign in here.
Sign In Now