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2 minutes ago, Ashley0616 said:

A very comfortable maxi dress. One of the newer ones. 

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I love the print on it! 💞

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I still feel self conscious wearing dresses, its not a trans thing I don't think its more like a stepping out of my comfort zone thing.  Also this summer its just been so cold.  When I do though its all good.

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Ashley cute dress hon

 

birdie, b gemma you will n you'll twirls in happiness, just find à dress you're comfortable in n it sneaks to you. 

 

hugs 

 

off to work

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19 minutes ago, missyjo said:

Ashley cute dress hon

 

birdie, b gemma you will n you'll twirls in happiness, just find à dress you're comfortable in n it sneaks to you. 

 

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off to work

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Thank you!

 

31 minutes ago, gemmalouise said:

I still feel self conscious wearing dresses, its not a trans thing I don't think its more like a stepping out of my comfort zone thing.  Also this summer its just been so cold.  When I do though its all good.

Not all trans women wear dresses. I flat out love them. I have 80 dresses and not done yet. 

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1 minute ago, Birdie said:

Wow!, I only own one. 😐

I will probably get more yoga pants once I have my bottom surgery. I can't tuck and it sucks but then again I don't have a butt to show off either in yoga pants and probably won't get one naturally because it's how my family genetics are no butt but seventy-five percent at getting nice size boobs out of four women in my family only one doesn't have huge ones. I'm hoping for that at least so I won't have to get a mommy makeover but a Brazilian butt lift. Then again I still want to go with a bigger chest. I don't mind others staring in fact I find it flattering. 

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2 minutes ago, Ashley0616 said:

I will probably get more yoga pants once I have my bottom surgery. I can't tuck and it sucks but then again I don't have a butt to show off either in yoga pants and probably won't get one naturally because it's how my family genetics are no butt but seventy-five percent at getting nice size boobs out of four women in my family only one doesn't have huge ones. I'm hoping for that at least so I won't have to get a mommy makeover but a Brazilian butt lift. Then again I still want to go with a bigger chest. I don't mind others staring in fact I find it flattering. 

Oh my!, did I get the bubble butt 🤭

 

My curves were hard to hide when I was still pretending to be a guy. 🙄

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1 minute ago, Birdie said:

Oh my!, did I get the bubble butt 🤭

 

My curves were hard to hide when I was still pretending to be a guy. 🙄

I wished that was my issue. Oh well there is a plastic surgeon in Mobile, AL which is less than an hour away I'm hoping he can do what I want because the next well known one that I know can do it is in Miami, FL and that is definitely flying distance.

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none of us will ever feel thin enough..

 

I'm guilty..I want to look like a sextoy..n I realize it won't get me loved..at best it will get me..used..shrugs 

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31 minutes ago, missyjo said:

none of us will ever feel thin enough..

 

I'm guilty..I want to look like a sextoy..n I realize it won't get me loved..at best it will get me..used..shrugs 

good night dears

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Average weight would make me happy. 

I was a Torrid size 6, but I have worked it down to a Torrid size 5. 

I need to get down to at least a 2 or 3 to be happy. 

 

Hmm, "used" does sound intriguing. 🤭giggles

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giggles

 

birdie  good for you dear. losing weight is hard n no fun..plus I've an old time ethnic mom who sounds like Mrs clause in Rudolph cartoon..eat eat eat..geez mom..I don't need the next 200 pounds really

 

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15 hours ago, Birdie said:

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Oh I would so wear that! 💞

 

Maybe not "out", but in front of the mirror. 

That looks NICE!

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3 minutes ago, Mirrabooka said:

Hello, Gemma.

 

Smile, girl!!! ☺️

That was actually my first selfie, of all time.  I was concentrating on the framing.

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2 hours ago, gemmalouise said:

This is me

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Hi! Nice to see faces. You did a great job on your first selfie!

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Gemma welcome. :)

 

Ashley I think you pair that with black micro mini n 6 inch cfm pumps, red bra n matching panties..on Friday night

 

giggles n winks

 

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