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What Makes A Car Look Like Its Owner Is Male Or Female?lol


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Guest laura renee

Yes, putting more than one post in a day which is a little unusual for me, lol. How can most people tell if a cars owner is a male or female or any other combination of the two without seeing the owner and just looking at the car. I drive a 2002 ford windstar and wondering what I could do to show more feminine touch to the van and do not care too much what people thinki since most called it a soccer mom van which never sounds bad to me,lol. Any suggestions would be nice and thanks in advance and I know everyone is different in how they take care or personalize their car.

Laura Renee

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Guest ~Brenda~

Hi Sweetie :)

I am so glad that you are posting more!!!!

Hang some trinkets with feathers or fuzzy (pink) from you rear view mirror :)

That will do the trick :)

HUGS

Brenda

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Guest BeckyTG

Laura,

Great question. As Brenda said, hang things from the center inside rear-view mirror. Any kind of trinkets or flowers will do nicely.

Steering wheel covers--can't be burning your tender fingers on a hot wheel or freezing them on a frosty one. Leopard print is a good choice.

Little bitty small stuffed animals--tucked into an open door panel, cup holder, corner of the dash or rear shelf.

Finally, flowers or air fresheners most anywhere. Stuck in the dash vents are a plus.

Happy decorating,

Becky

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Guest Donna Jean

Oh yes, cool....

I never liked something hanging down in front of the windshield...

But, now I have a string of red hearts (Hurricane beads) that I got from Lizzy (I won't say how SHE got them!)

And I'm looking for a pink "Breast Cancer Awareness" ribbon to stick on the back of the car!

HUGGS!

Donna Jean

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Guest sarah f

Do you have kids? If you do and any of them are a girl you can put a princess on board sticker on the back window. You don't have to tell anyone that is for you. :lol: Look for other girly stickers to put on the back windshield also. Like the others said just hanging something in the mirror also does the trick.

Dee Jay, I love the pink breast cancer awareness sticker. If you find one let me know because I would like to have one also.

Love,

Sarah F

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Guest nymphblossom

I worked in a gas station for years and we could ALWAYS tell when a car that came in belonged to a woman. If you want your car to be unmistakably, absolutely positively obvious it is owned by a woman, keep it messy. Soda cans and fast food wrappers behind the driver's seat, lipsticks, pencils and coins lost around the console, sticky soda and coffee satins on the carpet and upholstery, magazines all over the back seat. Guys NEVER have a messy car.

Blossom

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Guest sarah f

A really cute girly car Angie is a Volkswaggon Bug. A convertible is even better. You have a cup holder that you can put flowers in it. I always think to myself that is such a girly car. Put a peace sign on the back and you are there.

Love,

Sarah F

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Guest Donna Jean

Yeah..........Bugs rule!

I've got a little Geo Tracker...it's tiny, but 4wheel drive...

I just love that thing...nothing macho about that car!.....LOL

Donna Jean

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Guest daphene

I gotta agree with blossom because that is always how my wifes car and my daughters cars look. really messy and dirty. Something must be wrong with me though, because my truck always looks new and clean. I think it might be hard to get someone to think a woman drives my truck because it is a 4wd crew cab silverado which is a big truck. I think I need to trade for a more feminine car.

Hugs,

Daphene

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Guest ChristineMN

I drive a Geo Prism with faerie decals on the back window and some flowers hanging off the rear view. I've been told it looks like a chick's car. I woud totally love a convertable VW bug.

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Guest Joanna Phipps
I drive a Geo Prism with faerie decals on the back window and some flowers hanging off the rear view. I've been told it looks like a chick's car. I woud totally love a convertable VW bug.

Soccer Mom car here, I have a Kia Sedona minivan

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I have a 2000 Caravan, it is dark blue, people call it a soccer mom van, messy inside yup, and i have a couple strands of mardi gras beads Donna Jean gave me hanging from my mirror.

Paula

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Guest Donna Jean
I have a 2000 Caravan, it is dark blue, people call it a soccer mom van, messy inside yup, and i have a couple strands of mardi gras beads Donna Jean gave me hanging from my mirror.

Paula

{{{{{HUGGGG}}}}}}

I need some feathers and other girlie things hanging down from my mirror!

Donna Jean

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I got a black vw golf , its spotless in the cabin Mmmmmm,

pink respray and make cabin untidy ??? LOL, seriously tho,

there are ""female""air freshners you can use like a small doll

with a Lavander scent . The Breast Awareness stickers are

available throughout Ireland . If your car reeks of perfume

I would say you are making a statement . luv,viv :)

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Guest Joanna Phipps
{{{{{HUGGGG}}}}}}

I need some feathers and other girlie things hanging down from my mirror!

Donna Jean

hmmm feathers and handcuffs maybe... um wait.. that may not be pg13 giggles

dont ask, re the cuffs ok

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Guest Joanna Phipps
Joanna you kinky little girl you.

Love,

Sarah F

Moi, kinky... naw.. totally twisted yep.... and if you believe that I have some ocean front in Arizona you might be interested in

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Guest NatalieRene

My car is just a old black 2002 Honda Civic Coupe. I picked two doors because I thought the body style looked more sleek. However I can count the number of times I have washed it on one hand since I bought it in 2005. I have a rather big dent in my car from backing up although ironically it is on the front bumper on the passenger side. I hit a poll trying to back around a corner at idle and the bumper crumpled like paper. I'm not going to bother fixing it because truth be told I just don't care. The car still runs fine so I'm happy.

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A messy car is feminine?

Wow, I still have the fast food wrappers on the back floorboard from the meal I ate on my way to meet Dee jay and Lizzy in Memphis (in September)

Woo Hoo, I thought I was going to have to clean it!

Well I will shovel out the trunk if I need to put a suitcase in there.

I cannot stand things hanging from the mirror - at my height the mirror itself blocks a good deal of my view to the right.

And as to not asking how Lizzy came by those Mardi Gras beads is a good idea - she gave me a pile of them too - I think they are still in the trunk! :lol:

This car was the first four door sedan that I have ever owned (unless you count the 56 Chevy my Aunt gave me in college) I have owned six and kept two of them for over 14 years each.

Love ya,

Sally, The Collector

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Guest Elizabeth K

ummmmm

I drove a black VW bug - convertible for 10 years?

I drive a dark red Mitsubichi convertable now?

I DO have a breast health awareness sticker onthe back?

I hang Mardi Gras beads on the rear view mirror.

I have much of my makeup and sometimes my earrings on the cup in the dash?

I certainly have a messy car!

Am I a girl?

I think its the second looks I get when I drive - my hair down, my earrings in.

A girly car to me would be one that has about two hundred cutesy bumper stickers on it! We need one that says "Laura's Playground! Hot pink lettering on a plum colored background

HA!

Lizzy

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A messy car is feminine?

Wow, I still have the fast food wrappers on the back floorboard from the meal I ate on my way to meet Dee jay and Lizzy in Memphis (in September)

Love ya,

Sally, The Collector

Sally, Honey....could you check under there? I think that I lost an apple there somewhere when I rode in the back....

And, Lizzy.....you, me, Sally and Paula have some of your Mardi Gras beads hanging from our mirrors!

I have my purse on the seat or floorboard of the car most of the time...does that count?

Huggs

Donna Jean

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