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Heather Shay

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Being our lives are determined so deeply by our emotions and all my life I compartmentalized my emotions to the point of not feeling, I think it might be good to discuss what each emotion is and help you develop asking yourself what you are feeling beside  good or bad, so you can decide what to do with the emotion. Among emotions are:

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ad·mi·ra·tion
/ˌadməˈrāSH(ə)n/
noun
 
  1. respect and warm approval.
    "their admiration for each other was genuine"
     

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con·ster·na·tion
/ˌkänstərˈnāSH(ə)n/
  1. feelings of anxiety or dismay, typically at something unexpected.
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en·vy

/ˈenvē/

noun

1.      a feeling of discontented or resentful longing aroused by someone else's possessions, qualities, or luck.

"she felt a twinge of envy for the people on board"

verb

1.      desire to have a quality, possession, or other desirable attribute belonging to (someone else).

"he envied people who did not have to work on weekends"

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jeal·ous
/ˈjeləs/
feeling or showing envy of someone or their achievements and advantages.
  1. "he grew jealous of her success"
    feeling or showing suspicion of someone's unfaithfulness in a relationship.
    "a jealous boyfriend"
    fiercely protective or vigilant of one's rights or possessions.
    "Howard is still a little jealous of his authority"
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ap·pre·hen·sion
/ˌaprəˈhen(t)SH(ə)n/
  1. 1.
    anxiety or fear that something bad or unpleasant will happen.
    "he felt sick with apprehension"
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I'll make it a combination of sleepy, and needy for this evening.  Somebody better curl up next to me fairly soon.  😴

 

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dis·gust
/dəˈskəst,disˈɡəst/
cause (someone) to feel revulsion or profound disapproval.
"I was disgusted with myself for causing so much misery"
a feeling of revulsion or strong disapproval aroused by something unpleasant or offensive.
"the sight filled her with disgust"
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enervated :

(adjective)
Drained of energy or vitality.
"Daniel felt too enervated to resist"
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22 minutes ago, Mx.Drago said:

enervated :

(adjective)
Drained of energy or vitality.
"Daniel felt too enervated to resist"

You've described my resting state

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I woke up today feeling sad and started crying for no apparent reason.  There is no reason I should be sad.  In fact I should be happy since I'm going to an appointment with the doctor doing my FFS.  I tried calling my therapist but she was busy.  I don't understand it.  I've taken all of my meds so that isn't the problem.  I have no clue what is the problem.  I'll be driving into Chicago and I'm worried that my state of mind is going to affect my driving.

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Just now, LaurenA said:

I woke up today feeling sad and started crying for no apparent reason.  There is no reason I should be sad.  In fact I should be happy since I'm going to an appointment with the doctor doing my FFS.  I tried calling my therapist but she was busy.  I don't understand it.  I've taken all of my meds so that isn't the problem.  I have no clue what is the problem.  I'll be driving into Chicago and I'm worried that my state of mind is going to affect my driving.

It's alright to just be sad sometimes. It happens. If you need to talk lmk ❤️

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Well I crave romance even though now I should live for me. The hormones have me feeling the want to be desired and appreciated. I have crashed and burned more times than I can even count. I know she is out there and give it time but it still doesn't change how I feel. I know what it feels like to be on your own. There are pluses and minuses but to be able to cuddle with someone's arms around me would be amazing. I would love to be the little spoon. I have always been jealous of romantic movies of how every single time they always connect with someone except the "Break Up" but that in itself is already in the title so you know what to expect. I could easily go on and on about how much I crave about it but it's not going to do anything. 

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shame
/SHām/
  1. a painful feeling of humiliation or distress caused by the consciousness of wrong or foolish behavior.
     
     
    I struggled with this one A LOT.
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anx·ious
/ˈaNG(k)SHəs/
experiencing worry, unease, or nervousness, typically about an imminent event or something with an uncertain outcome.
"she was extremely anxious about her exams"
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TRIGGERED

A trigger is a person, place, thing, or situation that elicits an intense or unexpected emotional response. Any sensory stimulus can be a potential trigger. Triggers are unique from threats. Essentially, a non-threatening stimulus is triggering an autonomic (fight-or-flight) response.

When you're feeling triggered, it can feel like you're reliving a traumatic experience. 

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fear

[ feer ]

noun
  1. a distressing emotion aroused by impending danger, evil, pain, etc., whether the threat is real or imagined; the feeling or condition of being afraid.

  2. a specific instance of or propensity for such a feeling: an abnormal fear of heights.

verb (used with object)
  1. to regard with fear; be afraid of.

  2. to have reverential awe of.

verb (used without object)
  1. to have fear; be afraid: I'll go with you, so do not fear!

  2. to feel apprehensive or uneasy (usually followed by for😞In this time of economic instability, I fear for my children's future.

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con·fu·sion
/kənˈfyo͞oZH(ə)n/
1.lack of understanding; uncertainty.
"there seems to be some confusion about which system does what"
2.the state of being bewildered or unclear in one's mind about something.
"she looked about her in confusion"
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an·ger
/ˈaNGɡər/
  1. a strong feeling of annoyance, displeasure, or hostility.
    "she could barely restrain her anger at this comment"
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BOREDOM....

In conventional usage, boredom, ennui, or tedium is an emotional and occasionally psychological state experienced when an individual is left without anything in particular to do, is listless and dissatisfied due to a lack of occupation or excitement, is not interested in their surroundings, or feels that a day or period is dull or tedious. It is also understood by scholars as a modern phenomenon which has a cultural dimension. "There is no universally accepted definition of boredom. But whatever it is, researchers argue, it is not simply another name for depression or apathy. It seems to be a specific mental state that people find unpleasant—a lack of stimulation that leaves them craving relief, with a host of behavioral, medical and social consequences." According to BBC News, boredom "...can be a dangerous and disruptive state of mind that damages your health"; yet research "...suggest[s] that without boredom we couldn't achieve our creative feats.

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ANXIETY

 

Anxiety is a feeling of fear, dread, and uneasiness. It might cause you to sweat, feel restless and tense, and have a rapid heartbeat. It can be a normal reaction to stress. For example, you might feel anxious when faced with a difficult problem at work, before taking a test, or before making an important decision.

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de·spair
  1. the complete loss or absence of hope.
    "in despair, I hit the bottle"
     
    THIS IS A HORRIBLE EMOTION TO FEEL _ BUT WHEN FWEELING _ REMEMBER THERE IS ALWAYS HOPE.
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Shame is an unpleasant self-conscious emotion often associated with negative self-evaluation; motivation to quit; and feelings of pain, exposure, distrust, powerlessness, and worthlessness.
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