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So good to see you Betty.  You rock your style!

 

Hugs,

 

Charlize

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Betty that dress looks great on you!  You got style!  

 

Hugs, Jani

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17 hours ago, Betty K said:

Hi everyone, please excuse me for breezing in once a year and disappearing again. This is me currently, pink mohawk trying to hide the need for hair transplants, but feeling fantastic and free and fortunate. 

Good evening Betty K,

 

You're always welcome to drop in and out whenever you choose. I won't lie, we're in great company when you're here. I love the pink mohawk, and your dress look comfortably cool, as do your gloves.

 

Best wishes, stay positive, and motivated,

 

Mindy🐛🏳️‍⚧️🦋

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@Betty KYou look beautiful! I wish I had your confidence! I’ve yet to buy a dress - skirts and blouses for me - but hope I can find something that looks as good as you do. Thank you for your inspiration!

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Thank you, @April Marie! If it makes you feel any braver, I find people are generally very accepting. I’ve been dressing quite flamboyantly and not passing for a few months now, and have had virtually zero kickback. I also get lots of compliments — almost all from women, of course. I think it inspires them, to see a proud transfemme living her best life.

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5 hours ago, Donica said:

You all look wonderful! @Maddee, It's so wonderful to see you again. You are looking stunning.

Donica!!  Thank you hun. Big HUG :)

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9 hours ago, Betty K said:

I also get lots of compliments — almost all from women, of course.

I do as well, and I don't really "pass" very well.  But they will complement my outfit, nail color - stuff like that.  And yes, it's almost always women.  Can't really remembering a guy doing it.

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32 minutes ago, Ivy said:

But they will complement my outfit, nail color - stuff like that.  And yes, it's almost always women.

 

Isn't it lovely? I find it really heartening.

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Not ready for the full body shot yet but thought I'd share pics of the flats I'm wearing today with my skirt/sweater. For those of us with larger feet - I wear a 10.5 to an 11 in men's sizes - I found this brand (Ataiwee) on Amazon that offers some larger/wider sizing options. I have two pair that are slightly different in design - these are black - and the women's 11.5 Wide fits me perfectly. They were $36.

 

 

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1 hour ago, April Marie said:

Not ready for the full body shot yet but thought I'd share pics of the flats I'm wearing today with my skirt/sweater. For those of us with larger feet - I wear a 10.5 to an 11 in men's sizes - I found this brand (Ataiwee) on Amazon that offers some larger/wider sizing options. I have two pair that are slightly different in design - these are black - and the women's 11.5 Wide fits me perfectly. They were $36.

 

 

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Yes those are a score!

 

I look for flats too

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10 minutes ago, Maddee said:

Yes those are a score!

 

I look for flats too

I looked at Amazon and the flats there, while very nice, tended to only run up to 11's.  

Sigh…

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15 minutes ago, April Marie said:

It looks like a chilly day there, too!! I hope you enjoyed your shopping trip!!

It's my Old Hag aesthetic.  Babushka? IDK

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8 minutes ago, Ivy said:

I looked at Amazon and the flats there, while very nice, tended to only run up to 11's.  

Sigh…

Look for Ataiwee Women's Wide Flat shoes - the normal widths only go to an 11 but the wide ones go up to 13W.

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Every day, I get here swearing I'm going to post a full body shot of what I'm wearing or of an outfit I've worn....only to chicken out. It will happen, though!! I'm still just very self-conscious....and a bit fearful since I'm not out publicly.

 

In the meantime, here are the ankle boots I found on-line at DSW in size 12. For next fall and winter, I'm hopeful I can find a pair of knee-high brown boots to wear with my skirts. But, I'm loving these ankle boots with jeans.

 

 

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Some pix from the last few months…AA83E876-C677-4A12-AF33-F5140F1D5EDA.jpeg.24e25f2c149dc74570617849e7106ff5.jpeg

shopping day

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date night

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at work

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Costco run

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another work outfit

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shopping with my wife

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becoming a wife in Hawaii

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On 2/21/2023 at 8:54 AM, April Marie said:

Every day, I get here swearing I'm going to post a full body shot of what I'm wearing or of an outfit I've worn....only to chicken out. It will happen, though!! I'm still just very self-conscious....and a bit fearful since I'm not out publicly.

 

In the meantime, here are the ankle boots I found on-line at DSW in size 12. For next fall and winter, I'm hopeful I can find a pair of knee-high brown boots to wear with my skirts. But, I'm loving these ankle boots with jeans.

 

 

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Luv em 

 

 

@Emily Michele

Nice pics

my faves are your pink work top, and the lil black dress number

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44 minutes ago, Emily Michele said:

Some pix from the last few months…AA83E876-C677-4A12-AF33-F5140F1D5EDA.jpeg.24e25f2c149dc74570617849e7106ff5.jpeg

shopping day

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date night

4A0730A1-B28E-456E-A053-6787FBCE7BFE.jpeg.3a7eb330e0406de59c4a946f342eebd6.jpeg

at work

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Costco run

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another work outfit

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shopping with my wife

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becoming a wife in Hawaii

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What wonderful pictures!!! I love your style - and I want a LBD so badly!!!

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I bought this dress from my friend's vintage store the other day, and wore it to see her sing at a warehouse party (where this old car was stored) on Saturday. Someone at the gig told me the dress is a copy of a "mud" dress, from Mali. I had no idea, but he seemed impressed. Later that night I sprayed habanero sauce all over it courtesy of a clogged-up sauce bottle and had to go home and change before attending a Pride party. It was a lovely night.

 

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