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2 hours ago, Birdie said:

I'm retiring my wig as I don't wear it anymore. It will go into charity. 

My hair has grown out enough I can style it fairly nice and wear a ponytail, so I'll continue to let it grow. 

 

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17 hours ago, SamC said:

My date last Friday went well. We had follow ups on Saturday and Sunday, and then he had to leave town.  The only issue is that he assumes I am cis. 
 

I am flying out tomorrow to see him. I plan to tell him Saturday that I am transgendered. I’m anxious, worried how that’s going to go. 
 

This is what I plan to wear.  Not the boots and not the tattoo, which is a temporary in this picture.  
 

Wish me luck. 

 

 

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Hope it goes well! 

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17 hours ago, SamC said:

My date last Friday went well. We had follow ups on Saturday and Sunday, and then he had to leave town.  The only issue is that he assumes I am cis. 
 

I am flying out tomorrow to see him. I plan to tell him Saturday that I am transgendered. I’m anxious, worried how that’s going to go. 
 

This is what I plan to wear.  Not the boots and not the tattoo, which is a temporary in this picture.  
 

Wish me luck. 

 

 

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You know my thoughts are with you, Sam. Be safe and be confident. 

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Good morning!

 

I'm wearing my pink n white striped blouse and denim short-shorts today. Black stockings and my HeyDude shoes as well. 

 

Styled my hair up nice but in a ponytail again (it's going to be Texas hot). 

 

Have a wonderful day. 

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good morning, im wearing my hair down, it’s supposed to be cut again soon i hate growing it out, im wearing my guitar pick necklace, a Tokyo shirt from my local thrift shop, black demon jeans, my converse, and a grey+red flannel around my waist, my classes are chilly but it’s so hot outside

im not wearing my binder today because i need a break and im on my menstrual cycle, a little dysphoric but it’s fine 

have a great day/night loves

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11 minutes ago, masons_cries said:

im not wearing my binder today because i need a break

Oh, I hated my binders when I used to wear them. 

They are awesome in concealment though. 

 

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27 minutes ago, masons_cries said:

good morning, im wearing my hair down, it’s supposed to be cut again soon i hate growing it out, im wearing my guitar pick necklace, a Tokyo shirt from my local thrift shop, black demon jeans, my converse, and a grey+red flannel around my waist, my classes are chilly but it’s so hot outside

im not wearing my binder today because i need a break and im on my menstrual cycle, a little dysphoric but it’s fine 

have a great day/night loves

Looks like you are new to the forum. Welcome!

There are many of us here from all backgrounds. 

There are many here that you can relate to. 

I lived in "boy-mode" for about 45 years.

I'm intersex AMAB, but puberty didn't get the memo (lots of curves and breasts and some female plumbing). 

To keep my family happy I concealed everything, so I do know all the tricks. 

I don't conceal anymore at all as I live what my body decided upon, but I do understand where you are coming from. 

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37 minutes ago, Birdie said:

Oh, I hated my binders when I used to wear them. 

They are awesome in concealment though. 

 

yeah they’re nice, i plan on getting top surgery eventually 

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38 minutes ago, Birdie said:

Oh, I hated my binders when I used to wear them. 

They are awesome in concealment though. 

 

I hate wearing them but love not having boobs lol

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1 minute ago, masons_cries said:

yeah they’re nice, i plan on getting top surgery eventually 

When I reached a large enough size I found a baggy shirt under "bib overalls" was my daily attire. 

 

Wow, that brings back memories!

 

I'm DDD in some brands so concealment really wasn't working anymore for me. 

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I hate wearing bras and often don't but I've put on a bit of weight up to and kind of need to now.  I know why women burned bras in the 60s now.  (I know it was political and not the same).  I know hat for a lot of mtf like myself, wearing bras is a goal, but for me its like a pain.  Ironically I'd still like to be a bit bigger up top, even though I know that's more pain.  Wow what a species hey humans.   I think there are creatures in the hedges wondering what the heck our problems are.  I do feel sorry for those ftms having to bind, that must be even more torture than I have to put up with.

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10 minutes ago, RaineOnYourParade said:

I hate wearing them but love not having boobs lol

They are amazing! I remember that about them. 

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15 minutes ago, masons_ghost said:

yeah they’re nice, i plan on getting top surgery eventually 

I do hope you reach your goal. 😉

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8 minutes ago, gemmalouise said:

I know hat for a lot of mtf like myself, wearing bras is a goal, but for me its like a pain.

Yeah, they're not that comfortable.  I'm not all that big, so I don't need one.  Most of the time I don't if I'm at home or have a couple of layers on.  But I will put one on when I go out with some outfits so as not to draw attention.

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9 minutes ago, Birdie said:

I do hope you reach your goal. 😉

aww thank you, i want a hysterectomy but where i live you have to have 2 kids and be over twenty one, so im gonna move out of state 

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17 minutes ago, gemmalouise said:

I hate wearing bras 

As a biological female, I can attest: bras rly suck.

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7 minutes ago, masons_ghost said:

aww thank you, i want a hysterectomy but where i live you have to have 2 kids and be over twenty one, so im gonna move out of state 

I hope you get what you need where ever you can get it.

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3 minutes ago, gemmalouise said:

I hope you get what you need where ever you can get it.

thank you ❤️

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25 minutes ago, RaineOnYourParade said:

As a biological female, I can attest: bras rly suck.

Oh my! are the underwires always in the way while cleaning house! 

But it's more uncomfortable for me to go braless. 

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1 minute ago, Birdie said:

Oh my! are the underwires always in the way while cleaning house! 

But it's more uncomfortable for me to go braless. 

The wired kind are the worst. When I have to wear a bra, I can only stand cloth sports bras. Everything else makes me want to tear them off and throw them against a wall /hj

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