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Yesterday evening I went to a Retro Festival with my daughter. It was a wonderful time being able to be me in this great 1950s style dress and accessories. My daughter took this pic just after we had been to a swing dance lesson. We then went on to have a few drinks and dance away in the 60s music tent. :)

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7 hours ago, Benji C said:

I know it's tomorrow but I'm taking a picture of my costume today...

 

LOVE it! You make a GREAT Midoria!

 

3 hours ago, Niamh said:

My daughter took this pic just after we had been to a swing dance lesson.

 

I like that dress on you. A LITTLE disappointed you didn't find a poodle skirt, but you look good in that outfit!

 

Hugs!

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A beautiful dress on a beautiful girl, what more can you ask for?

You look great!

 

Hugs,

Brandi

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Everybody looks on fire!  

It cooled down a "little" today and I have to work so I broke out this maxi I bought at the $5 sale! The shoes I got off Poshmark. Even at 5'10" and heals I was still tripping over the dress so I did a little knot on the bottom so I don't end up in the ER. lol

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13 hours ago, Benji C said:

I know it's tomorrow but I'm taking a picture of my costume today...

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Awesome!

 

One of these days I'm going to have try going in cosplay when I go to our local anime convention.

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5 hours ago, Bri2020 said:

It cooled down a "little" today and I have to work so I broke out this maxi I bought at the $5 sale!

 

OBVIOUSLY, it's meant to be worn with taller heels. It looks great on you though! I like the knot. It adds a little something.

 

Hugs!

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1 hour ago, Teri Anne said:

Still hot and humid here today so a tank top and jeggings

 

You look comfy. I'm wearing a tank top and shorts so... can relate.

 

1 hour ago, Jandi said:

Saturday in town outfit.

 

I like that. You've got a whole traveler thing going on.

 

Hugs!

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15 hours ago, Niamh said:

Yesterday evening I went to a Retro Festival with my daughter. It was a wonderful time being able to be me in this great 1950s style dress and accessories. My daughter took this pic just after we had been to a swing dance lesson. We then went on to have a few drinks and dance away in the 60s music tent. :)

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You are doing this right :)

 

I met and accidentally misgendered a transwoman today :(

Not harshly, but I felt kind of awkward.  I went to find them a few minutes later and they were gone.  Hope you're ok.  Wish we could've talked a little more

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Thank you @Teri Anne

 
You are always so supportive on this forum.  You're right, and I can keep this in mind when meeting new people, and trying to sense where they're coming from.

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Maddee I have been at this/out since 2007 and I have found sometimes its best not to make gender expression such a big deal when meeting a new person.

Accept them for who they are not what gender you "think" they are. There is always a chance you might be wrong.

I have been misgendered so many times I lost count but I never let it bother me. I have even been told there is no way I was not a cis woman.

Reverse misgendered I guess you could call it LOL

Usually you can tell a trans person by the way they dress because they make sure you know.  Articles of clothes with rainbow flags or several pink colored articles all while still looking male to some degree.

Those type are trying to make a statement "hey look at me I'm trans"  Some are subdued trans that wear female clothes and make up.

However they decide they want to present is OK with me I accept them either way.

Me personally I went thru all of those stages and now I prefer to be seen as a woman not a trans woman making a "statement"  just a woman like all the other women out there.

I am 24/7 and don't hide what I am even my neighbors know about me and treat me as a woman that used to be a guy.

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I hope my last post didn't make anyone uncomfortable because I wasn't talking about anyone in particular on this site.

Like I said I accept everyone and they are free to present anyway they wish.

Any one that knows me knows I am for freedom.

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My new wedges came in today. It was a big surprise since I didn't even know they had shipped. Now I really need a pedi.

 

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Very cute @Elizabeth Star. One of my g/f’s just bought a pair like yours. They seem to be very popular this summer. Nice purchase!?

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4 hours ago, Teri Anne said:

I like those wedges.

Where did you get them.

 

I found them on Amazon.

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Liz, your new wedges really are cute and they look great on you.  Sadly, I have ugly toenails so open toe footwear isn't currently a good option for me.  Consequently, you have me envious.  

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3 hours ago, Sally Stone said:

Liz, your new wedges really are cute and they look great on you.  Sadly, I have ugly toenails so open toe footwear isn't currently a good option for me.  Consequently, you have me envious.  

Yep that’s my problem too! Years of training for marathons and now long distance walking have played havoc with them. I imagine there are lotions and potions you can apply! Something else to add to my bucket list! Lol

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18 hours ago, Teri Anne said:

Like I said I accept everyone and they are free to present anyway they wish.

Any one that knows me knows I am for freedom.

well said. especially the freedom part. seems we have less and less of that every day now.

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6 hours ago, Elizabeth Star said:

I found them on Amazon.

Really cute, I might look at those (as if I need more wedges lol)

5 hours ago, Sally Stone said:

Liz, your new wedges really are cute and they look great on you.  Sadly, I have ugly toenails so open toe footwear isn't currently a good option for me.  Consequently, you have me envious.  

That's what polish is for ;). I have terrible toenails but a good pedi and you can't tell.

 

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