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T shirt and jeans.  These are regular fit women's and when I look down from the front, what with my hips, they look girly.  Not too girly, but more girly than guy-y.  I checked the mirror and my rear is male - I was afraid I had grown a butt in the night or something.

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7 minutes ago, Abby Gen said:

Passing.  Pointy feminine chin.

Thank you! 

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sorry

no way not my imagination, see September letter from Cleveland council of Roman catholic bishop..but it doesn't matter. sorry

tried to erase it

 

be well

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1 hour ago, Abby Gen said:

T shirt and jeans.  These are regular fit women's and when I look down from the front, what with my hips, they look girly.  Not too girly, but more girly than guy-y.  I checked the mirror and my rear is male - I was afraid I had grown a butt in the night or something.

Afraid is the wrong word except that it would make passing as a guy tougher.  Otherwise, that would be cool.

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1 hour ago, Abby Gen said:

Afraid is the wrong word except that it would make passing as a guy tougher.  Otherwise, that would be cool.

I guess it all depends on genetics and hormones. I have seen some guys with a cute butt. (I'm bi) I have also seen women with no butt at all. It was just flat and unfortunately that runs in my family. I'm taking supplements to help develop curves. I can't recommend it because there are possible issues that could arise but I have been on them for 5 months I think. I have somewhat of a butt. I'm going to exercise that area and hopefully tone it up too. 

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2 minutes ago, Ashley0616 said:

I guess it all depends on genetics and hormones. I have seen some guys with a cute butt. (I'm bi) I have also seen women with no butt at all. It was just flat and unfortunately that runs in my family. I'm taking supplements to help develop curves. I can't recommend it because there are possible issues that could arise but I have been on them for 5 months I think. I have somewhat of a butt. I'm going to exercise that area and hopefully tone it up too. 

I've heard squats help there.  There are all sorts of exercise videos on how to develop your rear end.

 

Neighbor lady had an illness and said she lost her butt.  I did not comment or even look.  One of the advantages of aging is people stop looking at you like you should look like you are 18. 

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1 minute ago, Abby Gen said:

I've heard squats help there.  There are all sorts of exercise videos on how to develop your rear end.

 

Neighbor lady had an illness and said she lost her butt.  I did not comment or even look.  One of the advantages of aging is people stop looking at you like you should look like you are 18. 

I'm one of the ones that is going to try to hang on youth as much as possible. If I could afford it I would do surgeries. Jennifer Anniston looks amazing for her age but I'm sure that she has had a lot done. 

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1 minute ago, Ashley0616 said:

I'm one of the ones that is going to try to hang on youth as much as possible. If I could afford it I would do surgeries. Jennifer Anniston looks amazing for her age but I'm sure that she has had a lot done. 

Diet and exercise really help.  

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6 minutes ago, Abby Gen said:

Diet and exercise really help.  

I'm definitely eating healthy. I do occasionally splurge and have chips and dip and Maybe once two weeks I'll have wings. Usually it's chicken, tuna, other fish, and I drink plenty of water. Exercise could do more. I walk and that is about it. I need to do more in that department. 

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2 hours ago, Abby Gen said:

One of the advantages of aging is people stop looking at you like you should look like you are 18. 

Yup.  At 73 I don't have a whole lot of expectations.  But on the other hand, older women and men start looking a bit more alike.  I would be happy to be taken as an old lady.

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6 hours ago, missyjo said:

sorry

no way not my imagination, see September letter from Cleveland council of Roman catholic bishop..but it doesn't matter. sorry

tried to erase it

 

be well

I read several articles on this.  Maybe I missed something, but I don't think they said that at all.   Guidance about what they did not want to see at Catholic schools.  No mass excommunication of LGBT types or anything that would come close to what you describe.  Do you mind posting a link to what you are referring to?  If it is what I read, you are overstating the case.

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Woman's white t-shirt and jeans.  At church I wore a man's sport shirt, borrowed from me) to cover the fact my figure seems to be more f than m, which is weird because I am not taking any hormones.  Incident yesterday made me think I probably get read a female more than I realize, mustache or no mustache.  Trying to pass as m when I am m and failing is a weird thing indeed.

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On 4/5/2024 at 9:53 AM, Ashley0616 said:

I'll wear yoga pants and sometimes pants but I don't feel female enough when I wear that except for yoga pants and capris. I mostly love to wear dresses. I have over 100 of them and even 14 are for winter. There are also a lot of days if I'm not going anywhere I might even stay in my nightgown. If it's church then definitely a dress. 

I feel this way exactly 🥰🥰🥰

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On 4/5/2024 at 4:19 PM, Ashley0616 said:

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I swear you just keep getting prettier 🥰🥰🥰

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51 minutes ago, Jamey-Heather said:

I swear you just keep getting prettier 🥰🥰🥰

Thank you so much! It's almost about time to retire the old wig. The hair on it looks unkept and all over the place. I even tried washing it with wig shampoo which I'm wondering if that ruined it because after I did it never looked the same. I might just keep it around when it's raining so I don't ruin the new one. I like this one because it has bangs. I'm looking forward in about three more years it will be 28" long. 

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2 hours ago, Abby Gen said:

Woman's white t-shirt and jeans.  At church I wore a man's sport shirt, borrowed from me) to cover the fact my figure seems to be more f than m, which is weird because I am not taking any hormones.  Incident yesterday made me think I probably get read a female more than I realize, mustache or no mustache.  Trying to pass as m when I am m and failing is a weird thing indeed.

That is weird. I wished that happened to me. I get clocked all the darn time. 

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bike shorts n pink camisole

 

forget the other..I don't come here to argue n I suspect others don't either..I'm sorry for the distraction it caused

 

good night

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13 hours ago, Abby Gen said:

Woman's white t-shirt and jeans.  At church I wore a man's sport shirt, borrowed from me) to cover the fact my figure seems to be more f than m, which is weird because I am not taking any hormones.  Incident yesterday made me think I probably get read a female more than I realize, mustache or no mustache.  Trying to pass as m when I am m and failing is a weird thing indeed.

I spent my entire life with wide hips and boobs, and in boy-mode it was quite distressing. Didn't matter what I did, I was seen as more female than male. 

 

Now in girl-mode, it just helps out. 

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Oversized man's t-shirt, women's jeans.  The shirt I "borrowed from my husband" in hopes of hiding these hips and looming gynocomastia*.  The shirt accentuates thin arms and comes down a little past the crotch, which makes it look like a rather stylish tunic and flatters my legs.  This attempt is a disaster in terms of trying to look like a guy.  Like it or not, my body seems to have decided to do the m to f thing without outside assistance.  And I like it.  

 

I feel pretty, oh so pretty, as pretty as pretty can be, and I like it.

 

* I have a near male relative who wore massively oversized shirts his last years.  I suspect it may run in my family.  These are not pecs.  Surprise!

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32 minutes ago, Abby Gen said:

These are not pecs. 

There is definitely a difference.

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34 minutes ago, Ivy said:

There is definitely a difference.

Yep.  This sneaked up on me. 

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Eclipse attire. In upstate New York in the path of totality. 

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I really need to figure out a way of taking decent selfies, including getting better lighting in the house! ;)

 

Fit: new 2/3 sleeve boat neck navy T and cute denim jacket with my skinny jeans. Was going to go to the coffee shop, so I got made up but my meeting schedule is keeping me home.

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2 hours ago, Lorelei said:

Eclipse attire. In upstate New York in the path of totality. 

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I hope your skies are as clear as ours was here in Indianapolis.

 

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Watched it with welding helmet.  But it wan't total here.

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