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Guest CharliTo

...get a room u two :3.... lol.

my good thing life...is... hm.... whoa, i might have to think hard on this one actually. lol

okay, i can say that this forum is definitely one good thing too :3

...and maybe facebook.

...and my friends.

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Guest Donna Jean
Outing to my best guy friend tomorrow - he hasn't seen me in three-four months. Should be interesting!

Lizzy

Good luck, Sweetie.....

All my thoughts will be with you for this....

Interesting = understatement

****BIGG HUGGS****

Donna Jean

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Guest OneOutOfnOne

I am in all sorts of limbo right now: gender limbo, relationship limbo, country-of-residence limbo, education limbo, career limbo, possibly more.

So what's my good thing? I just realized that it would be hilarious to rename a certain part of my anatomy the 'limbo stick'.

Also, I'm good at bad jokes again. This skill is very important to me, and I was quite concerned when I seemed to have lost it for most of the last year.

Also, one hundred posts?

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Guest Jackson

Bad jokes are very important. If there were no bad jokes, how would we know the good jokes were good?

I'm just happy because I just finished my final exam for my fourth semester in my grad school program. I have three weeks off, but I have enough work to do for school though. I have five more semesters to go and then graduation in December 2010. So I'm almost half-way through my program.

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Guest Naomi Stardust

i finally got my referral to a gender specialist, only a week late but i don't care! it's here

will make an appointment monday morning :D

i'm happy, that's odd

i'm still nervous about the future

but those feelings are not in control

:D :D :D

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Hmm, good things in life. Well, despite not feeling too good about a lot of things recently, I do know that I have a supporting family as well as friends, who all just want to help me out. I just need to try and stay positive ^_^

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I had a home invasion/raid by my ex and her family with a moving truck coming for her stuff - a phone call with only a five minute warning - they didn't want any witnesses - they didn't take too much that they had no right o and if I can't get any of it back it is a low price to be rid of them.

I have decided to view this as they have settled - when they left I found her wedding band on my night stand - looks like its finally over, I hope!

Why is this a good thing?

Because my wonderful friedns here PMed and called me and cheered me up.

My mother took me to dinner and did not make a mention of my transsexuality either way so there was no tensin, just caring and comfort, just what I needed - there is that silver lining again!

Love ya,

Sally

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Guest Donna Jean
I have decided to view this as they have settled - when they left I found her wedding band on my night stand - looks like its finally over, I hope!

Why is this a good thing?

Because my wonderful friedns here PMed and called me and cheered me up.

My mother took me to dinner and did not make a mention of my transsexuality either way so there was no tensin, just caring and comfort, just what I needed - there is that silver lining again!

Love ya,

Sally

Wonderful things, indeed, Sally! You're finally getting a resolution to the marriage thing and I do know how much you want to get out from under that! Good for you, Sweetheart!

My good thing is that I got "Ladied" twice this weekend ....and I'm feeling awesome!....lol

Unstopable now!

Donna Jean

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Because my wonderful Friends here PMed and called me and cheered me up.

My mother took me to dinner and did not make a mention of my trans sexuality either way so there was no tensin, just caring and comfort, just what I needed - there is that silver lining again!

Love ya,

Sally

Sally,Way to turn a potentially depressing and angry situation into a positive forward step.

My good thing is I came out to my best friend and his wife and there were tears of joy from them and a one hour phone conversation from Florida....

And Also D.J. is passing now and ready for the LADIE"S ROOM :D

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Guest Zabrak

Well....I got some more extra money today. Also go a bunch of stuff in order. Have to send in one more thing and then my name change papers should come in. Then I can start changing all my bank/school/exc over to it.

Been feeling really laid back this weekend. Going to go work out and make some food now.

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Guest RainBird

I'm going out to town for tea this evening then catching up with a few friends afterwards. :)

BTW a tourist who approached me on Thirsday night adressed me as 'miss' when he asked me a question. It didn't even bother him when he heard my voice either, I thought that was really cool! :)

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Guest OneOutOfnOne

I started writing a piece for orchestra yesterday. This is going to be something big, I haven't composed in too long.

In addition, I found a place to live next year: it's a house with five-bedrooms and an impressively large kitchen, and all of us living there next year like the same music. It's official, I guess it's back to the USA for a while.

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hmm.. well i've been picking up a lot more shifts at work, which is definitely a good thing... because in this society, money is necessary :rolleyes: but it also means that i have almost zero social life and am barely able to be active on the forums... take the good with the bad i guess *shrugs* :)

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Guest Donna Jean
my first appointment with a gender specialist is today at one!! :D :D :D

OMG, Naomi!

Now THAT is truly wonderful news! Good luck Honey...let it all out....

It scared me at first, but once I started talking, I couldn't shut up!!

Now I look forward to it every week! My therapist probably says "Oh God, there she goes again!"...lol

But now I'm letting out half a century of stuff! (Sounds like a long time when you say it that way!)

This is great news, Sweetheart! I'm really so happy for you! Let us know how it went....OK?

**BIGG HUGG ****

Donna Jean

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my first appointment with a gender specialist is today at one!! :D :D :D

That makes me very happy too! :D

Work has been coming in very slowly for me this year so I took a very small wedding for Saturday, just a few hours - today I got a call to shoot a dance competition with 102 performances - jus speculations, but parents buy that sort of thing - so I am going to start it off, my assistant will shoot while I am away at the wedding and I'll come back to finish it up. Everything for sale on the Internet and I am plitting the profits with my assistant - it could be nothing or it could be a gold mine!

People have found my studio's number! :lol:

Love ya,

Sally

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Lots of good thing happened today :D

I had another appointment with the psychologist who I've been talking to about this gender stuff, which was good. On top of that, I got a referral from her to an endocrinologist so I can start taking a testosterone blocker :D

And then after that I went shopping and now have some new clothes to wear. So yay! Good stuff for me today ^_^

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Guest Jackson

I feel like I've been a stranger since I've been so busy with real life lately. I've collected a bunch of good things in the last week:

1. The federal government owes me a refund big enough to cover my total top surgery and then some. That'll be scheduled some time this winter. I can't be taking time off from my reenacting season.

2. I aced my fourth semester in grad school and in about six semesters weeks (eight weeks real life) I'll be half-way done.

3. I survived the appraisal on my house which included fixing and painting the porch and installing a stair banister (looks really good for a first-timer). The appraiser is the same kind of crazy as me and half of the appraisal we were talking about the government.

2. I spent two days (yesterday and the day before) having a mini-vacation: an overnight camping trip into the 1880's in a cabin with no electricity, no running water in the middle of nowhere. I got up yesterday morning from sleeping in front of a fire to hear owls and sand hill cranes. We went riding and kicked up deer, turkey, and coyote.

Whew. A busy eight days if I do say so myself.

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A very good thing is that my friend Jackson is back and having a run of good luck! :)

I got through yesterday and no way today could possibly be as bad, could it?

Love ya,

Sally

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Guest Leigh

the other day, i was feeling crappy. and i walked outside and there was this huge double rainbow...i considered it a gift from the gay gods...lol. made me smile.

peace&love

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I got two new kitties from an animal shelter a week ago, they seem to hide all day and come out at night, my friend calls them the vampire kitties from outer space :lol: , the woman from the shelter called the other day and was pleased they were doing so good.

Paula.

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