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I don't know if I'd take them out that soon, myself.  Certainly don't leave them out.  The big thing is  to keep them clean though.

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waa wondering n hoping to just remove

them for the few hours visit to mom or family when I'm butched up..then come home n put them back in quickly as I return to myself   ...

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There actually are a lot of straight guys with earrings.  My oldest son has had them for years and no-one would mistake him for trans.

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true, but my family lives in dark ages, when I told siblings I was trans 1 told me no you're not. laughs. ok, you know better. anyway, was thinking 2 in each ear n be done, like most other girls do. mom would explode n tell me to quit being silly. inner feelings are not big in this family. shrugs

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2 hours ago, missyjo said:

waa wondering n hoping to just remove

them for the few hours visit to mom or family when I'm butched up..then come home n put them back in quickly as I return to myself   ...

 

My piercer said: Don't. At least not for two years and certainly not for long.

 

Hugs!

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You can take them out to switch off and all, but not leave them out.   Some posts are pretty inconspicuous.   

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April Marie, 

 

Good luck dear. Welcome to the club. :)

 

Got 2 holes in each lobe the other day at Claires and so far, i am happy about it. Only drawback? Well, mom doesn't really know about missy (i still change to go see her) and now apparently i need to do a video for a family member's special birthday during the initial healing period of my earing holes. Oh well, life goes on. If it doesn't kill us it makes us stronger. :) Besides, if they cant get over a couple of earrings, what will they say to HRT and breast growth? giggles and blows kisses to all.  

 

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4 hours ago, missyjo said:

Got 2 holes in each lobe the other day at Claires and so far, i am happy about it. 

 

Wow, you jumped right in, didn't you???!!! It's been 2 weeks since I had mine pierced and most people don't even notice. And, those who did were fine with it. I just tell people life is too short not to do what you want.

 

Now we can both enjoy shopping for new earrings!!!!

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I've only got the 1 hole ears…  But now y'all are making me think about it.

I have a cis friend and, lordy, I can't begin to tell how many she has.  She talked me into getting the nose stud… at my age!  LOL.  

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April Marie,

blushes n nods, guess I did..but dear, been pondering missy soooo long..now it's sort of like heck, I'm gonna be happy even if you don't like me anymore or approve. shrugs. I know that's reckless but...so what. they're earrings, I'm not a child eating troll or a rapist..that's my rationalization to them

 smiles.

 

my friends noticed immediately

 giggles. hey, we got them to be seen n enjoyed.

once the newness wears off, I don't expect any comments of shock.

 

I went 2 because I saw most cis girls with 2 holes, so I want to blend. 

 

yes dear let's shop together n have fun just being ourselves 

smiles n hugs 

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16 minutes ago, Ivy said:

I've only got the 1 hole ears…  But now y'all are making me think about it.

I have a cis friend and, lordy, I can't begin to tell how many she has.  She talked me into getting the nose stud… at my age!  LOL.  

Too funny!!! Wear it with pride, girl!!!

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9 minutes ago, missyjo said:

April Marie,

blushes n nods, guess I did..but dear, been pondering missy soooo long..now it's sort of like heck, I'm gonna be happy even if you don't like me anymore or approve. shrugs. I know that's reckless but...so what. they're earrings, I'm not a child eating troll or a rapist..that's my rationalization to them

 smiles.

 

my friends noticed immediately

 giggles. hey, we got them to be seen n enjoyed.

once the newness wears off, I don't expect any comments of shock.

 

I went 2 because I saw most cis girls with 2 holes, so I want to blend. 

 

yes dear let's shop together n have fun just being ourselves 

smiles n hugs 

Life is too short not to do what makes you happy!!  You rock!!!

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giggles n smiles. darling I'm just trying to be the person I think I'm supposed to be, and looking to friends in these forums for support n guidance.  

let's all have fun dear. life is too short indeed. sometimes that thief in the night refers to our loved ones going n not us, so enjoy every day as much as you can girls. we only pass this way once. hugs

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