Girl's Night Out?

[Guest mason132]

I have told some of my friends that I am transgender and one of my friends wants me to come over for like a girl's night. She wants to do my hair, talk, and such. I would really like to do it, but what other people found out. Then what would I say? I, when alone, do my hair and other things that make me feel good about myself. But, I always make myself look how I did before I did my hair, makeup, and such. If word got out I did that stuff with a friend that could cause a lot of trouble. Some peopel all ready know my secret, but if others found out then what.

[Guest April63]

Then other people know.

After that, three things can happen: they can say "cool", they can say "ew", or they can forget about it. Okay, I think I simplified it a little bit, but the point is, if people find out, which they probably will, some of them will be cool with it, others will be mean to you, and some will just not care. By that point, you can't really control who knows and who doesn't so you just have to stand strong and take the bull by the horns (if there is a bull, which there probably will be).

[Guest AniStacy]

My answer is simple.

JUST DO IT

Social fear is so over-rated

All you're doing is comprimising yourself.

If you're confident in yourself and know who you are, then nothing should stop you, or get in your way.

But that is very hard... so just do what you're comfortable with =]

Hugs!

<3 Stacy

[Guest angie]

I have told some of my friends that I am transgender and one of my friends wants me to come over for like a girl's night. She wants to do my hair, talk, and such. I would really like to do it, but what other people found out. Then what would I say? I, when alone, do my hair and other things that make me feel good about myself. But, I always make myself look how I did before I did my hair, makeup, and such. If word got out I did that stuff with a friend that could cause a lot of trouble. Some peopel all ready know my secret, but if others found out then what.

Girlchild,

You go over and enjoy the attention,advice,makeover,girling out,girl talk and just being a girl,

with another girl and a genetic girl at that.Hope that she keeps your secret and you get a new

best friend that knows who you truly are.Don't let this opportunity pass you by for unfounded

fears.It's oh-kay to fear,but don't let fear rule your life young lady.

Warm Hugs,

Angie

[Guest Eth]

It's been said already but GO FOR IT. This is an amazing opportunity that so many of us here would die for! April said it perfectly; it doesn't matter what people think. Not everyone would hate you, not everyone would support you, and not everyone would even care. Just go for it and won't worry about anyone finding out. Enjoy yourself and have fun being you.

[Guest mason132]

It's been said already but GO FOR IT. This is an amazing opportunity that so many of us here would die for! April said it perfectly; it doesn't matter what people think. Not everyone would hate you, not everyone would support you, and not everyone would even care. Just go for it and won't worry about anyone finding out. Enjoy yourself and have fun being you.

Have any of you done it? Did ya'll enjoy it?

I think I will do it. You are right. I shouldn't let fear rule my life.

[Guest AniStacy]

Have any of you done it? Did ya'll enjoy it?

I think I will do it. You are right. I shouldn't let fear rule my life.

When I was ten I was at slumber parties =) so YEAH I HAVE =D =D

[Guest Irielle]

Mason - by all means do it! You deserve a good time with a girlfriend to do girl stuff.

I do the same thing with my hairdresser. She does my hair and we do all kinds of girl chat, even with her other clients in the room and they all join in anyway. It really is a fun time. Don't deny yourself a wonderful time because of what others might or might not discover. Most people aren't thinking about other people much at all, they are too busy worrying about what other people might be thinking about THEM.

When I was little I worried about what my family was thinking about me.

When I was older I worried about what other people were thinking about me.

Now I realize most people aren't thinking about me at all. Iri

[Guest Christy.dancer]

I have told some of my friends that I am transgender and one of my friends wants me to come over for like a girl's night. She wants to do my hair, talk, and such. I would really like to do it, but what other people found out. Then what would I say? I, when alone, do my hair and other things that make me feel good about myself. But, I always make myself look how I did before I did my hair, makeup, and such. If word got out I did that stuff with a friend that could cause a lot of trouble. Some peopel all ready know my secret, but if others found out then what.

MASON!!!!

You're missing 90% of the fun!!! Seriously, if all (or even SOME) of your friends already know you're transgendered, why are you worried about anyone finding out about THIS???? Seriously, having a g/f or even several over for a party is a great idea!

[Guest Donna Jean]

Mason - by all means do it! You deserve a good time with a girlfriend to do girl stuff.

When I was little I worried about what my family was thinking about me.

When I was older I worried about what other people were thinking about me.

Now I realize most people aren't thinking about me at all. Iri

Iri.....

Now...THAT was very well put. I really like that...VERY good advice...!!

Donna Jean

[Guest Ashlee]

Mason,

Sounds like fun!

...mind if I come too

{HUGS}

Ashlee

[Guest angie]

Have any of you done it? Did ya'll enjoy it?

I think I will do it. You are right. I shouldn't let fear rule my life.

When family,my girls,finally accept me as one of their own,I will know.

They have girls night in all the time.There might be up to eight ladies all in pj's,

doing nails and hair,watching chick fliks,gossiping about men,just having a good

female bonding session.And I will be invited.That is something to really look forward to.

It will probably take a few more years,but girl will I love it.

Angie