Devastated

[Guest sarah f]

Thank you all so much. It has gotten somewhat physical but not sexual, mostly cuddling and one night that I had stayed over and slept with him. Yes actual sleeping well after talking half the night away in bed. I like him a lot, dumping him or being dumped would be very difficult for me.

I know what you all mean about wanting to be with a guy just because they treat you like a woman but really don't have feelings for the person. I had a date with a guy a few weeks before meeting Greg and his name was Dean. He was a really nice, sweet and smart guy but I just didn't feel the chemistry and he was clingy. Then there was the coworker that asked me to go out last weekend in what I thought was asking me out as a friend but tried to take advantage of me. Both treated me like a woman, highly desirable, but in each case I rejected them.

I still really like Greg. I just hope he can forget about her and focus on what he has.

Natalie I can only wish you the best with Greg. I really hope that he will see what a beautiful and loving woman he has. I hope it works out for you.

[Guest N.Chaos]

Agh, Natalie I'm sorry. That's a crap position to be in, but at least he was honest enough to tell you the truth.

All I can say is the same as everyone, whether you end up with him or someone else, I hope it's someone that deserves you and more importantly, someone you're happy with.