Jump to content
  • Welcome to the TransPulse Forums!

    We offer a safe, inclusive community for transgender and gender non-conforming folks, as well as their loved ones, to find support and information.  Join today!

Palmer (2021) This movie is a Hidden Gem


Susan R

Recommended Posts

  • Forum Moderator

 

I came across this new gem of a movie and thought I’d share it with you all. It’s an inspiring heartwarming story that will leave you with a smile and a maybe tear. This transgender related movie is called Palmer (2021) and it’s an tv+ exclusive so it may be difficult for some to see for awhile. Justine Timberlake (Palmer) is so good in this and young Sam played by Ryder Allen is spectacular. Ryder and Timberlake have great chemistry in this movie.

 

https://www.imdb.com/video/vi4234527001?

 

Here’s the Plot…

A bullied young non binary child lives with a drug addicted Mother and an abusive boyfriend. Palmer (Justin Timberlake) recently released from prison after serving 12 years for attempted murder, moves in with his Grandmother and rediscovers his heart in the process of learning to accept his past and a new way of being in the world.

 

Hope those of you that have a way to watch it, love it as much as I did.

 

Susan R?

 

 

1DCFFE70-7C78-446D-8860-CD85DFF0E239.jpeg

Link to comment
  • 2 weeks later...
  • Forum Moderator
On 6/13/2021 at 3:46 AM, Kasumi63 said:

I just saw this movie! Loved it!

I am so glad you enjoyed it. It’s rare to see a movie with one of the main characters being a transgender individual with a good plot and a happy ending. It was done well.

Link to comment
  • Forum Moderator

Thanks for the review.  I will definitely look for it.

 

Hugs,

 

Charlize

Link to comment
  • 5 months later...

I finally watched this whole movie instead of leaping to the end—I can't stand violence in a story about a child. But I had to trust it, trust myself. I was better for having seen it all in this case. Life can be painful, yet good things can happen.

— Davie

Link to comment
  • Forum Moderator

@Davie Glad you saw it to the end. It was to me a very realistic portrayal and I agree, it hurts to see any child hurt emotionally because of being transgender. It shows how even one person showing love and compassion can make a huge difference in a child’s life. The end had me teared up in a good way. I just wish more people could see it. It was only available on AppleTV+ when I saw it. I hope it gets into other mainstream platforms so I can recommend it to others I know.

Link to comment
4 hours ago, Susan R said:

It shows how even one person showing love and compassion can make a huge difference in a child’s life.

My mother, who was an educator of teachers of English, told me that studies show that just one person is what's needed to make a child come out whole and good from an otherwise horrible situation.  Think poverty and being surrounded by horrible people.  As long as the child has that one person to count on, they come out OK -- Grace.

Link to comment
4 hours ago, Davie said:

I can't stand violence in a story about a child.

Violence and bullying are parts of almost all trans-girl stories that I've read, and I've read a LOT.  Before HRT, I could disassociate and get through those parts without really feeling the impact, but now I have to feel it, which was my goal with HRT anyway.  But it seems that for children who know their identity as a child, it's pretty rough.  Even if the roughness is only typical boy interaction or father-"son" interaction.  "male" interaction is still emotionally difficult for a trans girl, even if its not explicit abuse.  Or implicit abuse because dad is trying to beat the girl out of her.  My step-father was just straight out abusive and I embraced the male role to mitigate that; I hid the emotions deep inside.

 

Grace.

 

 

 

 

Link to comment

 

Thanks for sharing that @GraceHand @Susan R.

Yes, a single bit of light can clear the whole room sometimes.

When I was young my best friend said this to me and it made a huge difference:

"You know, your father is "bleeping" nuts!" That took me out of my isolation with my fears because it made them real. This movie did the same.

— Davie

 

https://www.imdb.com/title/tt6857376/?ref_=fn_al_tt_1

 

Link to comment

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now
  • Who's Online   10 Members, 0 Anonymous, 101 Guests (See full list)

    • Betty K
    • Petra Jane
    • Susie
    • awkward-yet-sweet
    • EasyE
    • Cynthia Slowan
    • Mmindy
    • Kait
    • Ashley0616
    • Vidanjali
  • Recently Browsing   0 members

    • No registered users viewing this page.
  • Forum Statistics

    • Total Topics
      80.8k
    • Total Posts
      769.5k
  • Member Statistics

    • Total Members
      12,071
    • Most Online
      8,356

    Ran91
    Newest Member
    Ran91
    Joined
  • Today's Birthdays

    1. Caridad
      Caridad
    2. Certbunnie
      Certbunnie
      (25 years old)
    3. EstherElle
      EstherElle
      (43 years old)
    4. Juliet
      Juliet
      (43 years old)
    5. MelissaAndProudOfIt
      MelissaAndProudOfIt
      (59 years old)
  • Posts

    • EasyE
      I had a pretty serious porn addiction for awhile (thankfully broken about 12 years ago), and so my wife sees my "trans-ness" tied into that ... to her, it is all one ugly thread of sexual sin and dysfunction... sometimes, I do struggle with it, too. Is this just another branch of a sexual addiction thing? Am I looking for a substitute for the porn?   When I sift through everything it seems much deeper than that. And if anything, the HRT has lowered/changed my libido and it hasn't lowered my desire to move in a more feminine direction with dress, etc. It can be confusing, especially when you are in a very religious/moralistic environment...   To get back to the main topic, the fear of change and the unknown is huge. And like others have said, folks on the fringe of just about any cause tend to be what gets played up in the media and what folks see the most. Not many people see good ol' regular transgender people who are just trying to live their lives, hold down jobs, take care of their families, etc.  
    • Mmindy
      Welcome to Transgender Pulse Forums @Kait   Best wishes, stay positive and motivated.   Mindy🌈🐛🏳️‍⚧️🦋
    • Mmindy
      Good morning everyone,    Coffee and Birds all in one meme.   Hugs,   Mindy🌈🐛🏳️‍⚧️🦋
    • Kait
      Isn't it illegal to be examining people's genitals without their consent?    Could've sworn that was some sort of law already.
    • Ladypcnj
      Hi Vidanjali, both of my parents had pasted on in their lifetimes.
    • Charlize
      Oddly i often feel i pass but then bump into someone who reads my past attempts at maleness.    Last week at the market a man spoke me as i went back to my car.  I heard "You are beautiful"!  Odd!!!!!  Then he said something about marriage and i started to get worried.  Turned out he is married to a trans woman.  He was sweet and probably is tuned to trans folks but it was a bit disquieting.     Hugs,   Charlize
    • April Marie
      I decided to power wash our back porch and the porch furniture so the uniform of the day is a skort, t-shirt over a sports bra and flip flops with my hair pulled back into a ponytail.
    • Mirrabooka
      It's been touched on in another thread, the perception that the folks who scream loudest in favor of free speech are also the loudest in wanting to stifle the freedom of people not like themselves.
    • Mirrabooka
      I wonder if the LGBTQI+ umbrella should be split? Create separate entities for LGB and TQI+ folk?    I have no doubt that some cis het people probably think that sexuality and gender identity are the same thing, for whatever the reason, not necessarily willful ignorance. It would be natural for such people to observe that both LGB and T folk are under the same umbrella, so they must be the same, right?   Just as (and I know I'm making some pretty big assumptions in this post) some cis gay folk would think that the LBGTQI+ umbrella is pie - give trans people a slice, and somehow, they will miss out. Just like cis het folk might also think that their lives are somehow being diminished by allowing trans people to have basic human rights.
    • Heather Shay
    • Heather Shay
      Some anxiety is building up inside.
    • Heather Shay
      Suppressing your emotions because you’re afraid of them can be bad for your physical and mental health. Here’s what to do instead. When a toddler feels a “big” emotion, like anger or sadness, they tend to have a big tantrum on the floor. And these tantrums can be a lot to observe, full of thrashing, screaming, and tears. But a child reacts like this because the emotion they’re feeling is uncomfortable, maybe even painful.   Of course, as adults, we feel emotions too, and those feelings can be just as overwhelming, uncomfortable, or even painful as they were when we were children, even if we don’t let ourselves react in such a big way. But, sometimes, in our attempts to not give in to our emotions, we go too far: we run from them or suppress them — even if that harms us in the long run. Although there are many reasons we might suppress our emotions, one of them is that we are afraid of our emotions. Fear of emotions is called “animotophobia. It is not an official term in the DSM-5-TR. Still, fearing your emotions can have a significant impact on your well-being.      
    • Heather Shay
    • Heather Shay
    • Heather Shay
  • Upcoming Events

Contact TransPulse

TransPulse can be contacted in the following ways:

Email: Click Here.

To report an error on this page.

Legal

Your use of this site is subject to the following rules and policies, whether you have read them or not.

Terms of Use
Privacy Policy
DMCA Policy
Community Rules

Hosting

Upstream hosting for TransPulse provided by QnEZ.

Sponsorship

Special consideration for TransPulse is kindly provided by The Breast Form Store.
×
×
  • Create New...