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I'm wearing regular sweats, FROM THE WOMENS DEPARTMENT ? and a wig, with hair down to my waist, and trying to learn how to do my own nails, which is an adventure, I am doing a sloppy job so far! Ugh!! LOL

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2 hours ago, Emily Michele said:

@Bri2020 4-5” heels are standard for me. The only flats I have are work shoes (I’m a waitress), pink Sketchers, and mowing the lawn shoes. Want to learn to be good in heels? Vacuum in them! You’ll learn balance quick and the vacuum helps when you need a little support, kind of like a cane. Start slow, but you’ll be a natural in no time!

 

That actually sounds like a great idea.

 

Got me thinking about heel height and shoe size. I'm thinking about the angle my foot is at when I (size 11) wear 3 inch heels vs. a friend, she's size 6. For my foot to be at the same angle as hers I would probably have to wear what 4-5 inch heels. This might not makes any sense.

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Tried my high heeled wedges yesterday and there is no way I can function in them.LOL

They are a really darling looking pair but sadly I can't wear them.

 

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3 hours ago, Teri Anne said:

Tried my high heeled wedges yesterday and there is no way I can function in them.LOL

They are a really darling looking pair but sadly I can't wear them.

 

 

That's rough. To have a pair of shoes that fit but that you can't wear... torture. I haven't ventured into heels yet but I've got a friend who keeps pushing me to. We'll see.

 

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2 hours ago, Jackie C. said:

I haven't ventured into heels yet

Me either.  

It's hard to even find them big enough.  And I'd most likely bust my a55.

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10 hours ago, Teri Anne said:

Tried my high heeled wedges yesterday and there is no way I can function in them.LOL

They are a really darling looking pair but sadly I can't wear them.

 

Do you think with time and practice, you could get used to them? I do ankle rolls before wearing heels, which helps me feel more comfortable with them on. But the highest I can wear so far is 3"...

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6 hours ago, CJP said:

Do you think with time and practice, you could get used to them? I do ankle rolls before wearing heels, which helps me feel more comfortable with them on. But the highest I can wear so far is 3"...

3 inch is usually as high as I can go comfortably.

The wedges are 5 inch and being as heavy as I am its just hard to keep my balance.

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On 8/21/2021 at 8:17 PM, Teri Anne said:

3 inch is usually as high as I can go comfortably.

The wedges are 5 inch and being as heavy as I am its just hard to keep my balance.

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Those are so cute ?

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I tried something a little different today. One of my old work shirts. *Excuse me while I cover this company logo.* If anyone asks I got the shirt from a guy I used to have a thing with ?
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gosh you look so beautiful - I wish I could look even half that good.

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Although I got a pair of shoes like those and I look pretty good in those. 

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Due to rules I can't post pics of sleepwear but in prep for lounging around the house for the next week or so recovering from my boob job I bought a nice pair of PJ shorts and matching lightweight lounge robe in a pastel print. I will be absent from posting what I'm wearing here until next wednesday but I will be keeping an eye out for what you all are doing.  here's the print swatch of the my loungewear for the next week though.  

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1 hour ago, Bri2020 said:

Due to rules I can't post pics of sleepwear but in prep for lounging around the house for the next week or so recovering from my boob job I bought a nice pair of PJ shorts and matching lightweight lounge robe in a pastel print.

 

That looks pretty! Just whatever you wear, be prepared for, um, leakage. I'd hate for you to stain that beyond laundry redemption.

 

For myself, I'm flying out for surgery Wednesday and expect to be wearing my pajamas, underwear and pads from the point I get back from the hospital on Thursday until the following Wednesday when I get the accursed catheter out. Similar straits on posting. I'll do my best, but it's going to depend on the wi-fi situation.

 

Hugs!

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1 hour ago, Jackie C. said:

 

That looks pretty! Just whatever you wear, be prepared for, um, leakage. I'd hate for you to stain that beyond laundry redemption.

 

For myself, I'm flying out for surgery Wednesday and expect to be wearing my pajamas, underwear and pads from the point I get back from the hospital on Thursday until the following Wednesday when I get the accursed catheter out. Similar straits on posting. I'll do my best, but it's going to depend on the wi-fi situation.

 

Hugs!

I have some kinda support bras witch will also have bandages under them for absorption so hopefully won't mess things up too much. Plus- they're from target so not a big investment.  

Good luck with your surgery and recovery, maybe we can video chat at some point from our recovery beds. lol

 

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1 hour ago, Bri2020 said:

Good luck with your surgery and recovery, maybe we can video chat at some point from our recovery beds.

 

That would be fun! It might have to be after the 2nd though. I'm not sure what my connectivity options are going to be like in PA. Hopefully the recovery won't be too harsh.

 

I've never had a BA, so all I really know is that there's a weight limit during the recovery period so you don't tear your stitches open. Seriously. I know girls that have had reductions, but nobody in my circle has ever had BA. exciting new territory! Best of luck and may the results be all you've ever hoped for and more!

 

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1 hour ago, Elizabeth Star said:

Just in a dark mood today.

 

So... Tuesday? ?

 

Looking good regardless. I need more black dresses. I would have made a GREAT goth.

 

I'm still dressed for the gym, today's shirt says, "Bippity Boppity Bitch" in the Disney font.

 

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I've been feeling a bit more optimistic about the situation with my wife today. Apart from one genuine emergency she has never consented to leaving our home with me as Niamh and has repeated several times that it isn't going to happen. 

 

So today we have a builder doing some work on our garage building and I reminded my wife that she wanted to show the builder a garage that has recently been renovated at a property a few hundred yards away as she wants a similar style of materials to be used. So she, the builder and I marched off to look at this other garage down the road.

 

This is how I was dressed....

 

(I know - it will probably be put in the exceptions category - but I live in hope)

 

 

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Green trippy-hippy skirt and purple flared sleeve top because it feels loose and cooling. Also eyeliner because I need lots of practice applying it (I'm hopeless ?

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take anything you can get Niahm!

 

Today is recovery day so I am styling in a cami top with a lot of ice packs. lol

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