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Ann W

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Sadly, it being xmas, and family friends every day, "I've" been locked away in the wardrobe for 10 days.  Can't wait for January 3rd.

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And this is roughly what I wore on New Years Day when I couldn’t bear to (pretend to) be a boy again and decided to go to MONA gallery in Hobart. This was my first ever day outing as Bette/Betty. I made friends! It was wonderful.

 

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(I wore sneakers again on New Years Day though, so as not to get gallery feet.)

 

This is me living my dream of having coffee at a cafe in a dress:

 

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One more: this is me at my (cisgender male) friend’s house in Hobart, where I stayed the last two nights. He was so supportive and his teenage children were absolutely respectful, calling me “she/her” and Bette. I have a great friend in his daughter, I think. My heart is full ❤️❤️❤️

 

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Happy New Year everyone. I know I don’t post here often. I have been a bit shy to because I felt my transition was going so slowly. (Sometimes I even questioned if I would transition after all.) But I love this forum and I thank you all for sharing and existing. When I am confused I often look here to find answers and I am never disappointed by the wisdom and helpful facts I find.

 

Again, thanks.

 

Humbly,

Bette

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14 minutes ago, Elizabeth Star said:

Everyone looks so amazing. I get so much inspiration from this thread.

 

That reminds me. Mom shared a secret about tights that I thought I'd share with all of my sisters who find themselves as women who never got to be girls. If your tights ride down? They're too big. Go down a size. I'm currently wearing mediums and they're staying up just fine (same cut as the ones you modeled a couple days back Liz).

 

Hugs!

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Great info Jackie C.

One of the very first cis gender girl friends/shopping partners taught me that as well. That applies to leggings as well.

 

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52 minutes ago, Jackie C. said:

Go down a size.

Guess they need to be tight !  

Sorry, I couldn't help myself.

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4 minutes ago, Jandi said:

Sorry, I couldn't help myself.

Maybe the "Dad Joke" thing is terminal.

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Due to last night's snow fall I had to go run the snowblower. I decided to wear black for contrast.

 

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6 hours ago, Elizabeth Star said:

 

Due to last night's snow fall I had to go run the snowblower. I decided to wear black for contrast.

 

That’s the best contrast, and it looks good.

 

Mindy🐛🏳️‍⚧️🦋

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On 12/28/2021 at 6:27 AM, Elizabeth Star said:

My partner got me a new dress as a Christmas gift. 

 

That sure is a nice dress, and it really suits you.

 

 

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I'm going to post a throw back pix.

This is me many years ago practicing my style.

I want all here to know I had been going through training.

Who was training me?

The classes I were attending trained me.

The best part of those classes?

THE Home WORK

 

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Haven’t posted in a bit. Been way too stressed trying to get settled in new place and prepared for international travel.  Finally made it and settled into vacation. Hello from the island of Bonaire. Mostly bathing suits, beach wrap/sarong and wetsuits. Yes, that’s my bikini hanging behind me. Sun was setting and the wet suit was cold so….

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3 minutes ago, Bri2020 said:

Haven’t posted in a bit. Been way too stressed trying to get settled in new place and prepared for international travel.  Finally made it and settled into vacation. Hello from the island of Bonaire. Mostly bathing suits, beach wrap/sarong and wetsuits. Yes, that’s my bikini hanging behind me. Sun was setting and the wet suit was cold so….

 

You look fantastic and super-happy. If I tried wearing ANY of that around here... well, hypothermia. Brr.

 

Hugs!

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